In this episode of the Kev and Jess Show, we dive into the quirky and often bizarre world of dating. Kevin and I share our thoughts on why so many people are opting to remain single, highlighting the strange experiences that often come with dating in today's society. We discuss a particularly wild story about a woman who received her ex-boyfriend's baby teeth as a birthday gift, prompting a conversation about the oddities people encounter in relationships. We also explore the importance of authenticity in dating and how societal pressures can lead to unrealistic expectations. Through a Reddit story about a man who refuses to host a work gathering at his girlfriend's home due to her unconventional decor, we emphasize the need for partners to accept each other's quirks and interests. Throughout the episode, we reflect on our own relationship, discussing how we support each other's individuality and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. We conclude that being true to oneself is essential in finding happiness, whether in a relationship or as a single person. Join us as we navigate the complexities of dating, relationships, and the beauty of embracing our unique selves!

In this episode of the Kevin and Jess Show, we dive into the intriguing connection between trauma and humor. I, Jessica, share my thoughts on an article I recently read that suggests people who have experienced trauma often develop a sharper sense of humor. My husband, Kevin, and I discuss iconic comedians like Robin Williams, who used humor to cope with their personal struggles, and how this resonates with our own experiences. We explore the dark humor often found in military circles, drawing from Kevin's family background, and how it serves as a coping mechanism for those who have faced intense situations. I also highlight a YouTube creator, Nikki Marina, who uses her platform to blend humor with her own military experiences and personal challenges. As we navigate through our own stories, I open up about the loss of my father to suicide and the absurdity that sometimes accompanies grief. We share a particularly humorous anecdote involving my grandmother's misguided suggestions during the process of arranging my father's memorial, showcasing how laughter can emerge even in the darkest moments. Towards the end of the episode, we shift gears to discuss a Reddit story about a woman who feels uncomfortable with her boyfriend's prank involving lingerie for a female friend. We analyze the dynamics of their relationship and the implications of such actions, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and respect in relationships. Join us as we reflect on the power of humor in healing, the complexities of family dynamics, and the absurdities of life that can bring both laughter and pain.

In this episode of the Kevin Jess Show, my husband Kevin and I dive into the fascinating world of how movies and pop culture shape our understanding of history and society. We kick things off by discussing a thought-provoking reel featuring an archaeologist who humorously suggests that future archaeologists might misinterpret our current artifacts—like Harry Potter merchandise—as evidence of a magical past. We explore the profound impact of films on our culture, from the influence of early theater on fashion trends to the revolutionary storytelling techniques introduced by franchises like Star Wars and The Lord of the Rings. We also touch on the cultural significance of movies like Alien and how they changed the horror genre forever. As we navigate through various cinematic topics, we play a fun "Would You Rather" game, comparing iconic film franchises and characters. From choosing between being a Jedi or a hobbit to debating the merits of the Avengers versus the Justice League, we share our thoughts and preferences while reminiscing about the movies that have shaped our lives. Throughout the episode, we reflect on the lasting effects of cinema on our society and how it continues to inspire new generations. Join us for a lively discussion filled with humor, nostalgia, and a bit of movie trivia!

In this episode of the Kev and Jess Show, we dive into the passionate topic of music and its profound impact on our lives. Kevin and I discuss how music can make or break performances in movies, TV shows, and live events, highlighting its collective nature and emotional resonance. We share personal experiences, including our connection to the Arcane soundtrack and how it enhanced our viewing experience. Kevin opens up about his journey with music, from his early desire to play guitar to his self-taught skills, and we touch on the challenges of learning instruments without the resources available today. We also explore the cultural significance of music, discussing how it evokes memories and emotions, particularly in relation to musicals like Matilda and Wicked. Throughout the episode, we reflect on the power of music to convey stories and emotions, emphasizing how it resonates with our current societal challenges. We also share our thoughts on the evolution of music in the digital age and the importance of artists reclaiming their voices. Join us as we celebrate the joy of music, its ability to connect us, and the ways it enriches our lives. Don't forget to subscribe and follow us for more episodes, and come hang out with us on Patreon for additional content!

In this episode of the Kev and Jess Show, my husband Kevin and I dive into the complexities of relationships and marriage, moving beyond traditional advice to explore deeper, more meaningful questions that couples can ask each other. We discuss the evolution of relationships, acknowledging that not everyone fits into the conventional mold of marriage, especially in today's world. We share some classic marriage advice, like "never go to bed angry," but quickly pivot to a more engaging approach by introducing a list of 40 key questions sourced from a website called Hitched. These questions cover various categories, including general, financial, sex, and lifestyle inquiries, aimed at fostering open communication between partners. Throughout the episode, we touch on the importance of discussing sex drives, financial habits, and how to handle disagreements. We emphasize the significance of vulnerability and intimacy in a relationship, highlighting that true intimacy goes beyond physical connection. We also address the impact of family dynamics on marriage and the necessity of being open to change as individuals and as a couple. As we navigate through the questions, we reflect on our own experiences, sharing insights about our journey together, the challenges we've faced, and the lessons we've learned. We encourage listeners to use these questions as a tool for deeper conversations, whether with a partner, friend, or even a roommate, to enhance understanding and connection. Join us as we explore these vital topics and provide a fresh perspective on what it means to build a lasting relationship in today's world.

