THIS EPISODE ISN’T ABOUT MOTIVATION — IT’S ABOUT THE SENTENCES THAT FOUND ME WHEN LIFE WASN’T MAKING SENSE.THE ONES THAT STUCK. THE ONES THAT AGED WITH ME. THE ONES THAT QUIET THE NOISE WHEN MY BRAIN STARTS SPIRALING AND EVERYTHING FEELS HEAVY FOR NO REASON.

In this episode, me and Jazyerra get real about love languages — how they actually play out in real life, from dating to friendships to work. It’s a mix of laughs, hard truths, and a few “damn, that’s me” moments.

IN THIS EPISODE, I POLITELY (KIND OF) SUGGEST YOU STOP BLAMING YOUR MOM, YOUR EX, YOUR BOSS, AND YOUR ZODIAC SIGN FOR EVERYTHING.WE TALK ABOUT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SELF-AWARENESS AND ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING WITH IT.

Peace isn’t a prize you win for surviving chaos. It’s a glass egg you have to protect daily — even from yourself. In this episode, I break down how “protecting my peace” became the most performative phrase on the internet, the difference between healing and hiding, and why your nervous system might not trust quiet if you were raised in noise. We’re getting into emotional discipline, fake self-care, and what peace actually looks like in real life — not just on your feed.

LIFE STRETCHES YOU. THIS EPISODE’S ABOUT COMING BACK.NOT PERFECT — JUST WHOLE. WELCOME TO THE RUBBERBAND METHOD.

Ever felt like you were spiraling but didn’t know how you got there? This episode is all about the power of perspective, emotional nutrition, and learning to catch yourself before you slip too far. Your mind eats too — make sure you’re feeding it something real.

In this episode, I stir the pot just enough to make you uncomfortable — but in a fun way. Sometimes a little chaos is good for the soul, so pull up a chair while I unpack the conversations I’m tired of ranting about in the group chat.

Stuck in your 20s feels harmless until you realize “harmless” doesn’t pay bills, build discipline, or get you any closer to the life you actually want. In this episode, I’m unpacking the hard, inconvenient lessons that slapped me into reality — from people-pleasing disguised as loyalty, to the social consequences of growth, to finally choosing myself over everybody else’s emergencies. It’s a mix of truth, humor, and that uncomfortable self-awareness you can’t un-hear once it hits. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to get unstuck, this might be the one you didn’t want but probably need.

It's been a long time... 2 years almost exactly since an episode of It's Not That Deep. My sabbatical from the show came with a lot of growth, inner work, chaos, frustration, life changes and tons of procrastination. Well, I decided that I want change in my life for the better and that starts with showing up, one day at a time.Welcome to season 2 (woah!) of It's Not That Deep. We'll spend the first episode catching up on the who, what, where, when, why and how. I promise this season is going to be amazing! If you're new, WELCOME! If you're just joining, come on in! Season 2...finally... starts... NOW!

Welcome to the season 1 finale of It's Not That Deep! In this episode, recorded during Mercury's Retrograde, we're going to rant about anything and everything. It's chaotic, it's jumbled, it's the inside of my mind!