How our polyamorous relationship started is kind complated but the best way to explain is my ex and I when we were still dating ended up combing with my crush and his date and now it’s just crush, and other date, (HECK IT THE CRUSH WILL GO BY E AND DATE GO BY M) so now me, e, and m are dating but since e and m were originally dating and I joined and now I’m alone I feel like I don’t deserve to be in it and the only reason e asked to be in a polyamorous is because he just wanted to be polyamorous and I’m stressing and feeling to clingy, they never give affection back but I still love them

I’ve listened to every single episode. But finally hearing another stag/vixen situation helped to feel comfortable and steal ideas for aftercare/bonding sessions. Every single episode was enlightening but this one hit harder.

I love the way your episodes give such practical advice. No hot air, just truth!!

As someone who is new to the polyamory community this podcast has really helped me learn way of how to cope with my emotions and be more open about my partner having other relationships outside of the relationship we have.

Really appreciate the depth of information shared on this podcast. Very educational and helpful!

Ellecia Paine always has great information to share and brings in awesome guests. I particularly loved the episode about Ashley Madison. It was fascinating!!

I have been binging this pod and it’s seriously been life changing! I’ve learned so much about myself, relationship dynamics, conversations I need to have with partners, what I do and don’t want in a poly relationship, and so much more. Ellecia’s voice is like honey and so easy to listen to and she has the best guests on. I recommend this to anyone who wants to learn more about relationships beyond monogamy so they can have more of the sex and relationships they want.

I love the candor and openness of Ellecia and her guests. Everyone brings their own approaches to ways of relating and I love that there is space to have these conversations.

Finally figures put how to review, lol. Love love love this podcast! I always get some kind of tip that I can apply to my life. Thanks for normalizing polyamory and thank you for having such honest, emotionally intelligent and valuable information. Keep them coming!

Ellecia's candid exploration into relationships beyond traditional boundaries is invaluable. This podcast is engaging and thought-provoking, a great listen for those seeking insights into different perspectives on love and connection. Deirdre

This podcast is wonderful! Each episode is engaging and light hearted while also teaching great lessons around mental health, culture, and obviously non-monogamy. I listen to this podcast every day! Thanks for the great content and life lessons.

I’m enjoying this podcast so much! I’m somewhat new to non-monogamy, one year, and the flavor of my primary relationship has evolved SO MUCH as we get more comfortable with it. We fall somewhere between swingers and poly, and having friends with benefits. I feel that I would be accepted and not judged by you! I feel empowered by you to just do what’s best for me and my relationship and not need a label. You and your guests are all so accepting and sex-positive. Thank you for spreading awareness and acceptance!

This podcast provides not only great advice for non-monogamous people, but for everyone in general. The tips we get for reflecting on our own emotions are tools anyone can put to use!

Candid conversations about all aspects of live are SO important, so it's so cool to see that Ellecia is talking about a subject that is typically so hush-hush! Not many things DO fit into a one-size-fits-all box, so the more open we can be, the more we can help others who are out there trying to figure out life! 💕

Timing is everything and I am so grateful that my aesthetician recommended this podcast exactly when she did. I needed it more than I could have expected. If you are considering non-monogamy, or are already in the deep end, this podcast is SO HELPFUL. Ellecia is such a warm and lively host and has such engaging conversations with each person. Every guest has brought on a unique view , and presented necessary tools on now to navigate relationships more consciously. How to show up for yourself and your partners, how to recognize, work with, and learn from your emotions…the important things. Who knew there was so much to learn in this world?? Truly, these conversations are thoughtful and have helped provide really great building blocks to continue to do personal work so that I can cultivate, and really appreciate, the fullest love-filled life. Give it a listen, find yourself in the stories shared, take the golden nuggets and grow along the ride.

I met Ellecia Paine through Instagram and she invited on her show to talk about my non-monogamy. Honestly, this is the first time I have been reached out to by someone who coaches in this community, so I started listening to her Podcast to get a feel for her style and… her Validation IS VALID! I have experienced a lot of tolerance about who I am (you just KNOW when someone doesn’t validate you but doesn’t have the intestinal fortitude to tell you up front your authenticity threatens them), and it is not the same as being validated. This Podcast may not solve all of your problems, but I believe if a Podcast is going to help you feel validated about being, practicing, feeling, or even being curious in ethical non-monogamy THIS WILL DO IT! And you deserve to be validated, so give this Podcast a solid listen!

This podcast is amazing and exactly what I needed in my life right now. My wife and I are transitioning from monogamous to non-monogamous and the podcasts are 100% on point. Thank you so much!!

Thank you for bringing this out in the open so we can all be more free and have a place to relate.

Thanks for creating a space for real life and polyamory. Love this so much!

What a great way to talk about the challenges in non-monogamy. For me, it was always scary to think I had to do things I didn’t want to do. Like, sure I’ll end up doing things I don’t want to do if I don’t have clear boundaries. Boundaries are hard, and for many of us, it starts with being embodied. Great podcast!

You are too cool! So excited to hear more. Thanks for being you.