Long Game: a Heated Rivalry Podcast
Long Game: a Heated Rivalry Podcast
Declan & Silvan
Long Game: A Heated Rivalry Podcast is a re-watch and deep-dive podcast dedicated to Heated Rivalry, hosted by Declan and Silvan. In each episode, we revisit key moments across the series, unpacking the slow-burn tension, character development, and emotional beats that make the heated rivalry world so compelling. Through thoughtful discussion, close reading, and a fan-informed lens, we explore themes of competition, intimacy, identity, and growth over time, celebrating not just the heat of the rivalry, but the long game it takes to truly understand these characters and their relationship. New episodes published every Sunday
Next Door Director Caroline Plyler on Queer Storytelling & Vertical Filmmaking
Declan and Silvan sit down with Caroline Plyler, director of the hit vertical romance Next Door, to discuss her journey from actor and script supervisor to first-time director. Caroline shares how her own experiences  shaped the story, why she wanted to create the "queer Disney Channel movie we never got," and what it has been like seeing audiences around the world connect with Kit and River's love story.We explore the rise of vertical filmmaking, how platforms like Candy Jar are changing the way stories are discovered, and why Caroline believes mobile-first storytelling is here to stay. She also gives us a behind-the-scenes look at directing Next Door, working with first-time leads, collaborating with cast and crew, and the realities of making a film for today's social-media generation.We discuss queer representation in media, the importance of joyful LGBTQ+ stories, Caroline's love of Sophia Coppola, the books she'd love to adapt, and her advice for aspiring filmmakers looking to break into the industry.Next Door is available now on Candy Jar.Fine Caroline on Instagram and Tiktok: carolinegrayplylerFind CandyJar on Instagram and Tiktok: watchcandyjarJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/NqD-jMfkq7gListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Chapters00:00 Introduction to Next Door and Its Impact02:41 Caroline's Directorial Debut and Personal Connection06:01 The Unique Appeal of Next Door10:20 Creating a Wholesome Queer Narrative12:03 The Importance of Diverse Queer Representation15:18 Audience Reactions and Surprises16:59 Caroline's Journey to Directing20:01 The Role of Script Supervision25:24 The Importance of Preparation in Filmmaking35:16 Preparation and Respect for the Crew36:06 Directorial Styles and Preferences38:06 Inspirations from Iconic Directors39:39 The Journey with Candy Jar Productions42:00 Resonating with the Story of Nextdoor46:28 Creating a Lighthearted Queer Romance48:52 Vertical Storytelling: A New Format54:27 The Impact of Second Screen Watching01:03:04 The Future of Vertical Storytelling01:04:32 Opportunities with Candy Jar Productions01:06:49 The Impact of Fan Creations01:09:08 Adapting Queer Stories01:16:01 Advice for Aspiring Filmmakers01:19:42 Quickfire Questions with Caroline01:24:30 The Heart of 'Next Door'
Jun 14
1 hr 28 min
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 4 - Rose
Declan and Silvan dive into Part 4 of our Heated Rivalry book review series. This is one of the most important introductions in the entire story, Rose.We compare Rachel Reid's novel with the TV adaptation, and explore why Rose feels different on the page versus on screen. I’m e discuss how Sophie Nélisse's performance elevated the character and why Shane and Rose's relationship serves such an important purpose in Shane's journey toward self-acceptance.Along the way, we unpack the idea of "meeting the right woman," reflect on our own experiences of questioning identity, and discuss how both the book and show portray the pressure to follow a traditional path before embracing who you really are.We also spend time breaking down the club scene, from wardrobe choices and celebrity culture to the emotional tension between Shane and Ilya. Does Shane and Rose's whirlwind romance feel longer than it actually is? We dfiscuss if Rachel Reid missed an opportunity to explore Shane's perspective more deeply during one of the story's most pivotal moments.This episode is packed with character analysis, adaptation comparisons, personal reflections, and plenty of tangents about dancing, fashion, skinny jeans, and why Rose remains one of the most beloved characters in the Heated Rivalry universe.