In part 2 of our conversation with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice we focus on exposing the dark side of the church by providing 10 tips for supporting victims of clergy sexual abuse. In this episode, we dive deeper into our conversation with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors of clergy sexual abuse. Carolyn discusses the systemic problems within churches that silence female victims, the patriarchal power structures, and the importance of trauma-informed advocacy in hopes of bringing the dark side of the church to light. We wanted to cover essential topics such as the DARVO response, empowering survivors, and the crucial steps churches can take to address abuse actively. We want to encourage you to engage in intentional, informed, and supportive actions, following the ten outlined principles by Hagar's Voice to support victims effectively. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower // LINKS // WEBSITE: https://www.hagarsvoice.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hagarsvoice/ APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hagars-voice/id1625737917 SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/6btRBYcgIb8ZRHb7yRvB61 *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Hagar's Voice is a movement that believes together we can stop clergy sexual abuse through empowering, advocating , and giving a voice to victims. This episode with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice has been in the making for months and we are extremely excited to share this conversation with you. Hagar's Voice is a movement that exists to strategically support survivors of clergy sexual abuse & advocate to move the needle against abuse in religious spaces. In this episode we explore how Hagar's voice was founded, the complexities of power dynamics, trauma-informed care, and how to advocate for those affected by clergy sexual abuse. Join us for this two-part series that you will not want to miss. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower // LINKS // WEBSITE: https://www.hagarsvoice.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hagarsvoice/ APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hagars-voice/id1625737917 SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/6btRBYcgIb8ZRHb7yRvB61 *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

"Is my relationship doomed"? If you've ever asked yourself this question, this is the conversation for you. In this incredibly important episode, we discuss the five principles of trust laid out by John Gottman in the Science of Trust which are crucial for identifying healthy (or toxic and predatory) relationships. It is very important to be able to recognize trustworthiness in relationships. Drawing from John Gottman's book 'The Science of Trust,' we explore five key principles: honesty, transparency, accountability, ethics, and alliance. We share our personal experiences with predatory relationships, emphasizing the need for clarity and agency to protect oneself. We also want to encourage listeners to actively apply these principles in your relationships to identify and avoid harmful dynamics. Join the conversation and learn how to empower yourself to spot predators and cultivate trustworthy relationships. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

In order to gain a better understanding of religious coercive control it is important to understand post traumatic church disorder. In this episode of Prey versus Predator, with our guest Sarah, we discuss the impact of coercive religions and relationships on individuals, focusing on the concept of 'Post Traumatic Church Syndrome.' Sarah, from Sacred Unraveling, shares her personal story of leaving a coercive religion and an abusive relationship. She describes how both experiences had profound effects on her mental health, self-esteem, and ability to recognize and respond to red flags. Sarah outlines her journey of deconstruction - critically examining and re-evaluating her beliefs, leading to a process of healing and empowerment. In the second part of the episode, Sarah highlights the importance of having resources and language to understand and articulate experiences with coercion and abuse. Through Sacred Unraveling, Sarah aims to provide support and hope to others in similar situations, offering insights on recognizing abuse, reclaiming personal power, and the path to recovery. The discussion emphasizes the role of community, awareness, and the empowering realization that survivors have voices and choices. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

What are ways to spot a predator? Surprisingly, there are lessons of coercive control to glean from classic fairy tales! Through a close reading of Little Red Riding Hood, we can actually find some helpful insights into predatory tactics! In this episode of Prey VS Predator, we explore elements of coercive control through the lens of this classic fairy tale, and look into how the wolf's behavior—using love bombing, dismissiveness, and feigning victimhood—parallels the tactics of predators in real life. We also examine how predators often manipulate perceptions to appear as victims, confusing their prey and exploiting their caregiving instincts. We hope this episode equips you with the knowledge and strategies to guard against predatory behavior, fostering a deeper understanding of coercive control dynamics in various contexts. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

