The Modern Man Podcast
The Modern Man Podcast
Ted Phaeton
“The Modern Man” is a series focused on discussing the challenges and obstacles men face in today’s society. It is an open forum of discussion where thoughts, strategies and ideas of men living a happy and fulfilled life are explored. The Modern Man aims to create a community of men not only sharing and connecting on a deeper level, but also exploring how to thrive and live a happy and fulfilled life. This is done through intentional conversations strategically aimed at issues that men face in today’s society.
85: How Failure Led Paul Hutchinson to Rescue Thousands of Kids From Child Trafficking
Would you rather donate money to a good cause or risk your life for it? Today, you’ll meet a man who’s dedicated his life to doing both. In this episode of The Modern Man, I’m joined by Paul Hutchinson, an investor, philanthropist, business owner, Founder of Child Liberation Foundation and Liberating Humanity, and Executive Producer of the film “Sound of Freedom”.   Even after his countless successes in life, Paul believes his greatest success has been failing twice in marriage and finally figuring it out on his third try. I would argue his greatest success has been going undercover with the CIA and risking his life over 70 times to save thousands of children from child trafficking operations across 15 countries.   Surely, we can all learn one thing from failure: Failure has the power to propel you forward if you let it.   Remember guys, he who has a powerful, positive impact in the most lives wins. Paul says that’s what life is all about. Keep spreading your love and light in this world and good fortune will come your way, even if you experience failure.   “Almost all of us have had things happen to us that we haven’t talked about, you know, things when we were children, whatever else, and all of us have done things that we’re not proud of… but that’s okay. That doesn’t define you today.” – Paul Hutchinson   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: (00:56) About Paul Hutchinson. (02:58) How to change your perception of failure so it can propel you forward. (07:11) How business success and philanthropy fuel each other. (14:09) The dark origin story of Child Liberation Foundation(Paul’s first rescue). (23:16) How Paul changed after his first undercover child rescue operation. (26:40) How to start giving back and making an impact on others. (34:07) Identifying abuse, signs of human trafficking to be aware of, & the dangers of porn. (38:11) Which rescue operation was the most impactful? (45:09) What it’s like to train with the CIA and Navy Seals. (48:44) Paul addresses media pushback around him and his movie, “Sound of Freedom”. (52:41) How to connect with Paul Hutchinson.   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Child Liberation Foundation: https://liberatechildren.org Liberate Humanity: https://liberatehumanity.com   Connect with Paul Hutchinson Visit his website: https://www.paulhutchinsonofficial.com Follow him on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/liberating.humanity Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulhutch   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg
Jan 10, 2024
57 min
How To Be More Charismatic | Don’t Be an A**hole
🚀 Welcome back to another Modern Moment! In this episode, we delve into the art of charisma and how to cultivate it without being an a**hole. 💼👔 Join me as we explore the definitive steps toward unlocking that magnetic, charismatic aura that draws people in, while steering clear of negative behaviors. I’ll lay out actionable tips tailored for men seeking to embody this trait in their personal and professional lives. Charisma isn’t about being pushy or domineering; it’s about authentic connection, confidence, and genuine communication. 🤝💡 But here’s the kicker: we’ll also address the adverse effects of being an a**hole, how it disrupts team dynamics, and even damages professional environments. 🛑 Let’s learn to foster an atmosphere of respect and collaboration, understanding how our actions influence those around us. The conversation isn’t just about self-improvement; it’s about shaping an environment that nurtures respect, growth, and positive interactions. Join the movement toward a more charismatic, asshole-free world! 🌍✨ Intrigued? Dive into this episode for insights that’ll not only amp up your charisma but also ensure you’re building a positive, impactful sphere around you. And hey, let’s remember, being charismatic doesn’t mean being an a**hole! Let’s grow together! 💪🌟 #CharismaWithoutAssholes #PositiveLeadership #ProfessionalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #ModernMan #PositiveVibes **Free eBook Here: [Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine](https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW)** ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/[@TheModernManPodcast](https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg)
Jan 8, 2024
9 min
84: Becoming the Leader of Your Family: Parenting & Leadership Wisdom From Carl Sharperson Jr.
