The one where we stop pretending everything’s fine just to keep the peace. In this episode, I sit down with Kam Bassier (from Episode 136: “You’re Not Lazy, You’re Burnt Out”) to talk about a tension so many BIPOC adults are carrying right now: Why are we — the kids of immigrant parents, BIPOC millennials and Gen Z — having conversations our families never could? Why does naming pain feel like betrayal? And what does breaking cycles actually look like in real life? We talk about harm...