We are back with Season 4 of Not So Sexy! We hope over this very long break you've been falling in love, getting your back blown out, and having messy breakups. Everything that means you're alive.    This week we spoke with Amy Taylor, a high end sex worker. She talked with us about working for billionaires, what she would do if she could change the laws for sex work, how she manages to stay safe, and gives some advice for anyone wanting to do this kind of work.     

This week we interview Angela, a sex therapist.  She talks to us about how to have the best sex, what it means to be in an abusive relationship, and shares with us details about her divorce. Even an expert in relationships can sometimes get it wrong. It's always good to remember that.  As always if you have questions, comments, etc - email us at [email protected]  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross  Check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast  

How many of you think sex workers are "Ladies of the Night" or have only experienced them through movies and TV? If you're like "Yup, that pretty much sums it up for me" then you and I are on the same page. This week we talked to Rose Love who is a sex worker. She tells us about her dating life, how she interacts with clients, she gives us insight into the profession (and it is a profession) and she reminds us to love ourselves.    As always if you have questions, comments, etc - email us at [email protected]  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross  Check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast  

What would a sexually liberated, zero shame, totally sexy group of people look like? Think leather, tons of leather. This week Not So Sexy goes on location to a premier erotic art show - Naughti Gras. We touched soap that looked like a dick, got spanked, and talked to people about all things sex.   As always email us at [email protected]  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross and check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast

How much hair is too much hair? How often should you shave or is going full Brazilian too far? This week on Not So Sexy we explore these questions and more. Also, our host Alex now has to go get a Brazilian wax which he may or may not live stream ;).   As always email us at [email protected]  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross and check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast

Power - that is a big word in our lives. On this episode of Not So Sexy we explore what power means in relation to sex. How it affects how we couple, how it affects our interactions with other people, how it even affects our bodies. What does power mean for you? Do you feel powerful in your life, relationship, during sex? As always you can reach out to us on [email protected]  Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross or message us on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast. We'd love to hear from you.  

Do you ever struggle asking for what you want? What about when you're in front of the person you're about to have sex with? Asking for what you want during sex can be really tough. It can be uncomfortable 😳😳😳. But you can't get what you want when you're not asking for what you need 🥰. This week's Not So Sexy Episode "As you like it: Asking for what you want before, during, and after sex". It's easily the sexiest episode we've ever done.  Check out Not So Sexy on Instagram/Facebook - Not So Sexy Podcast Twitter @WeKnowItsGross And email us at [email protected] with your questions.

Herpes can be a scary thing but it's surprisingly common. Yet, it's not talked about except in hushed whispers and angry texts like "DID I GET THIS FROM YOU". But herpes shouldn't be so scary. You can get it without an outbreak or from having penetrative sex. Instead of making fun of it and not talking about it our guest, Emily, decided to dive deep and discuss her life after she found out she had herpes. Our guest explains how they got herpes, what happened when they found out, and how they're trying to bring it out into the open.  Check out Not So Sexy on Instagram/Facebook - Not So Sexy Podcast Twitter @WeKnowItsGross And email us at [email protected] with your questions.  

Dave Nadelberg, the creator of the Mortified show and podcast, talked to us about current projects, his past masterbation techniques, and his loves - past, present, and future.   

This week we bring on the zen master Andy to talk about when to say that huge four letter word L.O.V.E. It's, like most things, layered and complex.  We struggle to find an analogy, we show how much Alex really needs to calm down, and we talk about spears.  Also check out LELO our sponsor. They make incredible and beautiful sex toys. For weeks we've been trying them out. https://www.lelo.com/