In this episode, Kevin and I dive into the world of guilty pleasures, particularly focusing on media-related indulgences. We kick things off by reminiscing about our favorite guilty pleasure shows, like "Gilmore Girls" and "Dragon Ball Z," and discuss how some things, like "Avatar: The Last Airbender," might not fit the traditional definition of a guilty pleasure. We then explore a list of so-called guilty pleasures from an article, starting with the cringe-worthy phrase "dance like no one's watching," which we quickly debunk as just a part of living life. We also touch on the guilty pleasure of creeping on social media, especially when it comes to exes and rivals, and how sleeping in should not be considered a guilty pleasure but rather a necessity for recharging. As we continue through the list, we agree that binge-watching reality TV and reading novels for pleasure definitely qualify as guilty pleasures, while eating dessert before dinner is just a normal part of life. We also discuss the absurdity of taking multiple selfies until you get the perfect one and the mandatory nature of singing along to music in the car. Towards the end, we reflect on the idea of gossiping and complaining, questioning whether they truly qualify as guilty pleasures or simply moments of weakness. We wrap up the episode by inviting our listeners to share their own guilty pleasures and emphasizing how nerdy hobbies have become widely accepted in today's culture. Join us for a fun and relatable discussion about what it means to indulge in guilty pleasures, and don't forget to check out our free Patreon community to share your thoughts!

In this episode of the Kevin Jess Show, we dive into the often elusive concept of work-life balance. We kick things off by questioning whether achieving a good work-life balance is even possible or just a myth perpetuated by society. Our discussion leads us to explore various suggestions from "Dr. Google" on how to improve work-life balance, such as having a flexible work schedule and respecting working hours. However, we quickly realize that for many people, especially those living paycheck to paycheck, these suggestions feel unrealistic and privileged. We share our thoughts on how the societal structure doesn't support a true work-life balance, especially for those in lower-income brackets. We discuss the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in the workplace and how traditional systems often overlook their needs. Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of finding small moments of joy and playfulness in our lives, even amidst the grind. We suggest practical ways to create a semblance of balance, such as treating yourself to your favorite food, listening to music while working, simplifying your commitments, and engaging in hobbies that bring you joy. Ultimately, we acknowledge that while the ideal work-life balance may be a privilege, it’s crucial to seek out glimmers of happiness and prioritize self-care in whatever way we can. We encourage our listeners to embrace their unique journeys and find what works for them, reminding everyone that it’s okay to not have it all figured out. Join us for a candid conversation filled with humor, relatable struggles, and a reminder that we’re all in this together. Don’t forget to treat yourself along the way!

In this episode of the Kev and Jess Show, we dive into the concept of bucket lists and share our personal aspirations and experiences. I kick things off by discussing my own bucket list, which includes thrilling activities like skydiving and backcountry snowboarding in Alaska, as well as more personal goals like building my own house. Jess chimes in with her own dreams, including traveling to Singapore and Australia, where she hopes to meet her favorite animal, the platypus. We explore the idea that bucket lists can be both selfish and selfless, especially as we consider our children's interests and experiences. As we reflect on our chaotic lives filled with work and family, we acknowledge the importance of dreaming big while also being open to new opportunities that come our way. The conversation takes a humorous turn as we discuss our "anti-bucket lists," highlighting things we absolutely refuse to do, like swimming with sharks or participating in corporate jobs. We also share some entertaining travel stories, including encounters with wildlife and the challenges of air travel. Ultimately, we encourage our listeners to think about their own bucket lists and the experiences they want to pursue. Join us as we navigate the chaos of life, dreams, and the occasional absurdity that comes with it. Don't forget to connect with us on our free Patreon community to share your bucket list ideas!

In our inaugural episode of the Kev and Jess Show, we dive headfirst into the delightful chaos that defines our lives. I'm Jessica, and alongside my husband Kevin, we explore everything from our unconventional love story to our shared passions for film and creativity. We kick things off with a candid introduction, sharing our backgrounds—Kevin as a journeyman lineman with a love for photography and videography, and me with a degree in integrated studio arts and dreams of working for Pixar. We discuss how our paths crossed at a young age, leading to our whirlwind romance and marriage, all while navigating the challenges of life and parenthood. Throughout the episode, we embrace our quirks and the absurdity of our experiences, including our shared disdain for social media algorithms and our desire to create a community free from the pressures of online platforms. We even throw in a fun Newlywed game to test how well we know each other, revealing our playful dynamic and the enduring joy we find in our relationship. As we wrap up, we emphasize the importance of authenticity and the beauty of embracing our chaotic lives. We invite listeners to join us on this journey, promising laughter, unexpected tangents, and a space where we can all feel a little less alone in our wonderfully chaotic existence. So, grab your headphones and get ready for a wild ride with us!