Hello and welcome to this episode of Love is the first step, a podcast about the hard moments that led us to who we are. My name is Hera, I am an intuitive healer and this program is made for those who want to reflect on their lives, their loves and hear stories that can lead them to a better version of themselves. We all know about red flags, we might know what we want or what we don’t want in relationships, yet sometimes we find ourselves attracted to that person that is going to hurt us. It’s like driving a car towards a wall and choose to speed up anyway. What makes wounded people so attractive? How can we love them? What resides behind those wounds ? Today we are going to talk about the wound of being loved to much with Sharif H Joynson, a relationship coach and masculinity expert. He is also the author of the soon-to-be-released book 'Loving the Unhealed Man' in which he reveals what lies in the heart of those wounded men that women hate to love. FOR MORE :  JOIN MY NEWSLETTER Visit my website and join my newsletter for more healing tips on relationships : https://heralaskri.com/ JOIN THE LOVE IS THE FIRST STEP COMMUNITY Join the Love is the first step community on my inner circle : https://bit.ly/2Qc4Dre FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM  Follow me on Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/heralaskri/  ------- MORE ABOUT SHARIF H. JOYNSON  Website : http://www.sharifhjoynson.com