In this episode, Shiree and guest Melonie Mullen explore the difference between low-hanging fruit and high-hanging fruit—the thoughts and emotions that come easily versus the higher, more rewarding perspectives that often require intentional effort.It can be easy to reach for discouragement, negativity, regret, or focusing on what is missing. But reaching higher may lead us toward forgiveness, acceptance, peace, gratitude, and a more eternal perspective.Together, they discuss how shifting our focus can change the way we see our lives, our challenges, and even the choices of the people we love. Especially when someone we love has chosen a different path, learning to honor agency, let go of what we cannot control, and reach for a higher perspective can bring greater peace and joy.Sometimes the most meaningful fruit isn't the easiest to reach for—but it may be exactly what nourishes us most.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

We all make assumptions—about what our loved ones are thinking, why they act the way they do, and even what God is doing in their lives. But what happens when those assumptions aren’t true?In this episode, we’ll look at how assumptions can quietly lead to judgment, misunderstanding, and damaged relationships—especially when someone we love has left the faith.You’ll discover six simple ways to replace assumptions and judgment with compassion, curiosity, kindness, and greater trust in God.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

Why are so many people leaving the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—and what can we do about it?In this episode, Shiree talks with Jeff Strong, author of Torn, about his deeply researched exploration of Latter-day Saint disaffiliation. Jeff shares what he discovered through years of research, thousands of interviews, and his own family’s experience with a loved one leaving the Church.They discuss why people leave, the role church culture can play, and how we can respond with greater understanding, faith, and love. Most importantly, Jeff offers practical hope for navigating religious differences without losing the relationships that matter most.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

Have you ever been absolutely sure you understood why someone made a choice—only to discover you didn’t know their whole story?Shiree shares a powerful story about a woman had a bishop she once disliked and how learning more about his story completely changed the way she saw him.Shiree also shares her own surprising discovery about judgment—and why she realized she had a blind spot she couldn’t even see.Could we be doing the same thing with loved ones who have left the faith?This episode invites us to look honestly at our own hearts, distinguish righteous judgment from unrighteous judgment, and consider what might happen if we replaced judgment with curiosity and love.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

On this episode, guest Tony Faber shares his journey of learning to love his children without trying to control their choices. As a father of nine, Tony has experienced the complexity of family, faith, adoption, and watching children make decisions that differ from his own beliefs. Tony opens up about how recognizing his own need for Jesus changed the way he viewed his role as a parent. Rather than seeing his children as people he must “save,” he began to see them as Heavenly Father’s children—people he is called to love, support, and trust God with. Love doesn’t require agreement. And letting go of control doesn’t mean letting go of hope.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

When someone we love leaves the faith we once shared, it can be easy to focus on what we’ve lost—and wonder, “Where are my blessings?”In this episode, Shiree explores the principle of compensating blessings: the idea that when we are deprived of something we deeply desire, the Lord can bless us in other ways. Sometimes those blessings come immediately. Sometimes they are subtle. And sometimes we may not recognize them until we look back.Shiree shares personal examples of compensating blessings she has discovered in her own family, along with stories and teachings from Church leaders and scripture. Most importantly, she invites you to look at your own life with new eyes and ask:“What blessings have I been given that I might not have recognized?”If you are struggling with the choices of someone you love, this episode may help you see that God has not forgotten you.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

What happens when someone you love no longer shares your faith?For many families, those conversations quickly become emotional, painful, and sometimes relationship-changing. But they don't have to.In this episode, Shiree sits down with Joseph Grenny, New York Times bestselling author of Crucial Conversations, to discuss what actually happens when families talk about faith differences—and why even the most devoted family members often have the hardest time getting these conversations right.Joseph shares practical tools for staying emotionally grounded, recognizing the stories we tell ourselves, and responding in ways that strengthen relationships instead of damaging them.Whether you're navigating a loved one's faith transition, family conflict, or any emotionally charged conversation, this episode offers hope and practical skills you can begin using today.Connect with Shiree at [email protected] the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠

Family estrangement can leave behind questions that never seem to have answers.In Part 2 of this series, Shiree explores two additional reasons why someone may choose to cut off contact with family—insights that emerged after conversations with listeners who have lived this painful experience. While every situation is unique, these perspectives may help you better understand what could be happening beneath the surface.More importantly, this episode offers hope. You'll learn practical, faith-centered principles that can help you grieve, find peace, and begin healing—even when reconciliation isn't possible.If you haven't already, be sure to listen to Part 1 -When a Loved One Cuts You Off, before diving into this episode.Link to Part 1 - When a Loved One Cuts You OffJoin the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠Email Shiree at [email protected]

Have you ever wondered if you've made too many parenting mistakes? If you've ever worried that you've somehow "wired" your children wrong, this conversation is for you.Cherise Weber shares how growing up without a healthy example of parenting fueled her determination to do better for her own children. But despite her best efforts, she reached a point of deep discouragement—until a quiet, life-changing moment with God transformed the way she saw herself, her children, and parenting itself.This episode is a reminder that parenting isn't about perfection. It's about learning, repairing, and trusting that God gives us endless opportunities to love, grow, and begin again.Join the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠Email Shiree at [email protected]

When someone you love leaves the faith, the grief can feel overwhelming—almost like losing them, even though they are still here. In this deeply personal episode, Shiree shares her own experience and how that heartbreaking journey taught her an important truth: the deepest pain does not last forever.Drawing on her experiences as the mother of children who have stepped away from the gospel, Shiree offers hope to those carrying the heavy burden of faith-related loss. She explores what we know—and don't know—about God's plan, the promises of eternal families, and why trusting the Savior can bring peace even when answers are incomplete.Join the⁠ "Just Love Them" Facebook group⁠Email Shiree at [email protected]