
In this episode of the Midlife Mafia podcast, we sit down with Kitchen Killa Lisa, an accidental influencer who has captivated nearly two million followers on TikTok. At 61, Lisa is redefining what it means to age gracefully with her candid rants, real-life advice, and unapologetic takes on beauty, fashion, and relationships.Lisa's approach to discussing sensitive subjects, such as her experiences with weight loss and body image, showcases her commitment to real talk. She openly shares her past struggles with weight, including her journey through various weight loss surgeries and the emotional toll of societal judgments. By doing so, she not only normalizes these conversations but also empowers others to embrace their own journeys without shame. Her motto of "no fakes, phonies, or filters" reinforces the idea that midlife is not a time to hide but rather an opportunity to live out loud and embrace one's true self.Her humorous and relatable content, including her playful use of terms like "twatapotamus," adds a layer of lightheartedness to serious discussions. This blend of humor and honesty allows her audience to connect with her on a personal level, creating a safe space for dialogue about the challenges and joys of aging.Join us as we explore Lisa's journey from boredom to becoming a beloved voice for women over 40. Discover how she encourages her community to embrace confidence and happiness—whether it's through Botox, fillers, or simply living out loud. This episode is all about empowerment, laughter, and the idea that life can truly begin at any age.What’s inside:Lisa's TikTok journeyThe twat story and gift exchangeConfidence and weight loss journeyOvercoming hurtful comments IRL and onlineMenopause experiencesCelebrity crushes and encountersMaking people laugh and providing therapyTune in for an inspiring conversation that will leave you feeling powerful and enlightened about your own journey! Don’t forget to like, share and subscribe so you never miss our new content.Follow us on all platforms 👇TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midlifemafiaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlifemafiapodcast/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidLifeMafiaWebsite: https://midlifemafia.com/Follow Lisa 👇TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thehangryitalianInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kitchenkillalisa/Podcast editing by https://podcastmagician.com/
Mar 16
49 min

Some episodes are deep, some are funny and some feel like sitting around the table swapping the things we wish someone had told us sooner.This one? It’s that. Tips for women by women.We’re sharing the practical stuff — the little tips and tricks that make everyday life smoother. Skincare routines, cooking motivation, the art of folding bed sheets, and yes… the ongoing saga of buying pants online.We also get into budgeting — eating out, subscriptions, and the quiet ways money slips through your fingers if you’re not paying attention.In the middle of it all, we take a moment for Women’s History Month and talk about Mary Anderson — the woman behind the windshield wiper. One of those inventions you never think about… until you really do.And we wrap it up with advice we’d give our younger selves. Some of it practical. Some of it honest. All of it real.Here’s what’s inside:Shower, skincare and feet care products and routinesCooking habitsLaundry, linen and bleaching done rightSmart budgetingA Women’s History Month spotlightThe advice we wish we’d heard soonerIt’s useful. It’s relatable. And it’s women sharing what works — without pretending we’ve mastered everything.If you picked up something helpful, don’t forget to like, share and subscribe.Follow us on all platforms 👇TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midlifemafiaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlifemafiapodcast/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidLifeMafiaWebsite: https://midlifemafia.com/Podcast editing by https://podcastmagician.com/
Mar 9
42 min

Have you ever wondered why so much of it still falls on you… even when nobody says it out loud?In this episode, we talk about the expectations you’ve lived with—at home, at work, and in the spaces no one really sees. Not to accuse. Not to keep score. Just to acknowledge it. Because somewhere along the way, you learned what was yours to carry… and you carried it. Just like so many women do.We get into the reality of keeping a home when you also have a career, why some roles still fall the way they do. How much of it comes from how we were raised and how those patterns show up later—in marriages, in workplaces, and in the choices women make for themselves.There’s talk about corporate America, promotions, and pay gaps, about women in sports and the different paths women take professionally, about healthcare and the decisions and experiences that are deeply personal (and often complicated).Sometimes we agree. Sometimes we don’t. Sometimes we admit we’ve been on both sides of the argument. But that’s the point. This isn’t about judging—it’s about recognising the reality, the progress, and everything in between.Here’s a taste of what’s inside:The unspoken expectations waiting at homeWhere these roles begin—and how they evolveWork, ambition and the conversations around fairnessWomen’s choices, careers and changing pathsThe reality for women in sportsThe healthcare topics that shape women’s livesIt’s an honest conversation, a realistic one and one that might sound very familiar.If this episode makes you think, reflect, or see things a little differently, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe.Mentioned in this episode:Nobody's Girl by Virginia Roberts Giuffre https://www.amazon.com/Nobodys-Girl-Surviving-Fighting-Justice/dp/0593493125Follow us on all platforms 👇TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midlifemafiaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlifemafiapodcast/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidLifeMafiaWebsite: https://midlifemafia.com/Podcast editing by https://podcastmagician.com/
Mar 2
44 min

Some things in life just make you go…hmmm. You know, those little (and not-so-little) moments that make you stop, laugh, and sometimes shake your head in disbelief. From fashion quirks to city chaos, we’re spilling the tea on the everyday stuff that midlife throws at us.Elle shares her epic parking moment. Marietta weighs in with her tummy-tucking advice, because apparently some things are worth sharing. Kristy has a word or two about entitled people, especially when it comes to driving. And that’s just scratching the surface.Here’s a taste of what’s inside:Fashion experiments gone sidewaysCity chaos: driving, parking, snow not cleared and entitled people doing their thingHousehold mysteries: missing socks, shrinking socks, lost silverwareCelebrities’ clothes and their kids’ namesEveryday life hacks, fails and Marietta’s tummy-tucking wisdomJoin us for relatable rants, laughs and the delightful chaos that only midlife in the city can bring. Trust us, you’ll nod along, cringe a little and maybe even share your own hmmm moments. Don’t forget to like, share and subscribe!Follow us on all platforms 👇TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@midlifemafiaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/midlifemafiapodcast/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidLifeMafiaWebsite: https://midlifemafia.com/Podcast editing by https://podcastmagician.com/
Feb 23
46 min

