As an established, married couple we operate through the poly and CNM world in a particular way. You assume because the people you're engaging with are also open/poly that you would all naturally land on the same page... this just isn't the case. Like within anything in life experience dictates your view point and you have to work hard to bridge the gaps in this to help one another understand why you're 'operating' as you are!
We've had this title prepared for weeks but weren't sure how to best approach it until a couple of days before our recent break with Bunny we hit on the idea of properly interviewing her to try and help couples who are dating others to understand how they may view you and why.
This is our longest episode to date but there's a lot of great content (we think) but also we feel it was valid to keep it in.
Sorry in advance for the poor sound quality - there isn't a filter on air bnb for 'Podcast Acoustics'...

Media Review - 

Ask me about Polyamory

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Ask-Me-About-Polyamory-Cuddles/dp/099646011X

What’s in your pocket?

Bustle

https://www.bustle.com/wellness/poly-relationship-terms-metamour-nesting-partner