Not Allowed to Die
Not Allowed to Die
Daniel J Maigler
As a therapist I have only one rule: you are not allowed to die. On this podcast I will answer questions about therapy, mental health, coaching, or anything else folks want to pick my brain about. I bring 20 years and over 1000 clients worth of experience and hopefully some humor.
Relationship OCD or just overthinking?
In this episode we discuss the state of Mariska's health, how to prepare for the eventual death of a loved companion animal, and Relationship OCD and how that is different from typical overthinking in relationships.
Aug 25
20 min
Amanda Hill on building and leading a private practice
The inspiring Amanda Hill joins Mariska and me to discuss so many things, but what I most enjoyed picking her brain about is the challenge of creating a private practice and expanding it beyond a few clinicians. I learned a lot and I hope you will too.
Jul 28
45 min
When your partner has a crush on a fictional character
What do you do if your partner has a crush on a fictional character and it is getting in the way of your relationship?
Jul 16
18 min
Mandi Leigh on healing through song writing and performing
Canadian singer/songwriter Mandi Leigh joins Mariska and I and talks about how song writing and singing has helped her heal from suicide loss and other trauma, and she even sings a song for us! Check out her music and tour dates on her website: Mandi Leigh | Singer Songwriter
Jul 7
36 min
When to push back and when to wait.
In this episode Mariska and I discuss cases of three of my clients who might need to push back to keep from being pushed around by bosses, creative partners, and relationship partners. How do we decide when and how to push back and when to say nothing.
Jun 30
17 min
Dr. Juls on burnout and sex in midlife
Mariska and I were truly honored to have the incredible Dr. Julie Merriman, therapist, professor, author, and host of the podcasts Sexy after 50 and Compassion Fatigue Cure. You can find all of her work here: Julie Merriman, Ph.D., LPC-S | Nervous System Regulation ExpertOur conversation covered so many things and was a great learning experience for Mariska and me. Enjoy.
Jun 23
1 hr 8 min
How does a therapist find a therapist?
in this episode Mariska and I talk about ESAs and how to help people find a therapist and the tools I use when im trying to find someone to recommend.
Jun 17
17 min
Talking about sex in therapy
In this episode Mariska and I beg for your suggestions about our new project, the ESA cast (which you should email to [email protected]) and we talk about what a therapist is thinking about when we talk about sex with our clients in therapy.
Jun 9
16 min
Ghost or break up with your therapist?
In this episode Mariska and I announce the launch of our new venture, the ESA cast AND we talk about whether or not you should just stop scheduling sessions with your therapist or actually have the "break up" conversation with them.
Jun 2
20 min
Should I let my client live with me?
In this episode Mariska and I explore beating yourself up after mistakes and appropriate boundaries. My former student deals with the ethical challenges of taking one of her students in after he is removed from his family.
Apr 28
17 min
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