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 14th June.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Rose and Character Comparisons02:41 The Role of Rose in Shane's Journey05:50 Language and Feminist Commentary in Character Dialogue08:09 Shane's Internal Struggle with Identity11:17 The Dynamics of Shane and Rose's Relationship13:18 The Impact of Time on Relationships in the Story16:04 Celebrity Culture and Public Perception19:00 The Club Scene: Book vs. TV Show22:08 Fashion and Social Expectations in Club Culture29:00 Body Image and Insecurities31:56 Fashion and Identity35:51 Atmosphere in Storytelling39:21 Dancing Dynamics44:28 Sexual Tension and Character Development49:08 Missed Opportunities in NarrativeJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/hnlLC04hXjUListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697
Jun 7
50 min
Heated Rivalry Fan fiction Part 2: Angst, Tropes & Emotional Damage
Declan and Silvan are joined by Jenn from the Book Refuge for Part 2 of our Fan fiction and AO3 episode. We go deeper into the world of AO3 and fancition. We cover tags such as hurt/comfort and soulmate Alternate Universess to secret marriages, social media disasters, and the infamous plane crash fic. Jenn guides us through the stories that have captured the Heated Rivalry fandom's imagination. We explore why readers are drawn to angst, whether suffering makes a love story more meaningful and how fanfiction allows us to revisit beloved characters in entirely new ways while keeping the original story intact.We also unpack the difference between canon, fanon, and headcanon, discuss why some fanfiction can successfully transition into traditionally published novels while others lose the very thing that made them special and debate what makes readers emotionally invest in a story in the first place.Jenn puts us to the test with a fanfiction recommendation game, where we rank a selection of Heated Rivalry fanfics based only on their summaries. Some are romantic, some are chaotic, some are surprisingly emotional and a few leave us wondering what exactly we've gotten ourselves into.This episode is a celebration of fandom creativity, storytelling, and the many ways readers keep Shane and Ilya's story alive long after the final page.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 7th June.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fanfiction and AO301:46 Exploring Heated Rivalry Tropes07:22 The Community of Fanfiction Writers11:20 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Romance18:09 Recommendations for New Readers of Romance18:39 Exploring Romance Preferences20:56 Character Connection in Storytelling23:40 The Value of Emotional Stakes26:33 The Role of Antiheroes in Fan Fiction29:03 Transforming Villains into Heroes32:25 The Impact of Fan Fiction on Canon35:55 The Appeal of Catastrophe in Stories39:57 The Creative Process in Fan Fiction42:46 The Challenge of Traditional Publishing45:24 Understanding Canon vs. Fanon51:40 The Separation of Fan Fiction and Traditional Publishing01:08:00 The Fallout of Public Breakups01:11:01 Fan Fiction and Social Media Dynamics01:13:58 Exploring Alternate Universes in Fan Fiction01:19:36 The Complexity of Relationships in Fiction01:23:44 The Appeal of Fake Relationships01:28:42 The Intrigue of Cheating and Open RelationshipsJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind Jenn:Instagram: thebookrefuge18Youtube: TheBookRefugeFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/ua60zP9zahkListen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Fic recommendations we spoke about in this episode:Mutually Assured Exposure: https://archiveofourown.org/works/77434821/chapters/202760196  Slipfast:  https://archiveofourown.org/works/73643456/chapters/191997696 The Game Plan: https://archiveofourown.org/works/42797457/chapters/107510184  Something You Can Fix: https://archiveofourown.org/works/76495636 Shane Hollander is dating a nice man from Montreal: https://archiveofourown.org/works/77871996/chapters/204023421 If This Is It: https://archiveofourown.org/works/80245286/chapters/210674496
May 31
1 hr 36 min
Heated Rivalry, Fan Fiction & AO3: Part 1
