This episode, I'm joined by Shubi who is a phenomenal mum of 3 and soon to divorcee. She details her journey from meeting hur husband, marriage, cheating, emotional abuse, mental health, forgiveness and not marrying again. Follow Shubi: IG - @shubi_tksdaughter_ariibike HELPING HAND: Women can call - The Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge on 0808 2000 247 for free at any time, day or night. Women can email - [email protected]. Staff will respond to your email within 5 working days Men can call - Men's Advice Line on 0808 8010 327 (Monday and Wednesday, 9am to 8pm, and Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 9am to 5pm) for non-judgemental information and support. Men can email - [email protected] Organisations Refuge: https://www.refuge.org.uk/our-work/forms-of-violence-and-abuse/domestic-violence/ Citizens Advice Bureau: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/gender-violence/domestic-violence-and-abuse-getting-help *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This episode, I'm joined by Elsa Christie who is a survivor of sex trafficking. She details her journey of child abuse from the age of 8yrs old by her father, who subsequently trafficked her to America a number of times. She talk being in foster care, broken marriage and about forgiveness being a process. Follow Elsa Christie: IG - @iamelsachristie Get In Touch: https://linktr.ee/iamelsachristie ACTION: If you suspect modern slavery/trafficking, report it to the Modern Slavery Helpline on 08000 121 700 or the police on 101. In an emergency always call 999. Salvation Army's 24hr confidential helpline for reporting modern slavery on 0800 818 3733. Modern Day Slavery Foundation's helpline on 0800 0121 700, 24 hrs a day. NSPCC's helpline on 0808 800 5000 if you think a child is in danger of trafficking. Organisations: https://www.a21.org/ https://www.antislavery.org/ *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This episode, I'm joined by Victor Edward who shares his story from being gay to heterosexual. Listen to find out his earliest exposure to porn, losing his virginity & his first gay sexual encounter. We also discuss church views, people's perceptions & whether there is a temptation to go back to that life. Follow Victor:  IG - @loveandsword Email: [email protected] *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This weeks episode is about losing a child and dealing with grief as a black man. Nothing can ever prepare any parent with the thought of losing their child before they are born. We often hear women talk about their experience but rarely from men. My guest this episode is Donald Mbeutcha  who tells his story about losing his 4th child and where the loss took him mentally, emotionally and spiritually.  SOMEONE TO TALK TO: SANDS - https://sands.org.uk/ Message Donald: [email protected] *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This weeks episode is all about being friend zoned. After a post I made about the subject and the responses received, I decided to talk about it with my friend Prince Made. He talks about escaping the friend zone that eventually led to marriage. There's tips on how to avoid being friend zoned and things to look out for before it happens.  *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

My guest on todays episode is Dr Eddie Connor Jr. He is a best selling author of 12 books, stage 4 cancer survivor, college professor, international speaker, Recipient of the President Barack Obama Volunteer Service Award & Life time achievement award.  We discuss surviving stage 4 cancer, pressures to get married and how to succeed in romantic, professional and family relationships, his new book 'Relationship Rules' & more *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This episodes guest is Brittany Broaddus-Smith. She is a sex educator, christian sexologist & intimacy coach. She is the founder of The Intimacy Firm. It’s an intimacy coaching and sexuality education agency for christians and non-christians. We talk about how the subject of sex is often diluted in the church, shame surrounding sexuality in the church, preparing for sex before marriage, oral sex, sex toys etc. Brittany - https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyfirm/ *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST*  INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:*  INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

LadyT is joined by some good friends of hers Emmanuel, Ruth, Junior & Yolanda. They discuss why some men take on a woman's surname and  the consequences if their partner don't take their surname. Find out who cancelled their wedding a week before the big day. Would you give the ring back after a break up? Is it ok for the guy to ask for the ring back? Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts and perspectives.  Follow and share your thoughts on:  TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast  Follow  Emmanuel: @Mr1elusive (IG & Twitter)  Yolanda: @missyolanda4 (IG & Twitter)  Ruth: @oluwaruth (IG)  Junior: @JNR_TDH (Twitter)

LadyT is joined by some good friends of hers Emmanuel, Ruth, Junior & Yolanda. They discuss Online dating vs Being introduced to someone. Which one would you prefer? They also explore whether men and women can just be friends with no strings attached. What do you think? Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts and perspectives. Follow and share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast Follow Emmanuel: @Mr1elusive (IG & Twitter) Yolanda: @missyolanda4 (IG & Twitter) Ruth: @oluwaruth (IG) Junior: @JNR_TDH (Twitter)

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she is joined by two witty and intelligent men, Emmanuel & Afaron This is the single mens edition where they talk about different aspects of single life and being a single dad. Discussions on shooting your shot - are they ok with that? Toxic relationships, trust issues, dealing with heart break and more. Follow and share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast