Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke
Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke
Overcoming PTSD
#80 Control in Relationships and Addictions | Recovery Secrets Series
58 minutes Posted Jan 16, 2026 at 12:00 pm.
Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
Welcome and Announcements
Today's Focus: Control in Relationships and Addictions
Understanding Control and Acceptance
Control in Addictions: Personal Insights
Practical Steps to Regain Control
Identifying and Breaking Habits
Breaking Free from Addictions
The Power of Pushing Through Resistance
Controlling Your Thoughts and Actions
Empowerment Through Control
Steps to Regain Control
Applying Control in Daily Life
The Illusion of Control
Emotional Control and Acceptance
Focusing on What Matters
Upcoming Topics and Final Thoughts
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Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and Kaylene break down one of the most confusing parts of PTSD and trauma recovery: control. If you’ve ever felt out of control in your relationships, addictions, or habits, this episode helps you see exactly where your real power actually lives.
You’ll learn why trying to control other people, outcomes, or the past always creates more pain—and how to shift that energy into what you can control: your thoughts, actions, and how you process emotions. Brad and Kaylene walk through real-life examples like drinking, scrolling social media, binge-watching TV, overspending, and nitpicking your partner.
You’ll also hear a powerful reframe on addiction and “powerlessness,” and how to understand the moment when control really starts to slip. By the end, you’ll have a simple mental checklist you can use daily to stop wasting energy on what you can’t change and start building calm, confidence, and real momentum in your healing.
 
💡 What You’ll Learn
How to recognize when you’re trying to control things you simply can’t
The three things you always have control over, even with PTSD or trauma
How to spot the red flags that a habit or addiction is actually running you
Why time “slipping through your fingers” is a sign of lost control
How to redirect your focus from controlling others to changing your own actions
A simple question to ask yourself whenever you feel regret after a behavior
How to use short-term resistance to build long-term freedom from addiction
Practical ways to stop nitpicking and control battles in your relationships
How focusing on what you can control builds confidence and lowers anxiety
 
🧠 Key Takeaway
You can’t control other people, the past, or every emotion—but you can always control your thoughts, your actions, and how you respond, and that’s where your real power is.
 
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Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • control in relationships • addiction recovery • sobriety and PTSD • letting go of control • acceptance and PT