This is Coercive Control, and the nightmare of Post-Separation Abuse. Welcome to Part 2 of our conversation with Courtney Gilmartin from New Jersey Protective Moms. In this episode, we discuss the realities of dealing with coercive control within the context of separation and custody battles. Courtney shares her journey of escaping an abusive relationship, only to face ongoing legal and personal challenges, including manipulation, stalking, and intimidation from her ex-husband, even in the presence of law enforcement and judicial oversight. Despite obtaining multiple restraining orders and engaging in legal battles for the safety of herself and her children, Courtney details the systemic failures that often re-victimize survivors. She highlights the importance of understanding coercive control, the impact on children, and the struggle for legal recognition of non-physical forms of abuse. Courtney also discusses her advocacy work through NJprotectivemoms.org, aiming to support other survivors and push for legislative changes to address coercive control and abusive litigation in family law. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower // GUEST LINKS // Website: https://www.njprotectivemoms.org/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@courtsgilmartin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/courtney.gilmartin/ *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Domestic Abuse can often be hidden in plain sight, which is the dark truth of coercive control. In this episode, we dive into the nuances of coercive control, a pervasive yet often misunderstood form of domestic abuse. We welcome Courtney Gilmartin, from New Jersey Protective Moms, who shares her harrowing story of surviving an abusive relationship marked by manipulation, control, and terror. Courtney's story describes the gradual and insidious nature of coercive control, as she recounts the escalation from subtle manipulations to overt acts of violence and abuse. The discussion highlights the challenges of recognizing and combating coercive control, especially when societal and systemic biases often dismiss or minimize these abuses. Through this conversation, we aim to educate listeners on the signs of coercive control, offer support to victims and survivors, and advocate for broader understanding and change. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower // GUEST LINKS // Website: https://www.njprotectivemoms.org/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@courtsgilmartin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/courtney.gilmartin/ *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

This sneaky tactic is how abusers and narcissists isolate their victims. It's called flying monkeys, and it's as insidious as it sounds. Welcome back to Prey Versus Predator. In this episode we explore the concept of 'flying monkeys' within the context of abusive relationships and narcissistic manipulation. A flying monkey is someone who a predator enlists in order to alienate and harass their victims in order to further the victim's isolation and trauma. We share many personal examples of how we have experienced these Flying Monkeys in our own lives. This episode offers insights on recognizing and dealing with flying monkeys, advocating for victims to establish boundaries and protect themselves from further harm. Additionally, it provides advice for listeners to avoid becoming flying monkeys themselves, highlighting the importance of questioning narratives that paint others in a negative light without evidence. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Chad Harris, a cult survivor who aims to take down the IBLP cult and Bill Gothard, shares the truth about his experience with this dangerous cult. Welcome to part two of our conversation with Chad Harris, featured in the 'Shiny Happy People Duggar Family Secrets' docuseries! In this episode, Chad discusses his journey of escaping the highly controlling and cultish environment of the Institute of Basic Life Principles (IBLP) and its homeschooling branch, the Advanced Training Institute (ATI). Chad shares the physical and emotional repercussions of being raised in such an environment, his process of deconstructing his faith, and his pursuit of happiness outside of fundamentalism. He also touches on the systemic issues within IBLP, his goals to see the institution shut down and Bill Gothard brought to justice, and his current spiritual stance as an atheist open to possibilities. Finally, we discuss the grooming of males within IBLP, the impact of coercive control, and the importance of listening to one's authentic self. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower // GUEST LINKS // Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@archradish Twitter: twitter.com/ArchRadish Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/archradish85/ *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Chad Harris from Shiny Happy People shares his shocking story of living the majority of his life under the Controlling Cults known as the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) Movement and the Advanced Training Institute (ATI). We are so excited to have Chad Harris on Prey VS Predator. Chad discusses his background growing up and living in the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church cult. Chad was raised in a strict and isolated environment, where his upbringing was marked by fear, emotional, and physical abuse under the guise of religious discipline. We learned that a turning point came when Chad began to question the abusive and secretive practices within the church, especially after learning about alleged crimes committed by respected members of the community, including Bill Gothard. Chad was mainly met with silence and avoidance, particularly from his father, a preacher who had previously been vocal against other injusticies. This revelation prompted Chad to leave the church, seek therapy, and eventually share his story publicly, contributing to the ‘Shiny Happy People’ docu-series on Amazon. We also dive into the complexities of distinguishing between Prey and Predator roles within such controlling environments, questioning how power dynamics and fear can silence dissent and perpetuate abuse. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.