Silvan is joined by special guest Jenn from The Book Refuge for a deep dive into the passionate world of Heated Rivalry fandom, fan fiction, and the phenomenon of AO3.Jenn shares her journey into fan fiction culture, including how Heated Rivalry became one of the biggest fandoms on AO3. We unpack why these characters inspire such devotion, what makes romance adaptations so emotionally powerful when done well and why fandom spaces can feel both deeply creative and deeply personal.Together we explore what AO3 actually is and how it works, why Heated Rivalry lends itself so perfectly to fan fiction, the blurred lines between authorship, creativity, and community and the legal and ethical complexities surrounding fan works.If you are a longtime AO3 reader or someone hearing the term for the first time, this episode is a fascinating exploration of why people become so attached to fictional characters why Shane and Ilya continue to resonate so deeply with fans around the world.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 31st May.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Setup00:40 Exploring Heated Rivalry and Fan Fiction03:41 Diving into the Fan Fiction World06:28 The Impact of Adaptations on Romance09:42 The Role of AO3 in Fan Fiction12:29 The Significance of Romance in Storytelling28:30 Exploring the World of Fan Fiction30:21 The Legal Landscape of Fan Fiction37:18 The Gift Economy of Fan Fiction42:11 The Allure of Heated Rivalry Fan Fiction46:35 Understanding Tags in Fan Fiction58:03 The Impact of Wolfbird and Opal Apparition01:00:33 The Popularity of Fan Fiction01:02:25 The Impact of Unfinished Works01:05:17 The Drama Surrounding Fan Fiction Authors01:07:02 Navigating Fandom and Parasocial Relationships01:11:03 The Role of Fiction in Understanding Diverse Experiences01:13:51 Creating a Safe Space in Online Communities01:14:00 Handling Criticism as a Content Creator01:15:37 Exploring Diverse Romance in Literature01:21:00 The Journey into MM RomanceJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind Jenn:Instagram: thebookrefuge18Youtube: TheBookRefugeFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697References for material Jenn spoke about today:Series of YT videos by Jill Bearup: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj4N-R1RQxAs2v9G09lNy4oyAnGBBUtW3&si=d1osuTsCvf_6ykw8 An Exhaustive Defense of Fan Fiction: https://youtu.be/wvP_BLMgYBg?si=NoOIu5jxUh3AtigJ Ao3’s Mission Statement: https://archiveofourown.org/about Ao3’s FAQ Page: https://archiveofourown.org/faq/about-the-archive?language_id=en#whatisao3 Slash Fiction (Wiki): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slash_fiction#:~:text=It%20is%20commonly%20believed%20that,Spock%22)%20were%20used%20interchangeably Reddit Thread about Opal Apparition: https://www.reddit.com/r/heatedrivalryfanfics/comments/1sbnnuz/this_has_actually_made_me_feel_physically_sick/ 
May 24
1 hr 23 min
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 3- Tuna Melt
Declan and Silvan dive into Part 3 the Heated Rivalry book review. We finally reach one of the most emotionally charged turning points in Shane and Ilya’s relationship and we had a lot to say about it.From the aquarium scenes with Hayden and the subtle hints about Shane’s fears around family, to the infamous penthouse chapter, ginger ale, tuna melts, and one devastating use of first names, we unpack how Rachel Reid uses intimacy, domesticity, and even sex itself as storytelling devices. We explore how these chapters shift Shane and Ilya from “hookups” into something far more vulnerable, and why Shane’s panic feels so heartbreaking once you understand what’s really going on underneath it all.We also discuss queer identity, denial, internalised shame, reclaiming slurs, chosen futures, and how the TV adaptation changes and deepens the emotional beats from the book. Plus, Declan goes on an anti-pickle rant, we accidentally term the phrase “tuna spit,” and we somehow end up talking about Shakespeare in the middle of all of it.This episode covers chapters 12 onward and sets the stage for one of the most painful stretches of the book.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 24th May at 10am (GMT).Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Heated Rivalry Podcast00:28 Exploring Character Development in Chapters 12-1505:26 The Complexity of Family Dynamics09:28 The Pressure of Traditional Expectations12:35 Navigating Identity and Relationships16:44 The Impact of Language and Labels24:58 Shane's Sensitivity and Foreshadowing27:18 The Complexity of Parenthood and Relationships31:53 Navigating Long-Term Hookup Dynamics35:40 Sexual Dynamics and Power Play47:30 The Shift Towards Intimacy54:02 Confronting Domesticity and Vulnerability57:34 Conflicted Emotions and Inner Turmoil58:23 Denial and Acceptance in Relationships01:00:24 Character Depth: Ilya's Backstory01:03:50 Intimacy vs. Physicality in Relationships01:06:46 The Significance of Names in Connection01:10:18 Emotional Climax and Vulnerability01:14:04 Conflict and Pacing in Storytelling01:19:25 Building Intimacy Over TimeJoin our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/tjtQNj3qXr8Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697
May 17
1 hr 22 min
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 2 - Vegas
In part two of our Heated Rivalry book review series, Declan and Silvan dive deeper into the emotional chaos, yearning, and tension that turns Shane and Ilya’s relationship from a physical rivalry into something far more dangerous. What started as criticism in part one quickly becomes obsession as the pair unpack chapters 9–11 of and realise this is where the story truly finds its rhythm.We discuss Ryan Price’s introduction and the early exploration of anxiety and mental health and Ilya’s protective instincts and the complicated relationship he has with his father. We explore why Ilya might be the most psychologically complex character in the series, how trauma and perfectionism shape his behaviour, and why the TV adaptation deepened certain emotional beats even further.Our conversation also unpacks the infamous Vegas scene, the shifting power dynamics between Shane and Ilya, and the subtle ways intimacy is portrayed differently in the books versus the TV show. Plus, we discuss Rachel Reid’s bonus Ilya POV chapter, why it completely changes the tone of the Vegas encounter, and how it reveals just how heartbreakingly in love Ilya already is.Along the way, there’s discussion of Hudson and Connor’s rising fame, future season predictions for the show, emotional communication failures, improvised TV moments that made fans lose their minds, and why the “we didn’t even kiss” text still hurts.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 17th May at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/Bm92FVXKCHIChapters00:00 Introduction to Part Two01:35 Character Development and Emotional Depth02:34 Introduction of Ryan Price04:17 Ilya's Protective Nature08:37 The Impact of Fame on Characters11:45 Predictions for Future Seasons14:35 Character Dynamics and Relationships17:34 The Evolution of Ilya's Character20:25 Realism in Character Roles22:39 Shane's Commitment and Actions25:33 Yuna's Role in the Story28:55 Sexual Tension and Writing Quality31:14 Comparing Book and Show Intimacy37:53 Pressure of the Olympics on Ilya39:08 The Weight of Leadership42:13 Family Dynamics and Personal Struggles47:32 The Complexity of Relationships48:59 The Pain of Separation56:36 The Power of Perspective59:01 Control and Power Dynamics01:06:17 The Significance of the Extra Chapter
May 10
1 hr 17 min
Heated Rivalry Book Review: Part 1 - First Impressions
In this episode of the podcast, Declan and Silvan dive into the Heated Rivalry book. Covering the first eight chapters, we begin a multi-part deep dive into how the original story compares to the TV adaptation, and whether the book lives up to the hype.Coming to the story from two very different perspectives, Declan as a longtime reader and Silvan as a first-time book reader shaped by the show, our conversation explores first impressions, biases, and the challenge of separating beloved on-screen portrayals from the source material. We unpack the book’s bold opening, its heavy focus on physical intimacy, and whether the pacing works when read as a standalone versus part of a larger duology. Along the way, we explore key differences in characterisationOur discussion also gets into adaptation choices: what the TV show adds, what it elevates, and what gets lost in translation. Expect thoughtful critique, a bit of gay panic analysis, and plenty of debate about writing choices, tropes, and what makes this story resonate so strongly with fans.