In this powerful episode of Mess to Badass, Pam dives deep into the infamous phrase that has haunted generations of women: “Calladita te ves más bonita” (You look prettier when you’re quiet).This seemingly innocent saying is rooted in machismo and has been used for centuries to silence women, forcing them to prioritize appearance over self-expression. Pam unpacks the history behind this mindset, shares personal stories of growing up in a culture steeped in Marianismo, and highlights how these ideals continue to affect women today.But this isn’t just about pointing out the problem—it’s about reclaiming our voices, breaking free from societal expectations, and turning the messiness of life into our superpower.Whether you’re a Latina navigating the pressures of cultural expectations or anyone who’s felt the weight of being told to “be quiet,” this episode will inspire you to speak up, rewrite the rules, and embrace your messy, badass self.SourcesPew Research Center Stats on Latina Women – Visit WebsiteMadres de Plaza de Mayo Mexican women fight for justiceRecommended Books on Feminism and Latinx Culture:Borderlands/La Frontera by Gloria AnzaldúaFeminism is for Everybody by bell hooksFollow us on Instagram: Mess2BadassEmbracetheMess

It’s 2025, besties! New year, same chaos—but this time, we’re flipping the script. Forget the guilt-ridden, impossible resolutions that fizzle by February. Instead, we’re diving into something way more badass: being unapologetically you.In this episode, we’re calling out the toxic “New Year, New You” narrative and tossing it straight in the trash. 🗑️ Why? Because you don’t need to be “fixed”—you’re already incredible, mess and all.💥 What You’ll Love in This Episode:A hilarious breakdown of why resolutions suck (spoiler: they’re like a drunk ex—tempting but disappointing).A pep talk on choosing authenticity over perfection—because Pinterest-perfect is overrated.Relatable AF stories about failed goals (hello, 5 a.m. meditation) and how to rewrite the rules.Permission to set messy, meaningful goals that actually light you up.Plus, you’ll get interactive moments (DM me your floppiest resolutions!), a few laughs, and a whole lot of encouragement to own your messy magic in 2025.✨ Key Takeaway: Perfection is boring; progress is badass. Let’s celebrate every small win and embrace the chaos together.🎉 Ready to make 2025 the year you stop apologizing for who you are and start owning your power? Hit play, follow Mess to Badass, share this episode with your messy BFFs, and tag us @MessToBadass on Instagram with your badass goals for the year.Teaser: Next episode? We’re diving deep into cultural conditioning with Calladita Te Ves Más Bonita. Trust me, it’s gonna get REAL.Stay messy, stay amazing, and let’s own this year together. Besitos! 😘Mess to Badass Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mess2badass/Email me: [email protected]

🎙️ Mess to Badass is back with a brand-new season! 🎉This time, we're diving headfirst into adulting—how hard it can be, how messy it gets, and how to turn that mess into your ultimate superpower. 💪✨💌 Wanna be part of the show? Hit me up at [email protected] with your gossip, burning questions, or messy life dilemmas. I’ll bring in an expert (or a badass friend) to tackle it together.Mess to Badass is all about building a community for anyone who feels messy, struggles with adulting, or just doesn’t fit in—and is totally fine with it. Our mission? To embrace the chaos, own our flaws, and turn them into the kind of strength that makes us unstoppable. Because let’s face it: life doesn’t come with a manual, but you don’t need it to be a total badass.Expect episodes packed with sarcasm, humor, tough love, and some real talk. From deep reflections to laugh-out-loud moments, we’re here to ride the rollercoaster of adulting together. Life’s messy, but that’s where the magic happens. So, buckle up and let’s turn our struggles into strength—one badass episode at a time. 🎧🔥

Martha Ramos is an amazing woman who had a corporate job making six figures, and an amazing lifestyle until she realized how unhappy she was even though she had amazing opportunities through her corporate job. In this episode, she talks about some personal struggles she has gone through since she was a teenager, from emancipating from her parents to being broke to make her dream come true of having her own business, and realizing that peace of mind is better than making tons of money. Martha teaches us how the Latinx community should support, cross-promote, and help each other out as much as we can to succeed. This podcast will help you understand the life of a Latina, how some old-school mentality and societal ideals are engrained in our brains, and how the ways we have been raised have affected how to handle life. Martha gets very personal with us, she shares how she was feeling lost, her messy moments, impostor syndrome, and how she has found the right tools to grow and overcome her struggles. Want to learn more about Martha and work with her check her website Follow her on Facebook Instagram Linkedin Listen to her Podcast Audacious as F*ck If you like this podcast make sure to follow it, share it, and leave a review. If you are ready to embrace your mess follow me on all social media @embracethemess --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support

