Your next difficult conversation may not need a stronger argument. It may need a better question.In this episode of Mick Unplugged, Mick sits down with his coach, Derek Gaunt, for a personal conversation about the communication skills that changed how Mick leads, negotiates, and approaches conflict.Derek draws on his law-enforcement and hostage-negotiation experience to explain tactical empathy: recognizing another person's perspective without having to agree with it. He breaks down why explaining too early creates resistance, how tone affects a conversation, and why an objection can point to a concern that has not yet been spoken aloud.Mick shares how asking what success looked like to a client uncovered a need he had missed. Derek also discusses the practical ideas behind Fight Less, Win More, the role of curiosity, and why difficult conversations often deserve a phone call instead of another long email.The conversation closes with lessons on coachability, silence, trust, and staying grounded under pressure.In this episode Why acknowledging a perspective is different from agreeing with it. How listening helps uncover the information missing from your assumptions. Why you should ask what success looks like before deciding what someone needs. What a hostage-negotiation training exercise reveals about tone and pressure. How unaddressed concerns can resurface after an agreement. Why Derek encourages live conversation for sensitive back-and-forth discussions. What coachability looks like when someone is already successful. How silence creates space to learn.TakeawaysBefore your next difficult conversation, replace one assumption with a question. Listen to the answer before preparing your response.Follow Mick Unplugged for more conversations about the because behind how we live, lead, and grow.ChaptersConnect & Discover:Instagram: @derekmgauntLinkedIn: @derek-gaunt-2943a824Website: The Black Swan GroupBook: Fight Less, Win More: How Master Negotiators Influence Hearts, Minds and DealsClip: 60 Seconds or She Dies                        FOLLOW MICK ON:Spotify: MickUnpluggedInstagram: @mickunplugged Facebook: @mickunpluggedYouTube:  @MickUnpluggedPodcast LinkedIn: @mickhunt Website:  MickHuntOfficial.comWebsite: howtobeagoodleader.comWebsite: Leadloudseries.comApple: MickUnpluggedBook: How to be A Good Leader When You’ve Never Had One#MickUnplugged #Leadership #Podcast #DerekGaunt #Negotiation