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 10th May at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/YIKoVyKK7msChapters00:00 Introduction to Heated Rivalry03:08 Comparing Heated Rivalry and Game Changer05:46 Character Analysis: Ilya and Shane08:31 Differences in Character Portrayal11:23 Pacing and Emotional Depth14:47 Sexual Dynamics and Their Purpose16:53 Prologue and Story Structure20:13 Time Jumps and Character Development27:58 Realism in Relationships31:04 Sound and Storytelling in Adaptation34:24 Creative Adaptation and Elevation of Material37:38 Character Perspectives and Narration39:25 Main Character Dynamics42:49 Character Arcs and Stakes47:09 Tropes and Character Descriptions50:06 Easter Eggs and References51:18 Character Interactions and Humor53:31 Exploring Anxiety Through Visual Mediums54:34 The Dynamics of Sexual Encounters57:24 Power Dynamics in Relationships57:32 Navigating Gay Panic and Sexual Awakening59:53 Emotional Distance and Intimacy01:02:08 The Complexity of Sexual Experiences01:03:27 Character Development and Emotional Depth01:07:16 The Significance of Awards and Recognition01:11:20 Characterization and Emotional Context01:12:13 Comparative Analysis of Writing Styles
May 3
1 hr 14 min
Masculinity and Sport in Heated Rivalry: Part 2
Declan and Silvan are joined by Lizzy from the Self aware podcast in  Part 2 of this special discussion on masculinity and sport in Heated Rivalry. In this episode, we explore the emotional cost of elite athletic culture through the lens of Shane, Ilya and Scott.Building on last week’s episode, the conversation moves beyond performance and into identity, intimacy, and emotional survival. We question why physical closeness between male athletes encouraged, while emotional vulnerability feels almost impossible. We explore why can Shane and Ilya fight, joke, and touch each other with ease and yet struggle to actually say how they feel.Drawing on her experience coaching young male athletes, Lizzy breaks down how sport teaches men to process emotion through aggression, competition, and physicality, while often neglecting emotional awareness altogether. Together, we discuss everything from performance anxiety and coping strategies to toxic competitiveness, role models, therapy in sport, and the psychological differences between Shane’s controlled overthinking and Ilya’s instinct-driven intensity.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 3rd May at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Lizzy:The shelf aware podcastInstagram: @ shelfawarepodcast and @ lizzyb_readsFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Listen to the Podcast on:Apple podcast: Spotify podcast: Amazon podcast: Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/GcAc7RKrBSMChapters00:00 Introduction to Masculinity in Sport01:28 Physical vs. Emotional Connection in Athletes04:21 The Importance of Mental Health in Sports07:29 Role Models and Vulnerability in Athletics10:31 Coaching Responsibilities and Mental Health Support13:33 The Impact of Psychological Support on Performance16:37 Emotional States and Athletic Performance19:18 Coping Strategies for Athletes22:16 The Balance of Instinct and Preparation in Sports25:33 Aggression and Performance Expectations in Hockey38:51 The Nature of Competition in Sports44:00 Cultural Influences on Aggression in Sports48:51 The Balance of Winning and Team Dynamics54:00 The Role of Coaches and Mentorship in Sports58:58 The Impact of Role Models in Sports59:38 Reevaluating Success in Athletic Environments
Apr 26
1 hr
Beyond the Game: Masculinity & Mental Health in Sport Part 1
In this episode of the podcast, Silvan and Declan are joined by special guest Lizzy, who is a college athletics coach, former competitive thrower, and co-host of the Shelf aware Podcast, for a conversation about masculinity, sport, and emotional expression.Drawing on her lived experience as both an athlete and a coach working closely with young men in sport, Lizzy offers an insider perspective on the pressures, expectations, and unspoken rules that shape male athletes. We explore how environments like hockey and elite sport more broadly, rewarding emotional suppression, reinforce narrow definitions of masculinity and often leave little room for vulnerability.We also unpack the contrasting ways characters like Shane and Ilya navigate these pressures, linking their behaviours to real-world dynamics in coaching, team culture, and performance psychology. Our conversation moves between theory and lived experience, touching on concepts like anxiety