I know it might sound harsh but I think, even if it's totally untrue (or partially untrue) that you start thinking that everything in your life is your fault.Let me explain.Entitlement is growing rapidly in our culture. Most people think it's someone else's job to manage their health, money, happiness, relationships and much more. This leads to unhappiness.When it's your fault it means it's in your power to change. Making a successful change leads to happiness and better self-esteem. I should know I've tried it.