Everybody wants freedom until it costs something.This week on Not Safe For Church, I sit down with Grand Jeremy for a conversation about confidence, authenticity, purpose, and becoming the person you're meant to be.We talk about the hidden work behind success, overcoming insecurity, building confidence before validation, staying true to yourself in a world that rewards performance, and learning how to enjoy the process instead of just chasing the outcome.Because the truth is:Everybody loves the finished product.Few people talk about what it takes to become.If you've ever felt stuck between who you are and who you're becoming, this episode is for you.🎙 Subscribe for more conversations about faith, identity, healing, purpose, and living honestly.Follow me:Instagram: @renoldkent @notsafeforchurchpodTikTok: @renoldkentPlease Subscribe & ShareJoin the Patreon: Patreon.com/NsfcPodcastGive & Receive:Venmo: @RenoldKentCash App: $RenoldkentPayPal: paypal.me/Renoldkent

Church hurt is complicated…Because some people didn’t stop loving God.They just stopped feeling safe in the spaces that introduced them to Him.This week, I sat down with my cousin, licensed therapist Lauren Michelle Jackson, for one of the most honest conversations we’ve had on this podcast.And this isn’t a church bashing episode.This is a truth-telling episode.Because if we’re honest…A lot of people are carrying wounds they got in church while still trying to hold onto their faith.We talk about the beauty of church…The community.The music.The belonging.The opportunities.The things that shaped us.But we also talk about the burden.The pressure.The performance.The hidden struggles.The silence.The split identities.The burnout.The shame.Because two things can be true:Church can heal people…And church can hurt people too.In this episode, we talk about:• Church hurt vs church trauma• Why people stay in unhealthy church environments• Loving God while needing space from church• The pressure to perform holiness• Mental health and over-spiritualizing everything• Ministry burnout and grieving church spaces• Sexuality, hiding, and split identity• What happens when people suppress themselves for years• Rebuilding trust spiritually• What healthy faith can look like nowWe also ask the hard questions:What happens when honesty gets punished?What does healing actually look like?And can you rebuild faith after disappointment?Because maybe faith was never supposed to require pretending.Maybe healing starts when the performance ends.If you’ve ever loved church and been hurt by it…If you’ve ever left ministry, questioned faith, carried religious shame, or felt caught between God and your experience…This episode is for you.Subscribe for more conversations about faith, identity, healing, and living honestly.Follow me:Instagram: @renoldkent @notsafeforchurchpodTikTok: @renoldkentPlease Subscribe & ShareJoin the Patreon: Patreon.com/NsfcPodcastGive & Receive:Venmo: @RenoldKentCash App: $RenoldkentPayPal: paypal.me/Renoldkent

Sometimes the realest conversations don’t come from what we plan to say…They come from the questions we didn’t see coming.This week, we switched it up.No scripts. No safe answers.Just real questions… from real people… and honest responses.Because if we’re being honest…Some of the things we’re all trying to figure out don’t fit into a clean, polished conversation.This episode starts fun, light, unexpected, a little chaotic.But don’t get too comfortable…Because the questions get deeper.And then a little spicier ONLY ON PATREON! We’re talking about the tension between who you are in public vs. private,the things we’re still unlearning,and the truth about navigating faith, identity, and relationships in real life, not just what sounds good.In this episode, we talk about:• The different versions of ourselves we show the world• The beliefs we had to unlearn• Knowing when to speak up vs. walk away• The quiet struggles people don’t see• Letting go of lies that shaped how we live• The gap between what we want and what we entertain• Dating, desire, and being honest about both• Faith, freedom, and the conversations people avoid• What it really looks like to be fully yourself, unfilteredBecause sometimes the breakthrough isn’t in the answer…It’s in finally being honest about the question.If you’ve ever felt like you’re figuring it out as you go,holding faith while living real life,or just tired of pretending you have it all together…This episode is for you.Subscribe for more conversations about faith, identity, healing, and living honestly.Follow me:Instagram: @renoldkent @notsafeforchurchpodTikTok: @renoldkentPlease Subscribe & ShareJoin the Patreon: Patreon.com/NsfcPodcastGive & Receive:Venmo: @RenoldKentCash App: $RenoldkentPayPal: paypal.me/Renoldkent

