You Get Me?
You Get Me?
Charlotte Vosper, Elif Akkemik
Welcome to You Get Me? with Elif & Charlotte, a podcast containing feminist readings, reflections and anecdotes from two young women toeing the threshold of adulthood and trying to figure it out along the way! Having grown up with this podcast since the age of fifteen, Elif and Charlotte explore the development of opinions and critical thought on a number of societal and cultural issues and phenomena, linking all their comments to authentic, lived experiences. They cannot wait for you to listen and get involved; after all, we’re all just making it up as we go along – you get me?Instagram/TikTok/Facebook: @you.get.me.podGmail: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2024 the Plot?: Ins, Outs and Intentions
In today's social media-inspired episode, we spend 40 minutes lamenting the role of social media in our lives... The 'ins and outs' format sees us discuss themes ranging from making intentional decisions to comparing men to guinea pigs (you get me!?). Introspection is key, but at what cost? Why did we feel more grown-up at sixteen than we do now? Join us as we reflect on new phases of life, feelings of stagnation and developing meaningful relationships.SOCIALS:Instagram, TikTok, Facebook: @you.get.me.podInquiries via DM.Intro creds: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 13, 2024
41 min
Politics and Radicalisation: Charge of the Woke Brigade
Do you feel frustratingly limited by party politics? Were you a radical at 15? Can you even say anything anymore? If you resonate with any of these questions, we get you! Join us in today's episode where we discuss topics ranging from identity politics and mapping political identity to phone addictions and wokes and jokes. This episode is slightly reminiscent of our older episodes, as whilst our relationship with the world may have changed, our personal politics largely have not!SOCIALS:Instagram, TikTok, Facebook: @you.get.me.podInquiries via DM.Intro music: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 7, 2023
33 min
Girls' Girls and Desire: Emotional Hostess with the Mostest!
This episode appeals to all the self-proclaimed girls' girls, who can't quite believe the value of the female friendships in their lives but feel like hypocrites every time a man clambers into the picture - WE GET YOU! Centering discussions of meaningful relationships, identity and desire, this episode seeks to banish the shame and feminine notions of passivity blocking women from living full, unapologetic lives. This conversation is steered through anecdotes about men (shock, horror!) and metaphors about 'emotional hostesses' running around crowded kitchens with aprons tied so tightly that they aren't allowing themselves to breathe - you get me? SOCIALS: Instagram, TikTok and Facebook: @you.get.me.podInquiries via DM.Intro music: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 16, 2023
32 min
Reactionary Misandry: Dating and Hating Men
Is it ever justifiable to harbour contempt towards men as a women? Is it an unfair generalisation to make, and where does it stem from? Today's episode discusses the concept of reactionary misandry, the impacts of sexual harassment from a young age and heteronormative dating. Sometimes you have to admit the manhaters have a bit of a point - you get me?SOCIALS:Instragram, TikTok and Facebook: @you.get.me.podInquiries via DM.Intro music: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 19, 2023
31 min
Girl Dinner: Feasting on Empty Media
Open your pantries and grab the pickle jar, because it's time to talk about girl dinner! Today's episode delves into the way social media diminishes women through seemingly harmless 'trends', the consequent normalisation of feeling bad and how this might affect your relationships. We discuss the notion of reclaiming reductionist stereotypes and the potential risks of encouraging poor lifestyle choices under the guise of being silly little girls driven into the pits of hell by the internet - you get me?SOCIALS:Instagram, TikTok and Facebook: @you.get.me.podInquiries via DM.Intro music: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 5, 2023
32 min
Rebranding and Letting Go: You Get Me?
Change is good... which is why we have a new look! Join us in today's rebranded podcast as we talk all things change, letting go and developing your best self. If you are holding on to emotions and concepts that no longer serve you, we hope you can take something from our anecdotes and experiences. We should probably stop replaying cringe scenarios in our heads before we go to sleep - you get me?SOCIALS:Instagram/TikTok/Facebook - you.get.me.podInquiries via DM.Intro music: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 14, 2023
33 min
Keep your friends close, but your trust issues closer...
Friends of the world Charlotte and Elif are here to lecture you about your friendships. Just kidding. SOCIALS:Instagram, TikTok and Facebook: @opinionatedandunderratedTwitter: @CharlotteElifGmail: [email protected] creds: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
May 14, 2023
25 min
Skirts and Shame: Love to the Nth Degree
This episode, we are broadcasting straight from the car (congrats Elif for passing!) as we discuss self-consciousness, growing up as a woman with a body and the anxiety this can provoke. We raise the topics of gratitude and passion as we navigate a world permeated by internalised misogyny and search for the love wherever we can. If this conversation resonated with you, let us know via our social media!Instagram/TikTok/Facebook: @opinionatedandunderratedTwitter: @CharlotteElifIntro creds: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
May 1, 2023
24 min
Female Relationships, an Existential Crisis (and a comeback)
We welcome you back to Opinionated and Underrated as we discuss the navigation of relationships as a woman, the superficiality of male friendships and the importance of human connection. As the effects of patriarchy are all-pervasive, it is no wonder that our daily interactions are affected by femininity and the power imbalance it is a part of. After a leave of absence, we are overjoyed to be back and hope you are too! You can get involved in the conversation via our social medias:Instagram/Tiktok/Facebook: @opinionatedandunderratedTwitter: @CharlotteElifIntro creds: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 14, 2022
29 min
Victim Blaming: That's a Violation!
To mark the 2-year anniversary of 'Opinionated and Underrated', we delve into the shameful culture of victim blaming surrounding reporting. While we would like to think we are proof of a new 'progressive age', our generation has proved us otherwise, and so we discuss the problematic protection of predators and how to identify this dynamic. Boundaries, victimisation and violation remain ungendered, and we explore how the patriarchy can interact with this experience. To those concerned that they may be a victim of violation to any extent, please reach out to the relevant organisations (below). You are not alone.RESOURCESReporting Assault:https://www.gov.uk/report-rape-sexual-assaulthttps://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/gender-violence/rape-and-sexual-assaulthttps://www.gov.uk/report-teacher-misconductSupport:https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/abuse/https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/rape-and-sexual-assault/https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/coping-with-life/abuse/SOCIALSInsta: opinionatedandunderratedGmail: [email protected] Credit: https://bensound.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jul 21, 2022
28 min
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