In this episode of The Modern Man, I’m joined by Carl Sharperson Jr., a Leadership Innovation Strategist, author, coach, husband, and father who’s helping his clients and his children maximize their potential in life. Today, Carl is sharing his wisest advice and lessons learned from parenthood and family leadership. Learn Carl’s approach to being the leader of your family and building a strong foundation with your partner before deciding to have kids. He speaks on how to turn your experiences into teachable moments for your kids and how to set an example of overcoming adversity and negativity throughout life. Plus, he shares inspiration from his book, “Sharp Leadership: Parenting Principles for Rearing Young People”. “One of the most important things you can do, in my opinion – and I didn’t do it with my kids, but if I could do back and do it, I would do it – teach them a personal vision statement.”  Carl Sharperson Jr.   Ready to become the leader of your family and the parent you’re meant to be? Listen up, this one’s for you! Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: (01:01) About Carl Sharperson Jr. (05:19) Why do most people operate at 50% capacity? (06:52) The right leader in the wrong role vs. The right leader in the right role. (09:11) How to cultivate leadership as a family man. (13:02) The key to gaining your wife’s trust in leading a family. (17:23) How to build a strong foundation of communication before starting a family. (20:26) The inspiration behind “Sharp Leadership: Parenting Principles for Rearing Young People”. (24:41) Carl’s biggest lessons and blessings from parenthood. (29:22) Why mentorship is so powerful for parents. (33:28) Teaching kids about overcoming adversity and combatting negativity. (37:50) Tips and advice for men wanting to be a leader for their family and community. (41:54) How to connect with Carl Sharperson Jr. & buy his books. (45:50) As a man, what has shaped your view of the world? If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Listen to S2E4 “What Defines a Leader?” with Carl Sharperson Jr.: https://bit.ly/4a53dXl Books written by Carl Sharperson Jr.: https://www.amazon.com./stores/Carl-Sharperson-Jr/author/B09FKQFP3M Connect with Carl Sharperson Jr.: Visit his website: https://www.carlsharpersonjr.com Follow him on Instagram: ​https://www.instagram.com/sharpersoncarl Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlsharperson Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com  Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg 
Jan 3, 2024
51 min
83: Becoming a Successionaire & Understanding Your Wiring as a Man with Todd Saylor
 | The Modern Man Podcast   In this episode of The Modern Man, I’m joined by Todd Saylor, a serial entrepreneur, husband, father, business coach, and author of “Wired Differently”. Todd is here to break down what it means to be “wired differently” and how you can experience a higher understanding and awareness of your true wiring as a man. Are you seeking a more open, connected relationship with yourself, life, family, and the world? This episode is for YOU! You’ll learn Todd’s simple formula for becoming a “successionaireTM”, a term he coined to describe someone who knows what they want and creates and executes a plan to get it. He highlights powerful insights (and potential land mines) from the actualization phase of a man’s life and how to leverage those insights to craft a better future for yourself, your family, and your community. Plus, Todd shares the emotional reason behind the movie he’s making about his father, Tom Saylor. “That’s where the coach comes in, when it comes to plans and executing. Don’t be too shy to reach out for help. Life’s too short, man, life’s too short.” – Todd Saylor Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: (00:47) About Todd Saylor. (04:35) What is a functional coach? (08:02) The Tiger in Us: Why Todd is making a movie about his father. (16:53) How do you build and lead men today for the battle they don’t know is coming? (19:24) What does it mean to be “wired differently” and how do we become that? (26:37) What you need to know (and avoid) about your actualization phase of life. (34:10) How to create a better, more successful future. (38:55) Benefits of attending the 4-Day Tiki Hut Entrepreneur Retreat. (40:48) How to connect with Todd Saylor & buy his book, “Wired Differently”. (41:47) As a man, what has shaped your view of the world? If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Books written by Todd Saylor: https://toddsaylor.com/books Support “The Tiger in Us” film: https://thetigerinus.com Attend the next Tiki Hut Entrepreneur Retreat: https://toddsaylor.com/next-tiki-hut-retreat-zota Connect with Todd Saylor: Visit his website: https://toddsaylor.com Follow him on Instagram: ​ https://www.instagram.com/toddsaylorwireddifferently Follow him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/todd-saylor-8259992b Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com  Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg 
Dec 27, 2023
49 min
Transforming Your Life After Abuse and Trauma with Jacob Kauffman
