This weeks episode did not go to plan... So we've had to panic record a quick update (and an apology) and we'll be back on track for Episode 100 next week.As always, send us your feedback, ideas and advice to [email protected] in bio 💚

This CNM journey can be a rocky one and in this episode we took a closer look at why people would pause from it. The focus was mainly supposed to be swinging but it’s us so there are natural intersections and free flowing conversations that goes across a spectrum of CNM practices!Link in the bio ❤️

There were a lot of feelings and emotions going around with this particular episode. Butcher got angry, Hunter talked her down 🤣 Guess when you’re debating feelings and their place within ENM, polyamory and swinging it really does get people going!Link in the bio!#feelings #feelingsquotes #feeling #emotions #emotionalintelligence #emotionsmatter #poly #polyamorous #polywise #polyamorousrelationship #polyamory #enm #cnm

Going to put it out there - Butcher was not well when we recorded this so we hope it makes sense and somewhat entertaining. We will at some point dig deeper into this topic considering all types of partners but for now we wanted to focus on the anchor partner comms!Let us know your thoughts! Link in the bio ❤️

In this episode we discuss the art of managing the de-escalation of relationships when you’re polyamorous and the potential reasons why you might do this.It still surprises us how difficult break-ups in changes to dynamics (especially if you’re effectively going back on something) can be. In this episode we try and unpick this whilst also asking for kindness and grace when dealing with others heads and hearts.Have a listen and as always, let us know what you think! Link in the bio ❤️

An insightful conversation with the brains behind PolyamoryUK. This dream team - James and Jo are living their fullest, authentic poly lives and were absolutely here for it!We touched on so many things but fundamentally we discussed how Polyamory works here in Great Britain. The pros and cons. These two need to come back on again soon and we’re looking forward to future collaboration on a number of projects with these fabulous individuals!

So here it is - the review of Le Boudoir. With two experiences of different nights under our belts (so to speak) we thought we’d do a little review.Find out more about our thoughts of the venue, the staff and more!

This one was a great topic to get our teeth into.Jealousy is such a hot topic in the circles we move in from poly connections through to monogamous people seeking to understand the dynamic.This was supported by a recent trip to LB last week and the events that unfolded (all good but because of the work and conversations we’ve had surrounding it!)Ultimately though, we wanted to get to the root cause. The THING that sets off this interesting and complex emotional state! There’s still so much left to say on this but it’s a good start (hopefully!)Listen to our latest episode to learn more!H&B 💚

Myself and Ms Captain recorded this session aggggggggeeeeessss ago! She is the most wonderful, authentic, insightful soul and this is evident in the discussion around foods to use with sensual experiences… Be it with two, three, four or more!Thank you so much for your time Ms C and giving the listeners something “spicy” on Valentine’s Day! ❤️

Episode 90 was a deep and meaningful discussion about the dark fears that come along for the ride when you’re on the journey from monogamy through to polyamory. What is it that truly scares you and why. Why is it that a lot of the time we don’t know what it truly is or we can’t say so we project our fears on to our anchor partners meaning that’s our fears inevitably “come true.” Finally what does this means for your existing relationship(s) and can there ever be a way out or forward from this?…Join us on the discussion…H & B 💚