Music by Divine C.U.T.S.

Hi, I’m Tony Dee, author of “Your Case For Love,” the book, founder of the “Bypass method,” helping you bypass the wrong person so you can get to the right person this time. Also the co-host of Your Case For Love, the podcast.

Hi, I’m Liz Merriweather, life coach, psychotherapist, and co-host of Your Case For Love podcast.

Welcome to Your Case For Love.

In this episode, we’re going to introduce you to Dr. Erin Mayfield.

Here’s a little insight into where we go in. We talk about expectation conversations in the book, Your Case For Love. And you may want to pick up your copy because all of these things we’re talking about are in the book, if you’d like to have it all together.

You know, Tony, we are going to hear from Dr. Erin, but let me just say that I am certain if she and the person she was dating had had these expectation chain-versions, she wouldn’t have ended up in that first codependent marriage. But again, let’s hear her talk about it.

When I was delivering babies and I was in a codependent relationship and I tried managing all of that, I can look back and see how bad I felt. I didn’t know it at the time. I knew I was tired.

You know, Dr. Erin has talked before about how she did a lot of therapy to get out of that codependent relationship and understand how she got into it in the first place. And I see that with a lot of my courageous clients that come into therapy.