Growth isn’t always about what you start…Sometimes it’s about what you finally stop repeating.This week, I’m joined by Lenette for a conversation that gets honest about something a lot of us don’t like to admit…We don’t just have a love problem, we have a *pattern* problem.Because if we’re real…A lot of us have asked for different while still choosing familiar.This episode isn’t about blaming other people for what didn’t work.It’s about taking a step back and asking yourself the harder question:**“What am I still choosing that’s keeping me in the same cycle?”**We start light with Pass the Plate real, relatable questions that open the door.But then we go deeper…Into the patterns we ignore,the boundaries we avoid,and the truth about what it actually looks like to choose yourself for real.In this episode, we talk about:• Recognizing the patterns you keep repeating• The difference between hope and ignoring red flags• What self-love actually looks like in real life, not just online• The boundaries that change everything• How to stop overextending yourself for people• Letting go without needing closure• Why choosing yourself feels uncomfortable—but necessary• Becoming the person who no longer accepts lessBecause healing isn’t just about awareness…It’s about making different choices, even when they feel unfamiliar.If you’ve been feeling stuck in the same cycles, same relationships, same outcomes…This episode might be the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.Subscribe for more conversations about faith, identity, healing, and living honestly.Follow me:Instagram: @renoldkent @notsafeforchurchpodTikTok: @renoldkentPlease Subscribe & ShareJoin the Patreon:Patreon.com/NsfcPodcast**Give & Receive:**Venmo: @RenoldKentCash App: $RenoldkentPayPal: paypal.me/Renoldkent

Sometimes growth doesn’t look like a dramatic exit.It looks like a quiet decision to shift.This week, I’m joined by Nate Johnson for a conversation that feels honest, practical, and necessary because let’s be real… a lot of us know it’s time for change, we don’t know how to do it without messing everything up.This episode isn’t about quitting your job overnight or making impulsive moves that feel good in the moment.It’s about learning how to pivot well… with clarity, strategy, and a little bit of grace for yourself.Because pivoting isn’t failure.It’s alignment.In this episode, we talk about:• How to recognize when you’ve outgrown something• The difference between discomfort and misalignment• Why you shouldn’t pivot from emotion but from clarity• How to make strategic moves without burning bridges• Letting go of titles and learning who you are without them• Why you don’t have to destroy your past to step into your futureThis conversation is real, grounded, and full of those moments that make you stop and think, “Yeah… I needed that.”If you’ve been feeling stuck, unsure, or like life is trying to shift you into something new… this episode is for you.Welcome to Not Safe For Church.Where you can grow, evolve, and be honest about the process.Subscribe for more conversations about faith, identity, healing, and living honestly.Follow me:Instagram: @renoldkent @notsafeforchurchpodTikTok: @renoldkentPlease Subscribe & ShareJoin the Patreon: Patreon.com/NsfcPodcastGive & Receive:Venmo: @RenoldKentCash App: $RenoldkentPayPal: paypal.me/Renoldkent

After a year away from the mic… I finally had something real to say.The last time I recorded this podcast was May 2024. I had just lost my grandmother, life was shifting in ways I didn’t fully understand, and if I’m honest, I didn’t want to get on a microphone and pretend to be deep for the sake of content.So I stopped.But over the last year, I’ve been living. Healing. Growing. I turned 30… and I’ve realized a few things about calling, prayer, and learning to be yourself in a world that always has an opinion.In this episode we talk about:• Why you can’t change the mind of people committed to misunderstanding you• Why you don’t have to keep explaining yourself to everyone• What happens when God answers a prayer that changes your whole life• Why your gift only works when you actually use it• Learning to trust who God called you to be before people had opinions.This conversation is honest, a little funny, a little reflective, and very real.If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, questioned your calling, or been afraid to pray again after a life-changing answer… this episode is for you.Welcome back to Not Safe For Church.Subscribe for more conversations about faith, identity, healing, and living honestly.Follow me:Instagram: @renoldkent @notsafeforchurchpodTikTok: @renoldkentPlease Subscribe and Share Give & Recieve Venmo: @RenoldKent | Cash App $Renoldkent| Paypal.com/paypalme/Renoldkent

