Not A Nice Girl -- A Self Discovery Podcast
Not A Nice Girl -- A Self Discovery Podcast
Monica Frederick
I'm Monica, and I'm not a nice girl anymore, and I help others drop the nice girl label, too. This podcast is the DIY guide for ambitious womxn to dream big, drop self-doubt, and get shit done with kindness in a world that wants small and *nice*. Episodes are weekly and focus on making self-improvement, personal development, and self-discovery as simple and doable as possible. Let's connect on social media (I'm @MonicaChats) or you can find me on my website at https://MonicaFrederick.com There you can book a free call with me if you're ready to stop DIY-ing and get help implementing.
Pulling yourself out of a Rut // Letting go of other's expectations and not hiding from negative emotions
Today, I'm talking about how easy it is to get into a rut when you prioritize other people's expectations over your own and look for outside validation. (I'm raising my hand on this one!!) I'm also talking about the first two steps that I took to get out of the rut I felt myself fall into with my marriage, creativity, life... everything.  Let's connect on Instagram I'm @MonicaChats the podcast is @NotANiceGirlPodcast This week's Show Notes monicafrederick.com/pulling-yourself-out-of-a-rut/
Mar 18, 2021
24 min
Politics vs. Morality: What it Means for Your Higher Self.
The goal of this episode is to help you not chalk tough topics up as "politics" and letting yourself off the hook for growth. This one is a bit different than normal episodes and was inspired by a recent conversation on a Facebook Group thread.  We'll talk more in-depth about living as your higher self and how to make difficult decisions as her, how living through your core values is the key to finding yourself, and more! Check out today's journal prompts over on Instagram @NotANiceGirlPodcast
Feb 5, 2021
28 min
Why Your Manifesting Isn't Working
If you've tried vision boards, manifesting, gratitude journaling, affirmations or even new systems/routines and you feel like nothing is working, there's one reason why. Join me on the podcast as I talk about how it's not that you don't *believe* enough, but simply that you don't think of what you're trying to create as a fact.  Check out the pod on Instagram @NotANiceGirlPodcast to grab the journal prompts that go along with today's episode! If you're ready to take what we talk about on the podcast and apply it permanently, then book a consultation call with me here. 
Jan 29, 2021
24 min
How to Ask for Help When You're Too Nice to Ask
In this episode, I'll discuss the two reasons that learning how to ask for help has been challenging and what action steps you can take to overcome them. LINKS This week's episode Show Notes With each episode published, additional free journal prompts will be added that takes you through the six steps and the episode topic. Grab the prompts on Instagram @NotANiceGirlPodcast. Work with Me
Jan 15, 2021
34 min
Why I'm not Nice, and why you shouldn't be too -- PEOPLE PLEASING // KINDNESS vs NICE
With a new year comes a few changes and this podcast is one of them! Welcome to the newest version of the podcast, NOT A NICE GIRL. In it, we're talking all about dropping labels and self-doubt that keeps you stuck and living authentically. In this episode, I'm chatting with you about how I used to pride myself on being a nice girl and what I sacrificed in order to do so. I'm also talking about what the word means and how it's been holding you back from living with kindness and dreaming big.  LINKS: This week's shownotes Instagram (@MonicaChats) Book a free discovery call 
Jan 7, 2021
28 min
The Only New Years Resolution You Need
Today, I'm talking about the ONLY New Years Resolution you need to set and keep for yourself: only doing things that are true to who you really are (not who you think you should be or what you're expected to be).  Essentially, we're talking about how having "live authentically" is the only goal you need to set because it will help you take the necessary actions to improve your life in all the ways you truly want. LINKS: Today's Show Notes Core Value Journal  Book a Free Call  Instagram
Jan 1, 2021
45 min
Your Anti-Burnout Compass: How to Develop Your Emotional Intelligence
You have a natural compass that guides you to make actions that help you grow, and to keep you from burnout. We all have it, except, a lot of us ignore it or try to bury it with binging tv (I'm guilty of that!), drinking excessively, overeating or emotional shopping.  Today on the podcast, we're talking about how to interpret your emotions (no matter if they're positive or negative) and use them to better tune into what you need.  LINKS MENTIONED: Today's Shownotes Consultation Call with me Instagram
Dec 24, 2020
31 min
Why You Need to Stop Using Anti-Inspiration Motivation
When you think about reaching your goal, what is your motivation to get there? Is it the excitement from the future possibilities? Or is it fear of not making it?  In this episode, we’re talking about the different types of motivation you can use to compel yourself to take action on your goals and how you're probably using Anti-Inspiration Motivation. Check out more resources that go along with the episode on today's shownotes. If you're ready to stop DIY-ing your better life and want to make an action plan and STICK to it, book a free call with me.
Dec 10, 2020
25 min
Burnout Kryptonite
Are you buying yourself love or avoiding working on your relationship with yourself by binging TV, eating extra comfort food, shopping, or some other vice? If this sounds familiar, this episode of the Monica Chats podcast is for you! Links Mentioned: TODAY'S SHOWNOTES BOOK A FREE CALL  CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM
Nov 27, 2020
21 min
SPECIAL: “Scale Moments”
Today, we’re talking about scale moments and how they are EVERYTHING when it comes to changing your life. Excuse the audio on this, as it is VERY off the cuff. Links mentioned: Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MonicaChats — Book a call: https://monicafrederick.com/book
Sep 24, 2020
18 min
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