and performance, the role of coaches as emotional role models and the long-term impact of treating athletes as commodities rather than people.Lizzie also reflects candidly on her experience as a woman coaching in a male-dominated space, highlighting the challenges and the unique opportunities to shift culture.This is part one of a two-part discussion, so be sure to tune in next week for part two for more analysis.The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 26th April at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Lizzy:The shelf aware podcastInstagram: @ shelfawarepodcast and @ lizzyb_readsFind Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan’s ‘Silvates’ podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/gufn8ixF5z0Chapters00:00 Welcome to the Podcast01:21 Exploring Masculinity in Sports03:08 Lizzie's Background in Sports and Coaching06:46 The Role of Coaches in Athlete Development08:35 Differences in College Sports: US vs UK12:40 NIL Deals and Athlete Compensation16:50 The Pressure of Being a Student-Athlete20:37 Behavioral Expectations in Sports24:53 Anxiety and Performance in Athletes30:33 Mental Health Awareness in Sports36:20 The Role of the Therapist in Psychodynamic Therapy37:26 Impact of External Factors on Athletic Performance38:25 The Need for Emotional Role Models in Sports39:52 Coaching Beyond the Game: Building Relationships41:19 The Evolution of Coaching Methodologies42:24 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Coaching45:28 Challenging Traditional Gender Roles in Coaching49:29 Empowerment Through Coaching: A New Perspective54:33 The Future of Coaching: Teaching Beyond the Sport
Apr 19
55 min
Book Club: Game Changers Part 2 - Conflicts and Consequences (Heated Rivalry)
In Part 2 of our Game Changers book club series, we dive into the second half of the novel (Chapters 16 to the end). This is where the tension finally breaks, the relationship is tested, and the cracks we’ve been anticipating start to show.We unpack the long-awaited conflict between Scott and Kip and discuss if it was it worth the build-up, or did it fall flat? We talk about pacing issues and repetitive intimacy to the emotional payoff (or lack of it), we get honest about what worked and what didn’t. We also explore the deeper dynamics at play: Kip’s passivity, Scott’s emotional blind spots, and whether their resolution feels earnest or just rushed.There’s lot of debate, including whether a certain moment crosses the line into cheating, and why no one seems to be talking about it. We also reflect on themes of communication, agency, and what makes a relationship feel genuinely satisfying on the page.We highlight the moments that do land, such as Scott’s character growth to the epilogue that left us smiling  and discuss how this book sets the foundation for the wider series.We wrap up with our final ratings, thoughts on Rachel Reid’s writing at this stage in the series, and whether Game Changers is a strong starting point for the Heated Rivalry universe.Let us know, did you love Game changers?The next episode of the podcast will be published on Sunday 19th April at 10am (GMT).Join our Long Game Podcast Book Club on Fable to read along with us each week.: https://fable.co/club/long-game-pod-book-club-with-long-game-pod-349252537194?invite=fc285de0-86ea-45c4-ab3f-8dcc82b8cad8&referralID=4tVUzsxlCCFind us on instagram: longgame.heatedrivalry.podWrite to us: [email protected] Declan: Instagram: declan712Tiktok: declanmccallion1Find Silvan:Instagram: SilvatesTiktok: silvates1Listen to Silvan's Podcast here:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/silvates/id1531620495Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xMX59teVzpf6M86Cv7WG9?si=016f5477aed14697Watch it on youtube: https://youtu.be/UKu0nyLKDS4Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Heated Rivalry Podcast00:30 General Thoughts on Game Changer02:29 Critique of Repetitive Content05:32 The Role of Conflict in Character Development08:25 Emotional Weight of the Big Fight09:49 Underwhelming Resolution of Conflict11:29 The Dynamics of Relationships14:16 Toxic Patterns in Love16:09 The Complexity of Breakups19:09 Cheating and Its Implications23:10 Kip's Passivity and Agency26:38 Character Growth and Pacing31:43 Coming Out for Yourself35:43 The Epilogue: A Safe Space
Apr 12
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