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In a deeply transformative conversation, Angel talks to Colette Pervette, a professional dominatrix, about the dynamics of power, surrender, and human desires. They delve into how the concepts of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism function inside and outside the dungeon, reflecting metaphorically on life. Colette shares her journey of transitioning from an education PhD to Dominatrix, highlighting the role of kink in exploring different flavors of sexuality. Colette ends the conversation by talking about her online course, Mistress Class, designed to empower women and help them channel their inner dom. 0:00 Intro 01:55 Choosing a Dominatrix Name 03:55 The Power of Names 06:06 The Journey to Becoming a Dominatrix 09:32 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Kink 13:31 The Mystery of the Mask 16:19 Understanding Kink 22:42 The Power Dynamics in Humiliation 24:51 Exploring the Role of Ego in Kink and BDSM 26:20 The Spiritual Element of BDSM 26:29 The Experience of a Dom and the Practice of Letting Go 27:45 Applying BDSM Lessons to Everyday Life 33:03 The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM 35:35 The Healing Potential of BDSM 36:57 The Line Between Eroticizing and Retraumatizing 38:55 The Birth of Mistress Class 48:47 Connecting with the Work and Final Thoughts Colette is a professional Dominatrix of 18+ years. In her journey as a Domme, she spent the first decade of her career going deep into the art and practice of BDSM. Then she spent the last 8 years going inward and contemplating the theory behind the practice of BDSM and has since developed an alchemical philosophy and spiritual approach to the art of kink that she shares through her work. She guides women and femmes to find and cultivate their personal power by learning how to play with it in the bedroom, dungeon and beyond. Colette teaches an online Dominatrix training course called MistressClass, where she takes you on an immersive journey where she shows you every step it takes to become a Dominatrix and come into your full power. She has guided and trained hundreds of women and femmes to become the Dominatrix of their vision. Join Mistress Class: https://www.pervette.com/mistressclass/ Connect with Colette: www.instagram.com/colettepervette Follow Angel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelikaalana/ https://www.instagram.com/awakenedlove/ Angel's Website: https://www.angelikaalana.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.