Send us Fan Mail For so long, I've thought about the qualities I hoped to find in a wife. But recently, God challenged me with a different question: Am I becoming the kind of husband she's praying for? In this episode, I share a personal journal entry that unexpectedly turned into a prayer. Not a prayer asking God to bring me my future wife, but a prayer asking Him to prepare me for her. I reflect on the kind of man I hope to become, the home I hope to build, the peace I hope to protect, and ...
Aug 12
42 min
Send us Fan Mail At some point, almost everyone who's been disappointed in love begins asking themselves the same question: "Am I asking for too much?" But what if that's the wrong question? In this episode, we explore how loneliness, heartbreak, comparison, and time can slowly make us question our standards instead of questioning whether we're simply asking the wrong person for the right things. We talk about the difference between standards and preferences, how fear can disguise itself as...
Aug 3
28 min
Send us Fan Mail Being needed can feel a lot like being loved. It feels good to be the person someone depends on, leans on, or calls when life falls apart. But the two aren't always the same. In this episode, we explore why so many of us tie our worth to being useful, how people can mistake dependency for love, and what happens when our identity becomes wrapped up in fixing, rescuing, and constantly showing up for everyone else. Together, we'll unpack the difference between being valued for w...
Jul 28
32 min
Send us Fan Mail It's easy to blame bad judgment, ignored red flags, or poor decisions, but I don't think that's the real answer. In this episode, we explore why good people can repeatedly find themselves in unhealthy relationships, how familiarity often disguises itself as chemistry, why we fall in love with potential rather than reality, and how healing changes not only who we are but also who we're attracted to. Sometimes the wrong person doesn't feel wrong because they're exciting. Someti...
Jul 21
43 min
Send us Fan Mail Not every relationship that changes you is obviously toxic. Sometimes the hardest relationship to leave is the one that almost works. The one with enough love to keep you hopeful, enough chemistry to keep you attached, and just enough happiness to make you believe things will eventually get better. In this episode, I explore why "almost" can be more dangerous than "terrible," why hope can sometimes keep us stuck longer than pain, and how to recognize the difference betwee...
Jul 14
28 min
Send us Fan Mail There was a time when I thought all love was worth holding onto. But the older I get, the more I realize that not every kind of love is meant to last. In this episode, I open up about the kinds of love I've outgrown, the love that makes you question yourself, the love that only shows up when it's convenient, the love that asks you to become less of who you are, and the love that mistakes chemistry for compatibility. This isn't about pointing fingers or revisiting the past. I...
Jul 7
33 min
Send us Fan Mail We often talk about finding someone who loves us, but what if love isn't the thing we're missing? In this episode, I explore the difference between being loved and being understood—and why those two things aren't always the same. We talk about emotional safety, feeling seen, why some relationships leave you feeling lonely despite being loved, and why understanding may be one of the rarest forms of intimacy. If you've ever found yourself saying, "That's not what I meant," or...
Jun 29
33 min
Send us Fan Mail After my recent breakup, I've been thinking about how different dating feels now than it did ten years ago. In your 20s, chemistry can feel like enough. In your 30s, you start paying attention to things like consistency, communication, values, peace, and whether someone actually fits the life you're trying to build. This isn't dating advice. It's an honest conversation about what changes when you're no longer looking for potential and you're looking for partnership. Viewer di...
Jun 26
23 min
Send us Fan Mail In this deeply personal episode of Lost Lover Boy, Demetri Wiley opens up about the difficult decision to walk away from someone he loved. Addressing public speculation surrounding his recent breakup, he shares the lessons, heartbreak, and self-discovery that led him to choose peace over forcing a relationship that lacked true alignment. Demetri discusses the importance of emotional attunement, feeling supported during life's most challenging moments, and recognizing when co...
Jun 16
42 min
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Demetri unpacks the quiet belief so many of us carry that we are “too much,” “not enough,” or simply hard to love. He explores the origins of that story, how past relationships and unmet needs shape our self-worth, and why believing this lie keeps us disconnected from the love we desire. This is a conversation about unlearning shame, embracing self-compassion, and allowing yourself to be loved without needing to perform or shrink. Viewer discretion is advised...
Jan 20
25 min
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