Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens
Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens
Amy Lang, MA
Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place. I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.* When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex positive, light and fact based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *Not a thing. **In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get really real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?
Explaining 18 year old cousin's pregnancy; mom is concerned about her kid's fascination with her butt; kiddo shows penis to pal when they ask for a peek; and college kid wants the door closed when his girlfriend is over.
In this episode, Amy answers questions from the emailbag.   My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com BBK Bookstore is here. Books about consent C is for Consent Your Whole Body Consent for Kids Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. Birds & Bees & Kids Website BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)    Facebook Instagram
Jun 29, 2022
20 min
LGBTQIA -- Episode 121
In this episode, Amy gives you the LGBTQIA definitions.   The Pride Guide: A Guide to Sexual and Social Health for LGBTQ Youth The Trevor Project GLSEN works to ensure LGBTQ kids go to schools free from bullying and harassment  My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid’s go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Jun 15, 2022
4 min
Sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey chats about how your sex life can influence your sex talks! --Episode 120
Amy talks with sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey in this 'can't miss' episode. Leah Carey Sex & Intimacy Coach - https://www.leahcarey.com/ My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go!  Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. Birds & Bees & Kids Website BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)  Facebook Instagram
Jun 8, 2022
43 min
Fertilization -- Episode 119
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain fertilization. Show notes: Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It  Great Amaze video about fertilization for your kids Oklahoma Democratic Party for your $10 donation and yes, I made a donation! --  Want more help?  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.  Use coupon code BIRDS for $30 off.
Jun 1, 2022
5 min
Mom's evolving values and early puberty? -- Episode 118
In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who is changing her own values about sexuality.  Also how early is early puberty? Want more help? The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code BIRDS for $30 off. Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/sex-talks-with-tweens-by-amy-lang/
May 25, 2022
31 min
Polyamory -- Episode 117
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain polyamory. Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Want more help? The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code BIRDS for $30 off.
May 18, 2022
4 min
Are sleepovers with kids of different sex orientations okay?  Is TikTok empowering girls?  And some thoughts on douche bags -- Episode 116
In this episode, Amy gives her thoughts about TikTok and sleepovers.  She also addresses 'douche bag' slang. The Dangerous Experiment on Teen Girls The Power Of Fun How to Break Up with Your Phone  
May 11, 2022
16 min
Growth spurts -- Episode 115
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain growth spurts.
May 4, 2022
5 min
Gay guy and his gal-pal sexually bullied by 10-year-olds. True story. -- Episode 114
In this episode, Amy interviews two college students about their weird experience with a group of young kids. Be a Positive Bystander What Is Sexual Bullying and Why Do Kids Engage in It?
Apr 27, 2022
37 min
The 'ask first' rule -- Episode 113
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain the 'ask first' rule.   Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore Consent for Kids Your Whole Body Book Sites for parents Savvy Parents Safe Kids Consent Parenting My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go!  Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. Birds & Bees & Kids Website BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)  Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)  Facebook Instagram
Apr 20, 2022
4 min
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