In this eye-opening episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Jacob Kauffman, a transformational men’s coach, spiritual mentor, sexual abuse survivor, and author of “Let Love In: The Pain Stops When the Truth Starts”. Join us as we highlight Jacob’s story about navigating life after sexual abuse and what led him to share his story and transform his pain into power. He details how men can overcome the trauma that’s preventing them from creating sustainable success in their lives and how he’s helping them do it. Jacob talks candidly about how trauma from abuse impacts our ability to express our emotions in healthy ways, especially grief and anger, and the self-work and deconditioning that are necessary after experiencing abuse. Then, he shares why most men pass on their wounds and not their wisdom. This is a powerful episode, guys. Tune in! “There are two great catalysts for transformation, and that’s great love or great suffering. For men, specifically, it seems that we are prone to great suffering. We need a smack upside the head to wake us up to who we’ve become and how that’s impacting us.” – Jacob Kauffman What have you been doing with your pain? Remember, what we’re conscious of we’re in control of, but what we’re unconscious of is in control of us. Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: (00:40) About Jacob Kauffman. (01:40) Jacob’s journey to authorship and his experience with sexual abuse. (03:22) Why do only (08:32) What happens in adulthood when you’ve suppressed your emotions as a child? (11:27) How to make a transformation in your life after abuse. (15:50) “Mental illness is the result of unhealed trauma.” (20:44) What happened after Jacob shared his abuse story on social media? (26:39) Types of men Jacob coaches and mentors. (30:17) Where to start when feel like you’re lacking in life. (33:07) The most powerful transformation Jacob has helped a man achieve. (35:17) Where to start (continued). (42:50) How to buy “Let Love In” and connect with Jacob Kauffman. (43:38) As a man, what has shaped your view of the world? If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Resources Mentioned: Buy “Let Love In” by Jacob Kauffman: http://bit.ly/3RbZyy9 Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Connect with Jacob Kauffman: Follow him on Instagram: ​https://www.instagram.com/iamjakekauffman Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com  Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg 
Dec 20, 2023
51 min
How To Enhancing Social Skills | 7 Tips To Master Adult Conversations
Alright guys! In this video, we unravel the art of mastering adult conversations and enhancing social skills. I’ll share seven valuable tips for navigating conversations effectively and fostering meaningful connections in the adult world. 💬 👉 Dive into these 7 tips that will level up your conversation game: - Smile Like You Mean It: A genuine smile goes a long way in setting the tone for any chat. - Listen Up, Champ: No interruptions allowed! Active listening is the superstar of solid interactions. - Dig Deeper: Find out what makes others tick. Genuine interest? It’s the secret sauce! - Praise Party: Be the champion of praise. Sprinkle it generously! - Oops, My Bad: Admitting mistakes openly—classy move! - No Blame Game: Address hiccups without the blame—class act, always. - Positive Vibes Only: Surround yourself with good people! 🚀 Let’s navigate these adult waters together and turn conversations into connections, moments into memories, and awkward silences into laughter! Join us on this journey of mastering the art of adulting. 🕺🗣️ **Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/ [@TheModernManPodcast](https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg
Dec 18, 2023
4 min
81: Breaking Free From Porn Addiction & Reconnecting to Your Highest Self with Zack Blakeney
In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Zack Blakeney, a spiritual porn recovery coach who empowers men to quit porn for good, heal the shame associated with it, and rise to the highest version of themselves. Zack is here to shed light on his dark, yet profound experience recovering from a 16-year porn addiction, and what you can do if you’re in a similar place. He addresses the impact that society’s shame around sex has on men, then gives you actionable steps and advice on how to quit porn for good and move forward in life without shame.   You’ll hear Zack’s insights on how to leverage the energy of “doing” instead of “trying” to quit your unhealthy habit and why that’s a crucial distinction. Plus, you’ll learn ways to rebuild your personal relationships (and your relationship with yourself) after porn addiction.   Are you using porn in a way that doesn’t align with you? Do you feel shameful or secretive about your porn usage? Zack has the framework you need to break free from your usage/addiction and feel like your best self.   Remember, things that you would call miracles are an everyday occurrence when you do the inner work.   “The things that we’re proud of, we openly talk about. The things that we’re shameful about, we hide. The hard part about this is that when we’re hiding things, it’s not like it doesn’t exist; it empowers it to take more control over us.” – Zack Blakeney   “For men that are trying to push themselves to the next level of who they are… you can’t get there until you start to confront the things that are preventing you from being that.”  – Zack Blakeney   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: (00:52) About Zack Blakeney. (03:30) Is my porn usage a problem? Why do I feel shame around sex and porn? (12:14) Zack’s journey with porn addiction and porn-induced erectile dysfunction. (18:35) Rewiring Your Sexual Energy: What happens to the brain when you start to heal from porn addiction?  (21:26) Breaking down the 4 Walls of Dishonesty: How to rebuild your relationships after healing from porn addiction. (28:33) How Zack finally addressed his addiction and quit porn for good. (38:52) The intersectionality of guilt, shame, and identity. (40:14) Zack’s advice on healing porn addiction and moving forward in life. (46:03) How to connect with Zack Blakeney. (47:33) As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Claim your FREE training – 3 Steps to Freedom & Healing From Porn Use: https://www.iambornfree.net/freetraining Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights   Connect with Zack Blakeney: Visit his website to learn about the Born Free Transformation Program: https://www.iambornfree.net/getfreenow Follow him on Instagram: ​https://www.instagram.com/zackblakeney   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg
Dec 13, 2023
53 min
How to Foster the Habits of Growth and Development | 10 Steps To Sustainable Success
💼🚀 Alright, fellas... In this episode, we’re diving into the blueprint for sustainable success with 10 actionable steps. It’s time to foster the habits that steer you toward growth and development! 🔍🌱 Join me as I unpack these 10 key steps, each a pillar in crafting your path to sustainable success. From understanding your emotional control to honing exceptional listening skills, and from envisioning your goals to embracing the power of teamwork, these steps lay the groundwork for a journey of continuous improvement. 🎯 Prioritize, synergize, and reinvest in yourself – these are just a few steps from the playbook. ⚙️🏆 Tune in for insights & strategies to developing habits that lead to lasting growth. Get ready to step into your power and fuel your journey towards becoming a high-value man! #SustainableSuccess #GrowthHabits #ModernMan **Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW ⚔️**JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND**⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝**CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN**🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg)
Dec 11, 2023
5 min
80; Don’t Be Dusty: How to Set Your Standard for Life and Demand It with Eric Taylor
In this episode of The Modern Man, I’m joined by Eric Taylor, the “anti-dusty” husband, girl dad, and content creator who’s helping men shake off the dust and become the men they’re meant to be. Today, Eric talks about his experience recovering from addiction, overcoming fear and imposter syndrome, and realizing what it means to be a man, husband, and father after growing up without a dad.   Listen to Eric break down his definition of a dusty man, the benefits he’s seen from his healing journey, and how he’s showing up as an (anti-dusty) example for his two young daughters. Eric also shares how he gained healthy coping skills and genuine confidence as a man who used to be held back by fear and doubt.   “That dust is ignorance, it’s laziness, it’s arrogance, it’s all the lack of self-control that came with not addressing your true emotions and your true self as a man,” Eric says. So, tune in, shake off the dust, and get to moving forward as the men you were born to be.   “The scariest things were doubt and fear before, but now I know what I’m working for, I know what I’m living for, and I’m going to give my all to it.” – Eric Taylor   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:50] About Eric Taylor. [05:30] Healing is a process and fear is a disease. [10:03] The noticeable benefits of starting a healing journey. [14:49] How does being a husband and father help you heal and be a better man? [19:35] “Set your standard and demand it.” [21:10] What does it mean to be dusty? How can men be anti-dusty? [24:19] As a father, how do you show up as an example for your daughters? [28:30] Eric’s mission as a content creator. [33:35] How to connect with Eric Taylor. [34:37] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights   Connect with Eric Taylor: Visit his LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/girldad_e Follow him on Instagram: ​​https://www.instagram.com/girldad_e Follow him on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@girldad_e Subscribe to his YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/@GirlDadE/featured   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg
Dec 6, 2023
40 min
Developing Creativity & Understanding Innovation | Strategies Applied
🧠 I touch on the topic of creativity and innovation in this episode of The Modern Man Podcast! 💡 In this video, I explore the power of creative thinking and how innovation fuels personal growth. I touch on: 🚀 The Benefits of Creativity for Personal Development 🌟 Understanding Innovation & Its Impact 💭 Mind Mapping: A Tool for Creative Exploration 🎨 Techniques to Boost Your Creative Juices 🛠️ Practical Ways to Foster Innovation in Daily Life Jump into today’s episode and learn how to apply these strategies today! 🚶‍♂️💥 #GrowThroughInnovation #EmbraceCreativity #ModernManPodcast 📖 **Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW 📖** ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheModernManPodcast
Dec 4, 2023
5 min
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