Soul Therapy with Dr. Dee
Soul Therapy with Dr. Dee
Dr. Dee
Secure and Positioned: How to Stop Letting Other People Define Your Worth |
48 minutes Posted Jul 13, 2026 at 4:02 am.
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Do you find yourself needing approval before you feel confident? Do other people’s

reactions shake how you see yourself? In this Season 2 finale of Soul Therapy with Dr.

Dee, we close out our series on healing insecurity with one of the most important truths

you’ll ever internalize: you don’t get to decide how other people feel about you — but

you also can’t let them decide how you feel about yourself.

Dr. Dee walks through the complete FIRST healing framework — Face the Pain, Identify

the Root, Release the Pressure, Surrender to the Process, and Trust God with the

Outcome — and shows what it actually looks like to show up as a secure person rooted in

Christ.

If you’ve been working through insecurity, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, or the need

for external validation, this episode is your landing place.

Topics covered:

How insecurity hands other people control over your self-worth


What it looks like to be emotionally secure vs. emotionally reactive

The FIRST framework for soul healing (full recap)

Power shift thinking and renewing your mind

Why clarity shows up at the appointed time

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