Love and Orgasms
Love and Orgasms
Robertta Bobbie
A podcast by Erotic Writer, Robertta Bobbie , on her day to day feelings and thoughts.
MONEY is very important for women!
You’d be surprised how early I learned that asking for money can be your biggest asset… and how I stole hundreds without anyone noticing. From as young as 8, I learned that confidence isn’t begging, it’s asserting your worth. Whether you’re saving, investing, or negotiating, money is a mindset, and what you believe you deserve shapes your life.
Jul 10
52 min
Masculinity in the bedroom - From a woman's perspective
This episode explores what women really want from men in the bedroom by redefining masculinity beyond stereotypes like dominance and physical strength. It highlights the power of emotional safety, confidence, playfulness, communication, empathy, and vulnerability in creating deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling sex life. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, you’ll learn practical ways to build trust, strengthen connection, and make every encounter more passionate, meaningful, and satisfying.
Jun 20
16 min
Marriage and babies in 2026
I delve into the complex emotions and societal pressures surrounding marriage and parenthood. I challenge traditional norms, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and intentional decision-making. By exploring financial stability, personal growth, and cultural expectations, the episode encourages listeners to reflect on their true desires and motivations. It offers practical tools for approaching marriage thoughtfully, highlighting the significance of aligning personal values with life choices. This candid conversation empowers individuals to define happiness on their own terms, making it essential for anyone questioning societal norms or contemplating major life decisions.
Jun 4
39 min
Oversharing - sex, grief, career, marriage and a baby, money... LET'S TALK!
Feeling overwhelmed or forging your own path?Drop a 💭 if you’ve ever felt like your mind is racing butyour body needs a break — I’ve been there. I’ve realized that rest and mentalhealth go hand in hand, yet society rarely values emotional downtime —especially for women.This year, I’ve been through a lot: from hormonal lows, grief over loved ones,to fighting societal expectations on productivity and success.But I’ve also learned that loving myself means honoring those quiet moments —the tears, the exhaustion, the need to pause. It’s okay to not always be okay.Prioritize your mental peace and love yourself through the highs and lows.What’s one small thing you’re doing today to nurture your mind or body?Let's normalize self-care and honest vulnerability — we’re in this together.Full episode link in bio — let’s talk honestlyabout mental health and embracing ourselves.#SelfLove #MentalHealthMatters#HonestVibes #SelfCareJourney #AuthenticLiving 
May 20
43 min
Unlearning my terrible 'first-born daughter' traits
Being first born child comes with a lot of weight that has left me having to unlearn all my terrible traits, what are some of the annoying ways you act that you feel the need to improve?
Apr 13
47 min
My boyfriend was a conman
Have you ever been conned in this Nairobi? They are bringing it into relationships now, stay vigilant!https://loveandorgasms.com/the-broke-politician-a-story-about-ovulation-horniness/
Mar 26
58 min
I almost got married! - The 4th Proposal
Sometimes I think I want to get married; but when it starts actualizing, I get so afraid. Here's a story about the last time someone proposed to me...
Jan 5
21 min
Love and Orgasms 2025 Wrapped - the good, the bad and the sexy.
The year is over and it's time to think about how it has been so far. Are you happy with the person you've become this year?
Dec 26, 2025
21 min
Getting over a breakup (a guide for non-dummies)
A lot of the advice online about how to get over a breakup revolves around suppressing emotions, looking tougher and doing fitness stuff... but, what if this doesn't work because you do all these and healthier coping mechanisms already? Let's talk about it.
Dec 20, 2025
17 min
Introduction to BIRTH CONTROL
How did you settle for the method of contraception that you are currently using? Are you even using any? Do you even know about contraceptives? Let's learn together!
Oct 27, 2025
15 min
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