Married Couples - Making Great Marriages
Married Couples - Making Great Marriages
Doug Brinley
This podcast discusses a number of reasons to have a great marriage if a couple expects to be together forever following a temple priesthood ordinance. Therefore, divorce is not part of the Lord's program for married couples unless there are serious elements in the marriage such as abusiveness, adultery, abandonment, perhaps financial disaster due to one spouse's extravagance, or other elements detrimental to the dignity, safety, or mental health of a spouse. However, it rarely is due to the actions of just one spouse. It usually takes two to make a great marriage and only one can ruin a relationship. Where there is repeated absence of kindness, a lack of positive communication or hurtful criticism of a spouse over time without repentance, and a host of other serious elements that can fracture one's soul. If we expect to live among other exalted couples in the celestial kingdom, we must acquire character traits and attributes that will make it comfortable for us to be among such couples. Our Heavenly Father put us in an environment here on the earth where good and evil exists, so that through our use of agency, we learn how to live a celestial life by making only those choices that prove that we want to live the kind of life that God lives and other exalted beings life.
The Proclamation to the World on the Family
In 1995, the Church leaders issued a proclamation on the family for the world to understand the place of marriage as it is placed in the standards and doctrines of the gospel of Jesus Christ. I covered some ideas of divorce, resurrection, and finally who will resurrect you as a wife and sons.
Jan 6, 2024
37 min
The Proclamation to the World on the Family
It has been 29 years since the First Presidency and Quorum of Twelve issued a proclamation on marriage and family relations. Then I covered a number of other topics dealing with marriage and family issues.
Jan 6, 2024
37 min
If You Think Divorce is a Good Thing--Think Again
Divorce is a dangerous topic these days because it is so prevalent. The extent of divorce in society at large is in the 40 percentages while those who marry in the temple of the Lord (Latter-day Saints), where a couple made covenants with God the Father and each other, divorce is in the high teens. A temple ceremony confers upon a couple the blessing of living together for 'time and all eternity.' Because of the Savior's resurrection and its application to all of us, it is p...
Apr 11, 2023
50 min
Keeping Marriage Covenants
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the only religious model that teaches that marriage is to be eternal, not just a mortal relationship. However, even with an eternal perspective some members often violate covenants with Deity by making poor choices. I have given 10 examples of individuals that married in the Lord's House and then, like Saul, David, and Solomon lost their bearings and made serious mistakes. I outline the beliefs of clergy who beli...
Jul 1, 2022
48 min
#4 Making Marriage Great Again
The Proclamation on the Family, 1995, reminded LDS that we have Heavenly Parents who sent us to this schooling period to learn the differences between good and evil if we expect to go back and live with God and other couples who attain exaltation. We came here to marry, to have children if we are able, and we end up with 3 different spouses. #1 is the bride and groom. #2 is the mother/father of children. #3 is the 'empty nest' period of life. Each of these 'spous...
May 12, 2022
56 min
Making Marriage Eternal
The secular world knows only "till death do you part." Latter-day Saints understand that through the restoration of the gospel and priesthood keys in these latter-days, it is now possible to make a marriage one that moves beyond these short years of mortality and has the potential to be an eternal relationship. This kind of marriage or 'sealing' takes place in temples built by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and only them. It is one reason why the Church is b...
Mar 23, 2022
34 min
Making Great Marriages Again #2
From the Proclamation on the Family (1995) we learn that we have Heavenly Parents, a principle that has not been emphasized in years prior to 1995. It means that our heavenly father is a husband and a father; his wife is a wife and a mother. They become our models to become the kind of spouses and parents that They became. Joseph Smith indicated that Heavenly Father once lived on an earth the same as Jesus Christ and the rest of us. That means that He knows how to bles...
Feb 11, 2022
59 min
Episode 1: Making Marriage Great Again
Marriage is the great adventure of our lives. Finding another compatible sweetheart and combining two lives to create a family and then to add family members by our ability as male and female to add to our family size, and then rear them to maturity is perhaps the most important thing we do in this life. Unfortunately, there are too many who seem to disregard their marriage vows (covenants) and look for an exit to the marriage -- sometimes after not many months or years. Tha...
Dec 15, 2021
41 min