Men Talking Mindfulness
Men Talking Mindfulness
Jon Macaskill & Will Schneider
Masculinity Contest Culture
1 hour 4 minutes Posted Apr 19, 2022 at 9:00 am.
Masculinity Contest Culture
Jon leads Opening Grounding Practice (~4 min)
In the time before Will was a hippie…
What contest culture is doing to companies
What exactly is Masculinity Contest Culture?
MCC in the Navy
Can we use competition in a healthy way?
Using competition to better ourselves
No one likes a bully
Everyone carries masculine and feminine energy
Jon and Will have their first disagreement
Will learns a new word
Learning to say sorry
Quote about Thomas Hobbes
Will leads Closing Grounding Practice (~2 min)
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Today we are going to speak about something called: Masculinity Contest Culture. Here’s a little taste of what we are going to dive into:
“At work, this pressure to prove “I have what it takes” shifts the focus from accomplishing the organization’s mission to proving one’s masculinity. The result: endless “mine’s bigger than yours” contests, such as taking on and bragging about heavy workloads or long hours, cutting corners to out-earn others, and taking unreasonable risks either physically (in blue-collar jobs) or in decision-making (e.g., rogue traders in finance). The competition breeds unspoken anxiety (because admitting anxiety is seen as weak) and defensiveness (e.g., blaming subordinates for any failure), undermining cooperation, psychological safety, trust in coworkers, and the ability to admit uncertainty or mistakes. Together this creates miserable, counterproductive work environments that increase stress, burnout, and turnover.”
The source of this quote is from a Harvard Business Review article entitled: “How Masculinity Contests Undermine Organizations, and What to Do About It” by Jennifer L. Berdahl, Peter Glick, and Marianne Cooper.  (https://hbr.org/2018/11/how-masculinity-contests-undermine-organizations-and-what-to-do-about-it )
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