Show notes
In their conversation, Angel and Yossef delve into the intersection of BDSM and Tantra, exploring Yossef's journey in these realms as a means of overcoming shame and repression. They emphasize the importance of boundaries and consent in BDSM scenes and challenge misconceptions about these practices. They discuss how embracing darkness and integrating all aspects of oneself can lead to healing. The role of power dynamics and archetypes in BDSM is highlighted, along with the potential for personal growth. They also touch on setting clear intentions in submission, the active nature of surrender, the psychology behind domination and submission, sensation kink, and how engaging in kink can increase resilience. Conscious Negotiation: Taking control of your Submission The Dominant as the Spaceholder, Not the one ‘In Control’ The Dominant Submissive Archetypes should replace Feminine Masculine Archetypes Healing from Abuse through Conscious BDSM Scenes The Intersection between Neo-Tantra and BDSM The Flow of Conversation: 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 01:40 Journey into BDSM and Tantra 03:09 Dealing with Shame and Guilt 04:48 What Tantra is Not 06:42 The Welcoming of Shadows in BDSM 08:26 The Healing Power of BDSM Scenes 10:16 Exploring Dark Fantasies 12:22 Embracing All Perspectives 13:47 The Healing Power of Embracing Darkness 17:06 Misconceptions about BDSM 18:29 Setting Up a Scene and Avoiding Abuse 20:27 The Power Dynamics in BDSM 23:57 Embracing the Dark and Exhaustion of Perfection 25:14 The Impact of Patriarchy on BDSM 28:07 The Archetypes of Dominance and Submission 30:59 Craving What We Don't Have 32:48 Supporting Women in Dominant Roles 35:25 Setting Clear Desires and Intentions 36:23 Psychological Kink 38:40 Sensation Kink 40:57 Expanding the Window of Tolerance 41:56 Engaging with Yossef's Work Connect with Angel: www.instagram.com/angelikaalana www.angeldrake.com Connect with Yossef: www.YossefSagi.com www.instagram.com/yossefsagi See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.