This is A MUST LISTEN episode specially if you are having a shitty day, we will make you smile and bring some joy to your day. This might be one of my favorite episodes. I am interviewing one of my fave women, Jess Wilson is a remote photographer and founder of JWilsonPix. There are going to be tons of laughs and giggles. I promise you will enjoy it. Jess likes to call herself “An Organized Hot Mess Express”, because she likes to keep her life organized. However, she is a mom, grandma, business owner, wife, cleaning lady for her house, in charge of laundry, poop cleaner, etc. All of these stuff makes her human, real, messy and she is proud of all of it. In this episode, we talk about social media and finding the right platform that works for you, giving permission to be messy, imposter syndrome, and tons of real situations that will make you feel good about yourself. We also talk about breaking “The I Give a Fuck” Button and what does that mean. If you feel shy in front of people but need some branded pictures for your biz or life, you must schedule a session with Jess Check Jess’s JWilsonPix Website Follow her on IG Get to know Jess on her FB I swear we are not drunk. When we get together we have so much fun and get to be ourselves while having fun and serious conversations. I do want to warn you that we will be talking about poop and other bodily fluids. Follow me On IG Check my website Let’s co-work in Tik Tok Don’t forget to leave a 5 star review, follow, and share the episode with everybody you know. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support

In this episode, we talk about the reasons why people that work from home and entrepreneurs are struggling with depression and loneliness. We also talk about the difference between remote work and working from home. Lastly, we talk about 5 tips that can help you overcome depression and loneliness. If you are looking for a community where we celebrate your wins, keep you accountable, and keep you company. Join FREE to Mess to Badass or become a Founding Badass and lock your price for life. If you want to try Morning Pages or be part of Consciously Creative click here and make sure to use the code PAM for 20% off You need a Mood Tracker click here to download it Here are some of the articles I used for my research Zen Business: Entrepreneur Depression: An Epidemic Nobody is Talking About Inc.com: Remote Working isn’t the same as “Working from home” SHRM: A Potential Downside to Remote work? Higher rates of depression Medical News Today: Is there a connection between WFH and depression? Make sure to share this podcast, review it and add it to your library. Thank you for listening to another episode of Mess to Badass --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support

Meet Casey Jourdan, a podcaster, self-trust coach, veteran, and absolute badass! In this episode, Casey talks about her battle with anxiety, depression, and infertility. The realization is that not everybody fits the traditional method of coaching because they target a specialty, and many multi-passionates do not fit in that mold. How diversifying and having "more tools in your toolbox" can make you more powerful. Check Casey's website IG Tik Tok If you want to learn more about Embrace the Mess and the Podcast check my ⁠website⁠ Follow me on:  ⁠Tik Tok ⁠⁠Instagram⁠ Please rate this show, leave a comment, and share it with everybody you know.  Thank you for listening  Besitos Pam --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support

We had some technical difficulties during this recording and per usual I am giving you all for you to meet Danielle, the founder of Her Messy Bun shares tons of lessons about her entrepreneurial journey, the shitty moments, and moments that she hasn’t shared with anybody before. Check her website, her program Burnout to Breakthrough, and her community Consciously Creative. Use code "PAM" for 20% off at checkout If you want to learn more about Embrace the Mess and the Podcast check my website Follow me on:  Tik Tok  Instagram Please rate this show, leave a comment, and share it with everybody you know.  Thank you for listening  Besitos Pam --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support

I am on my own in this episode and extremely nervous so bear with me. In this episode, I talk about being a messy entrepreneur, the reason why we should stay messy, and how to learn from it.  This episode has some background noise because I moved my desk and didn't realize the microphone was going to pick up on everything in the back, so next time I'll have it all figured out and it will sound better. Again, this is all part of the learning process and I am not going to edit it nor redo it because I wouldn't be true to myself and what I preach.  Below are some resources that I used for research. Success is on the other side of messy and awkward Why 'Messy' Leaders are the Future An Open Letter to Entrepreneurs in the Messy Middle Humanizing the Messy Life of Entrepreneurship  I have also included the book by Tim Hartford. Messy: The Power of Disorder to Transform Our Lives If you want to learn more about Embrace the Mess and the Podcast check my website If you are looking for a community of amazing, creative, and supportive people.  Check Consciously Creative and use code PAM for 20% at checkout Follow me on:  Tik Tok  Instagram Please rate this show, leave a comment, and share it with everybody you know.  Thank you for listening  Besitos Pam --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support

In this episode I have Souligna Stone, the owner of Stone Media Source, she is known as the strategic Brand AcceleratorTM an expert in corporate marketing, sales, employee relations, communications, social media, and leadership development. Souligna knows how to get your people and products/services noticed in your marketplace to produce massive results. Souligna is also a mom and an awesome friend. In this episode, we get a little personal, she talks about mistakes she has made during her transition of leaving her corporate job to become an entrepreneur. How she has learned to embrace her mess and how much she loves being messy.  Trigger warning: In this episode, we talk a little bit about depression and suicide. Want to know more about Souligna?  Website: stonemediasource.com  IG:@stonemediasource / @souligna_stone  Promo: Half off from her 5 week MasterClass  Want to take the Badass Quiz? Click here Check my blog   Follow me on:  Tik Tok: @embracethemess Instagram: @embracethemess  Are you enjoying this podcast? Buy me a coffee  Please leave a review and let me know what shitty topics you would like to hear in the show. Share and follow this podcast. If you want to be a guest on my podcast let's set up a time and chat  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support