On this episode it's all about dissecting the difference between a date who wants you and the one who values you. What makes the building of a relationship is the careful time , vest commitment to learn each other. When a date isn't learning who you are , how you like things or your love Language etc. That person isn't ready. They just want to not feel or be alone and loneliness. They want to have the benefits of a relationship and not be want to be value adding to you.