In our conversation today we wrap up another season. Podcast: @NSFCPodcast Host: Re'nold Kent @RenoldKent The episode is brought to by the people for THE PEOPLE Also Thanks to our partners at Crossfit Social City @cf_socialcity, Gage Lujan @gagenich, and Ivan and Maddie Jo Simental (The Mortgage Standard) @IvanSimental and @maddiejo_ Please Subscribe and Share | Give & Recieve Venmo: @NSFCPodcast | Cash App $NSFCPodcast | Paypal.com/paypalme/NSFCPodcast

In our conversation today we will delve into the intersection of faith and sexuality, tracing our personal journeys from steadfast beliefs to a more inclusive perspective. As former pastors, we share insights on reconciling religious teachings with support for the LGBTQ+ community, offering guidance for those navigating similar paths of introspection and transformation within their faith communities.Podcast: @NSFCPodcastHost: Re'nold Kent @RenoldKentCohost: Derrick Logan @DerrickLogan| Cam Smith @Cameron987 The episode is brought to by the people for THE PEOPLEAlso Thanks to our partners at Crossfit Social City @cf_socialcity, Gage Lujan @gagenich, and Ivan and Maddie Jo Simental (The Mortgage Standard) @IvanSimental and @maddiejo_Please Subscribe and Share | Give & Recieve Venmo: @NSFCPodcast | Cash App $NSFCPodcast | Paypal.com/paypalme/NSFCPodcast

Our conversation Today, we're delving into the multifaceted journey of an extraordinary artist who has not only found their voice in music but has also navigated the complexities of faith, identity, and artistic expression. Join us as we embark on a heartfelt exploration of how one singer-songwriter's personal relationship with God and upbringing in the church have influenced their music and shaped their path in the industry. Through introspective reflections and inspiring anecdotes, we'll uncover the transformative power of music and the profound connections it fosters across diverse communities. Podcast: @NSFCPodcast Host: Re'nold Kent @RenoldKent Cohost: Avehre  @AVEHRE  The episode is brought to by the people for THE PEOPLE Lauren Michelle Jackson@lookoutlauren CEO of Cultivate Your EssenceAlso Thanks to our partners at Crossfit Social City @cf_socialcity, Gage Lujan @gagenich, and Ivan and Maddie Jo Simental (The Mortgage Standard) @IvanSimental and @maddiejo_Please Subscribe and Share | Give & Recieve Venmo: @NSFCPodcast | Cash App $NSFCPodcast | Paypal.com/paypalme/NSFCPodcast

Our conversation today is all about HOT TOPICS! We've got some spicy topics lined up. Does age matter in relationships? Can you still be a virgin if you use a condom? Is there a 'right' length for sex? And what would make the church safer and more inclusive? Podcast: @NSFCPodcast Host: Re'nold Kent @RenoldKent Cohost: Renee Anderson @dandiilyon | | JP @Peery_0 | Joanna  @jojo.typebeat  The episode is brought to by the people for THE PEOPLE. Lauren Michelle Jackson @lookoutlauren CEO of Cultivate Your Essence Also Thanks to our partners at Crossfit Social City @cf_socialcity, Gage Lujan @gagenich, and Ivan and Maddie Jo Simental (The Mortgage Standard) @IvanSimental and @maddiejo_ Please Subscribe and Share | Give & Recieve Venmo: @NSFCPodcast | Cash App $NSFCPodcast | Paypal.com/paypalme/NSFCPodcast