I’m joined by Alex, an investor and advisor, for a conversation that explores "That Which Is Lost vs. Left Behind." We originally set out to have a conversation about modern dating with the umbrella topics of Vanity, Ghosting, and Approaching. Though our conversation largely revolves around these topics, we were able to get at something much deeper - the process by which and the value of overcoming fear in our lives. We start with a discussion on transitional states in life then move to an introspection on vanity. We continue with the value of the process of in-person dating and courtship, including the implications for personal growth, the impact of one’s motives, and the outcomes by which progress is measured. Finally we close with thoughts on the developmental impact of digital courtship. There is much to be gained through the natural process and much to be lost through the digital one. Please consider supporting One Part Animal and Dan Villarreal on Patreon. Patreon and social links here: https://linktr.ee/D.R.V Your support is what makes this show possible. Follow the link tree above or search Dan Villarreal on Patreon. Quote: “You are in prison. If you wish to get out of prison, the first thing you must do is realize that you are in prison. If you think you are free, you can't escape.” ― G.I. Gurdjieff Article: Tinder and the Dawn of the “Dating Apocalypse” by Nancy Jo Sales Vanity Fair, August 6, 2015 Book: The Moral Animal: Why We Are, the Way We Are: The New Science of Evolutionary Psychology by Robert Wright One Part Animal explores our common humanity and seeks to elevate thinking through long form, personal conversations. Our host, Dan Villarreal, accesses his broad network to make public intimate conversations about meaning, fear, personal development, connection, society, and independent thought. Dan Villarreal is a writer, artist, and investor. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Julia joins me for a timely conversation about morality, group think, social influence, susceptibility, judgement, compassion, and much more.  Support me on Patreon and follow me and One Part Animal on social here: https://linktr.ee/D.R.V  One Part Animal explores our common humanity through conversation. Our host, Dan Villarreal, accesses his broad network to make public intimate conversations about meaning, fear, personal development, connection, society, and independent thought. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Mark joins me for a conversation about commitment, routine, being clear with oneself, failure, quitting, and much more. Support me on Patreon and follow me and One Part Animal on social here: https://linktr.ee/D.R.V References from this episode: Wangarĩ Muta Maathai, Nobel Prize Winner Link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wangari_Maathai Jadav Payeng, "The Forest Man of India" Link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jadav_Payeng Tehching Sieh, Performance Artist Link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tehching_Hsieh Frank Gore: Routine vs. Commitment: Article Book: Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds, by David Goggins One Part Animal explores our common humanity through conversation. Our host, Dan Villarreal, accesses his broad network to make public intimate conversations about meaning, fear, personal development, connection, society, and independent thought. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

John joins me for a discussion about meaning, regret, attention, doing hard things, and picking up your ball and going home.  Support me on Patreon and follow me and One Part Animal on social here: https://linktr.ee/D.R.V References from this episode: ---Books--- Becoming Who You Are: Insights on the True Self from Thomas Merton and Other Saints, by James Martin How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy, by Jenny Odell ---Quotes--- “As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.” -Carl Jung “One of the greatest handicaps is to fear a mistake. You have stopped yourself. You have to move freely into the arena, not just to wait for the perfect situation, the perfect moment... If you have to make a mistake, it's better to make a mistake of action than one of inaction. If I had the opportunity again, I would take chances.”  -Federico Fellini  One Part Animal explores our common humanity through conversation. Our host, Dan Villarreal, accesses his broad network to make public intimate conversations about meaning, fear, personal development, connection, society, and independent thought. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Spencer joins me for an intimate discussion about how we define ourselves. Topics include postive and negative feedback, willingness, attention to and investment in other people, sales and influence, creativity, and self care. Support me on Patreon and follow me and One Part Animal on social here: https://linktr.ee/D.R.V Here is the exact version of a quote we reference: “The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.” -Charles Bukowski One Part Animal explores our common humanity through conversation. Our host, Dan Villarreal, accesses his broad network to make public intimate conversations about meaning, fear, personal development, connection, society, and independent thought. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app