Discussing my time in Asia and what I have learnt during my time solo travelling.

Did you know most of your haters are the ones closest to you? People love to claim they’ve always supported you, but they only show up when they see you winning. Let the undercover haters hate , just keep thriving, and never let them see you when you're down.

I'm in Asia, and the time difference is slowly killing me, making it hard to catch my people in real time. So, while I may be alone out here, I’m not lonely, just missing a little home connection, that’s all.

When you want to reach out to someone but resist the urge, you just record it instead lol. But here’s the real question: can guys and girls ever really just be friends? Maybe not if there were feelings involved, even from just one side. This is just a random, messy recording, but honestly... I’m over playing games with men. Now, I only entertain them when I’m bored.

It’s going to be okay, simple as that. Whatever doesn’t break you will teach you, and every challenge is a lesson. Just keep pushing. You’ve got this.

Surround yourself with the kind of people who bring out your inner child, the ones who let you be fully, unapologetically YOU without an ounce of judgment. A big thank-you to everyone in my life who makes it feel perfectly okay to embrace my inner child (even if I’m technically an adult child, details, details!). You’re the real MVPs! 🫶🎈

I know not everyone shares my faith or believes in the same God that I do, but there’s a saying that has stayed with me through thick and thin. Though I’ve spoken it and believed it before, I’ve now decided to embrace it wholeheartedly: to place my hope, faith, and trust in God. Or, for those who see it differently, to trust that the universe knows what’s meant for me. What’s mine will find me, without resistance, doubt, or fear. "Let God take the wheel" became my guiding mantra for 2024, born from a time when everything in my life felt like it was falling apart. It’s my reminder to surrender, trust the process, and keep moving forward with faith that brighter days are ahead. 🌟

Hello - What follows is a heartfelt conversation I envisioned having with someone dear to me though they shall remain unnamed and undescribed. At times, I find it easier to record my thoughts and feelings rather than express them directly. Perhaps it’s the fear of overwhelming them emotionally, or maybe it’s simply my way of processing. Either way, this is my little refuge, where I let my emotions breathe freely without the weight of expectation/immediate vulnerability.

Friendship boundaries, let’s talk about them because, honestly, they don’t get nearly enough attention. While we pour so much energy into defining the limits of our romantic or familial relationships, our platonic connections often get left on autopilot. But shouldn’t they deserve the same care? Establishing clear, non-negotiable standards in friendships is essential for personal growth and day-to-day understanding. What behaviours will you accept, and what won’t you tolerate in a friend? Have you taken the time to consider this? It might be the missing piece holding your friendships back from reaching their next level.

Not me saying I don’t want to get into things and then immediately getting into things. Classic me, right? I sound like I’m high, but nope just super happy and delirious from a serious lack of sleep. So yeah, enjoy listening to my sleep-deprived ramblings! 😅