A mom in our community asked a question that I think a lot of parents secretly wrestle with:
“Do I have to do Disney? Isn’t it a right of childhood?”
In this episode, I break down why the answer is no — and why we need to rethink what vacations are actually for.
We talk about:
Why time off from labor is a human right — but travel is not
The difference between a vacation and traveling
Why starting young matters if you want good travelers
The mental load moms carry on family trips
Why kid-centric vacations are often a bust
Overstimulation, walking, waiting, and corporate gift shops
Why kids don’t suddenly become grateful in magical environments
How expectations ruin vacations
Why living for your next trip is a red flag
The connection between social media, boredom, and dissatisfaction
Why real life feels dull when your phone becomes your dopamine source
How to create magic in the mundane
You are going to have the kid you have.
You are going to have the spouse you have.
You are going to have the life you have — just with more glitz.
Vacations don’t fix dissatisfaction.
They amplify expectations.
If you’re living for your next break, it may be time to rebuild your daily life instead.
As always — put your phone down and have a beautiful day.
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