Killing It Softly
Killing It Softly
Kimberly Lovell, LPC
This podcast was created to promote racial awareness through honest, educational dialogue with white allies and people of color. If you, like many Americans, feel the calling to help make the community safer and more inclusive for marginalized groups, you’ve come to the right place. Each episode will discuss a different topic related to systemic racism and how we as a society can work to interrupt it. Thanks for choosing to answer the call for change. Now let’s get to work!
S2 Episode 10: When The Fight Comes to You
In this episode of the show, I interview an amazingly talented Asian American poet by the name of Asia Samson. The episode begins with a live performance of a recent poem entitled, Sleeping Dragons. Asia takes time to share his thoughts on the history of racism in America, media's impact on society, his personal experiences, and an opinion of the Asian community on these topics. This one is super special, so let's get into it!
Sep 5, 2021
29 min
S2 Episode 10: When The Fight Comes to You (Part II)
In the second half of this episode, my guest Asia and I discuss his process with writing poetry, lessons he is teaching his son, lessons he was taught as a child, and elements of his Filipino culture. Asia closes out the show with one last powerful poem about his son, which brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it. Such a wonderful episode, so let's get into it!
Sep 5, 2021
34 min
S2 Episode 9: No Time for Silence
In this episode of the show, I interview my former colleague, Arlene, who happens to be a proud Newurican from Brooklyn, NY. She talks with me about how growing up in a diverse neighborhood and family has shaped the way that she navigates the world. Arlene also talks with me about raising her two biracial girls in these racially charged times. Arlene wraps up the episode with a powerful message where she makes some calls to action. It's certainly a conversation you won't want to miss!
Sep 4, 2021
34 min
S2 Episode 8: Momentum
In this episode of the show, I interview Patricia Newman who is the supervisor of the Adult Mental Health Case Mgmt team at the RACSB in Fredericksburg. She stops by to share details about her experiences as a White mom raising 2 Sons of Color in America. We also get into a discussion about how we can make an impact in the intersection of mental health, policing, and racial equity. Patricia and I put our heads together to come up with some great action steps for making change in the community!
Sep 3, 2021
37 min
KIS Podcast PSA #2
Hey there, KL here! Dropping in really quickly to tell you some exciting news. The Killing Softly Podcast's 1 year anniversary is coming up on Labor Day Weekend, and I want you to come celebrate with me! I have some surprises on the way, so be on the lookout. Please email me directly at [email protected] if you are willing to answer a few quick questions for me. All those who participate will be entered into a drawing for a $100 gift card; winners choice. Cant wait to hear from you!
Aug 11, 2021
1 min
KIS Pod PSA
It is under the most heartbreaking & tragic of circumstances that I must step away from the show for a while. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for listening to the show, for encouraging me, for being willing to learn, and helping to create an Authentic American for all. As always the episodes yet to be released will be conversation you won't want to miss. Until then, have a fantastic summer and Ill see you soon. Love Always, KL
May 30, 2021
1 min
S2 Episode 7: Evolution of the Revolution
In this episode of the show, I interview one of my best friends, Krystal, and her husband, Douglas. She is the new Accounting manager at her job and he is Richmond, VA's 1st ever Poet Laureate!  Our discussion in this episode focuses on the joys and challenges of raising Children of Color in America. We all agree that children need space to express their concerns, and to have adults help them navigate the complexities of American society.
May 9, 2021
41 min
S2 Episode 6: How Do YOU Dismantle?
In this episode of the show, I am joined once again by the amazing and incomparable Dr. Janice Gassam Asare. We jump right into talking about Chapters 6 & 8 of her latest book, The Pink Elephant. We discuss things to avoid when trying to have productive conversations about race AND practical ways that companies can support their most marginalized employees. Dr. Janice explains how each of us as Americans can be working to uplift the most vulnerable individuals in our society. Lets' get into it!
Apr 26, 2021
52 min
S2 Episode 5: Liberate, Amplify, Uplift!
In this episode of the show, I interview Dr. Janice Gassam Asare, owner of the award-winning DEI consultancy BWG Business Solutions. Dr. Janice is also a college professor, an author, and the host of the Dirty Diversity Podcast. She joins me to talk about her latest book called The Pink Elephant, which discusses ways that organizations can promote anti-racism in the workplace. We discuss ways that people can use their privilege to liberate, amplify, and uplift the voices of the most marginalized people.
Apr 5, 2021
45 min
S2 Episode 4: Come As You Are
In this episode of the show, I am speaking with Dr. Jessica Young Brown about her book called Making Space at the Well, which addresses the intersection of faith, race, and mental health. She talks about how people need to feel safe enough to share all of what they are going through, without fear of judgement. Dr. Brown says we need to make space for and celebrate individuals who are brave enough to share their mental health burdens, and how this allows God to work in, through, and around us.
Mar 8, 2021
43 min
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