In this episode Deja and I discuss the pros and cons of an HBCU vs a PWI. I have a MAJOR bone to pick with PWI Rice University and University of Houston for how they handled Black students complaints about statues of White slave owners or White confederate soldiers. We also discuss the issues surrounding federal funding of HBCU's. Let's talk about it! IG - kiaaTHEsinger 

In this episode I discuss in a two part series having sex with my BEST FRIEND. I admit that I WAS selfish and that I hurt my friend in the long run. I do NOT recommend having sex with your best friend or co-worker UNLESS you know for sure that you all are on the same page about everything. I hope you guys learn something from this episode. IG - kiaaTHEsinger

In this episode Deja and I discuss the trend of single-parent households and women choosing to have their careers FIRST and children / marriage later in life. In this episode we came with facts and articles to give percentages on both growing trends, to support the "new normal" of women being the breadwinners in their homes. What does potential mean to you, when finding a partner? Are you someone that looks for a man or woman that is already established or, are you willing to work with the person? What does it mean to be "50/50" in a relationship? Are you settling? Did you previously settle or are you settling now? - Let's discuss the pros and cons of dating down.  IG - KiaaTheSinger

Hey everybody this is a follow up to episode number 8. OWN Network is still doing a raggedy ass job of giving us the backstory on some of these "connections" chile so I'm going to try my best to piece together the whole Joel and V situation. In today's episode I discuss how Liz and David have an EXPLOSIVE fight on the outside patio and how he basically refuses to answer any questions and runs off on her and production! Alexis and Ron have a disrespectful exchange as well and he tells Alexis he was dating and seeing her friend the day before elimination day anyway and how he thought she was "smarter." Whew! This episode was packed like a can of sardines. Enjoy!  IG -- KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode Deja and I discuss how having toxic in-laws can be frustrating and invasive. Let’s discuss.

In this episode my mother and I discuss the pros and cons of her student loan debt and how it effected her longterm views on the college experience. I have been very vocal about my disdain on student loan debt and repayment. We discussed the reason she took out student loans and how certain jobs offer tuition assistance. Enjoy! Some things to consider when applying for college: Debt repayment Minority admissions / minority involvement Scholarships Tuition reimbursement  Grants Budgeting Trade school Transferrable credits (I ALWASY RECOMMEND GOING TO A SCHOOL THAT HAS A TRANSFERRABLE DEGREE PROGRAM. TAKE COURSES AT THE COMMUNITY COLLEGE FIRST IF THEY TRANSFER TO THE UNIVERSITY!!) Consider all options. Your first choice may not be the BEST choice financially, going to your second or last choice school is still a success!) IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode my friend August and I discuss our journey in tech. We discuss the pros and cons of the tech industry, learning how to negotiate in the job market, transcript issues in the field and give some study resources. Thanks for joining August, you were a pleasure!  #CySec #CyberSecurity #InfoSec #Kali #Linux #Reddit Some resources are: Udemny  Cybrary NCL Challenges Linux Academy  CompTIA *There is a student bundle* VmWare AWS Azure LinkedIn Premium (offers classes and certificates of completion) Youtube (Youtube is good for when you run into errors with network security & Cisco)

Hey y’all! I am graduating with my degree in Cyber Security with honors and I’m so excited!! In this episode I’m going to talk about salary negotiation, the pros and cons of college, a bootcamp and being self taught. Please let me know if you all want more tech based episodes and more tips or how to find resources for building your portfolio. IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode my sister and I discuss how I recently tried the pink pill. My partner and I decided to enjoy our New Year's Eve together and to celebrate the new year, we enjoyed each other. Deja even reveals a shocking revelation herself!! Please practice SAFE SEX, stay tested and make decisions within your best interest. This episode is NSFW and requires headphones OR listening to alone. Have you tried the pink pill and men, have you tried the male version?? What was your experience like, good or bad? Would you try it again? LET'S CHAT!!! IG -- KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode my sister and I discuss what we are leaving in 2020 and positive manifestations for 2K21! In 6 months we challenge you to rewind this episode and see where life has taken you. Hopefully Ms. Rona can get left behind in 2020 okay!! Keep up with me, IG - KiaaTHEsinger