What is your value in the market place?In this episode, I share an extract of a delivery I made during the Micro-Goals Challenge with some elite Professionals about goal setting and demanding more from self. The aim of this episode is to help you not to solve relevent problem in an irrelevant way. I want you to refocus your thoughts in the value you bring to the market place by thinking critically about how you have or should package yourself. Remember , you are paid in proportion to the problems you solve, and the value you place in your self. If you don’t put value in yourself, the market will decide your value.

​In the Marriage relationships, there are things that “If you don’t do them, something else will take that space. If you do them, whether positive or negative, there will be a reciprocal action or corresponding outcome.” They are more like SEEDS that are guaranteed to produce some fruit. ​- If you can’t agree with each other, you will arbitrate​⁃If you can’t bless each other, you will bite. If you can’t bless each other, they will blame each other​⁃If they can’t enter in the courts love in private, they will will enter in the court of law.​⁃If they can’t correct each other you will corrupt each other​  - If you can’t carry each other you will chase each other​⁃If you doubt each other you will destroy each other​⁃If you don’t encourage each other you will embarrass each other.​⁃If you don’t feed on the word of God, the enemy will feed on you​⁃If you don’t gaze each other you will gaze each other​⁃If you can’t handle each other you will harass each other.​⁃If you can’t live with each other leave each other​⁃If you can’t love each other you will laugh at each other.​⁃If you can’t pray together you prey at each I other​⁃If you can’t squeeze each other in bed (intimately) you will scream at other in public​⁃If you don’t have zeal in and for your marriage, every other effort in marriage will be zero.

Who are your friends? Or who are those people that you would call to a room to have a conversation with you for an hour? Friendship provides a sense of mutual belonging, shared value and helps us go through life.

What you do through time defines your moments. The moments are the brief splits through time that either break or make you. But time is what determines the outcomes of moments. A pregnant woman, no matter how hard she pushes, if the baby is not formed through time to be ready to be born, she will not be able to deliver the baby. .. let me hear what this episode does to or for you. Send your feedback via WhatsApp to +27760235161 or email to [email protected]

Can you follow your own advice? When you look at your life, the choices you have made,opportunities you have missed, e.g. would you say you have lead yourself well? You are only as powerful as your last excuse. Whatever happened in your life, what ever is happening and whenever it is going to happen in your life.

If you have convinced yourself that you can, opportunity will open up to you. In this episode I share simple and yet powerful principles to better your attitude towards positive action. Both potential and will are intertwined in success. If you really want to experience success, you need replace the thoughts and words “I cannot” to “yes I can.”

People can praise you to the grave Life has hidden costs. Calculate the cost of doing vs the cost of not doing. For example, it is not what the the book cost, but how much it cost not reading it. It is not the cost of going to the gym, but how much it cost not going to the gym. It is not the cost of fixing something, but how much it cost not fixing it or not fixing it the right way. We calculate the cost of attending a seminar, a workshop, a dinner meeting or a network session but does not calculate the cost of not attending such meeting. There hidden cost of life is both the cost it self and the reward. It is the missed opportunity itself and the opportunity it self . In every opportunity there is a hidden thing: the benefit of the opportunity in tangibles and the benefit of the opportunity in intangibles. Often we fix our eyes on the tangibles, but miss the lessons of the intangibles. The later is how we measure an opportunity. The intangibles are the transfarables, the redoubles, the things no one can take from you and the lessons no book and no school can teach you. For example, there are ideas you may have had for years, sometimes the whole decade but you did not act on them. You did not act Ont hem becuase you felt the idea was too small to wa rant your attention or you did not have the technical skills to act on it. Or something else. If you had acted on it, you have have had it go one of the two ways: South or north (good or bad, successful or fail. If it failed/ you’d have learned what not to do next time, what to do better, when to launch, how to prepare, how to sell the idea, how to network your idea, how to hire (if it elated to that), how to work hard, how to pay attention. Some of these lessons can’t be learnt from a class, you may need to reinvent the wheel using available screws and rubber. You would have learned to be a better person inside or have actually a better, bold, clear thinking persons The opposite would be the idea worked so good it changed your whole life and opened even more opportunities. That is life. Send your voice note or text or email us for feedback and reviews. For coaching or key note enquiries: Email: [email protected] Or text/whatsapp: +27760235161

Young people today are faced with so many challanges. The older generation need to assess what decisions they made that could have contributed to today’s challanges and what decisions were not made that could have prevented these challenges. The challanges range from Social, mental, economic and health. Challanges incoude among others: Suicide, Unemployment, Poor Education, Family problems, Wayward thinking and more.

In this episode, I share wit you 8 critcal questions to helo you buy the future. Life does not get better by chance. So as you answer them, take time to make notes, respond to them and find value within yourself. the Questions are 1. Who do you want to be? 2. What do you want to achieve? Why do you want it? When do you want it? How does it look like? What does it cost? Are you willing ot pay the price for it? When do you start tpaying the price and for how long. do send your feedback to [email protected],za or via whatsapp to +27760235161 and share the podcast with others. See you on the other side.

The mix match of practical guidance to help you begin getting more out of your life is set up in this podcast to give you the best tips to start your year. At list 80% of people who set New Years resolutions abandon them within the first 4 weeks of setting them. Thus, to reach your goal, you need more than setting a resolution. As part of this episode, I am giving away 10% discount to anyone who enrols into th ONLINE SCHOOL OF SELF-Mastery before 15 February 2022. All you have to do send an email to [email protected] with subject “8 WAYS TO HAVE A GREAT YEAR,” t/cs apply.