In this episode we are taking a break from Midlife and talking about some of the more current & serious events that are happening in our country, We are THREE different women with three different opinions and take on our current environment. If you are someone who is looking for a change in conversation, or someone who likes a little "on the air" tension, then this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss... Is our country divided? Our opinions on Ice Luck vs hard work social media Current economy and much more ! SO take a minute out of your busy schedule, and enjoy the show! Let us know what resonated with you the most, Don’t forget to subscribe and give us a thumbs up! Follow us on all platforms! TikTok: /midlifemafia Instagram: /midlifemafiapodcast YouTube: /midlifemafiapodcast Website: midlifemafia.com
Feb 16
55 min

Welcome to our valentines day show special, in this episode "Valentines Day: Sweet or Scam" we discuss the sweet side of the hallmark holiday, and the scams that come with it. If you are someone who is looking for ideas on what to give or what not to give, or someone who simply does not care about valentines day and just want's to have a laugh then this episode is for you. In this episode we will be covering... What Valentines day means to us Holiday memories & family traditions Gifts Do's & Don'ts Date Ideas What do Single Ladies do on Valentines Day & much more! SO take a minute out of your busy schedule, and enjoy the show! Let us know what resonated with you the most, Don’t forget to subscribe and give us a thumbs up! Follow us on all platforms!TikTok: /midlifemafiaInstagram: /midlifemafiapodcastYouTube: /midlifemafiapodcastWebsite: midlifemafia.com
Feb 9
42 min

Midlife is a time of change and with that comes changes in your daily routine! If you are someone that has been struggling with how to balance your schedules, finding a time for yourself and even staying organized then this episode is for you. in this episode we discuss... What a typical day looks like for each of us ( they are all different) Tools we use to help us stay organized Daily challenges things that drive us CRAZY How WE find time to ourselves Our different forms of self care SO take a minute out of your busy schedule, and enjoy the show! Let us know what resonated with you the most, Don’t forget to subscribe and give us a thumbs up! Follow us on all platforms! TikTok: /midlifemafia Instagram: /midlifemafiapodcast YouTube: /midlifemafiapodcast Website: midlifemafia.com
Feb 2
41 min

In this episode of the Midlife Mafia “Throwback Nostalgia” we dive into a conversation where we relive our experiences growing up as a kid in the 70’s, 80’s & 90’s and how it has shaped the grown ups we are today. We take a walk down memory lane and share our core memories that we know you can relate to as well. In this episode we cover: Fashion trends of our times Favorite Games and forms of Entertainment Life before cellphones Menopause Minute: Did people use hormone therapy in the 80’s? How was life like at home Our favorite places to eat Iconic commercials engraved in our brains Our favorite artists and songs
Jan 26
45 min

In this episode of Midlife Mafia “Confident, Sore, and Still Social,” we get honest about what it really feels like living in a midlife body that is changing biologically, physically, and mentally. From hormone shifts to emotional eating, confidence struggles to redefining what sexy even means, this conversation is raw, real, and deeply relatable.We talk about how hormones might be the easiest part to manage, but the emotional side, body image, and mental health are the real challenges. We open up about weight gain, depression, friendship, intimacy, and learning how to show up for ourselves with more grace and less pressure.In this episode we cover:• Why hormones are easier to manage than confidence and emotions • Biological, physical, and mental changes in midlife • Redefining Confidence • Emotional eating and weight gain from depression • Who we are really trying to impress in this stage of life • Why intimacy can feel easier with less pressure and more clarity • The importance of having friends who understand and support you • Replacing feelings of loss with gratitude and letting go of what no longer matters • Menopause Minute: how hormone changes affect confidence and connectionIf you’ve ever felt confident one day and completely lost the next, sore in a body you don’t recognize, but still wanting to live, love, laugh, and go out with your people, this episode is for you.Follow us on all platforms!TikTok: /midlifemafia Instagram: /midlifemafiapodcast YouTube: /midlifemafiapodcast Website: midlifemafia.com
Jan 19
39 min

n this episode of Midlife Mafia, we go back in time to Growing Up in Brooklyn, the Bensonhurst edition. Kristy and Marietta share what it was really like growing up just blocks apart in a neighborhood where everyone knew your name, kids played outside all day, and your parents always knew where you were.We talk about how different it feels now, from safety and street life to how kids grow up today, and why we still miss the old Brooklyn community vibe. Plus, we get into all the Bensonhurst staples, the food spots we grew up on, the feasts we waited for every year, and the places that made the neighborhood feel like home.Join us in this episode where we cover:• Hanging out on corners and why it felt normal back then• How safety has changed and why fights felt different growing up• Playing outside all day with no phones, just kickball, manhunt, and stoop life• The Bensonhurst culture shift and how the neighborhood has evolved• Brooklyn food favorites, bagels, pizza debates, and non Italian staples• The 18th Avenue feast, block parties, and old school traditions• Why we wish our kids could experience the Brooklyn we grew up inIf you grew up in Brooklyn, we want to hear your stories. Comment your favorite spots, your best memories, and if you remember the woman in the wheelchair, tell us her name.Follow us on all platforms!TikTok: /midlifemafiaInstagram: /midlifemafiapodcastYouTube: /midlifemafiapodcastWebsite: midlifemafia.com
Jan 12
37 min
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