In-Bodied
In-Bodied
Tracy Kerkhoff
Welcome to In-Bodied with Tracy Kerkhoff, the podcast for women in their 40s who are done shrinking, done people-pleasing, and so ready to reclaim their glow.If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought “Who even is she?” … this is your space. We’re talking perimenopause hormones (and all the messy feels that come with them), mom-life meltdowns, marriages that need more spark, and yes sex, self-worth, and finding yourself again in the middle of it all.This isn’t about chasing your 20s. It’s about owning your 40s stronger, wiser, sexier, and more in-bodied than ever.Expect raw, real talk with zero filters. Some days it’ll feel like a pep talk from your life coach, and some days like a wine-night vent session with your girlfriends. Either way, you’ll leave remembering this: your spark isn’t gone it’s just waiting for you to claim it back.
Ep18 Worthiness, Attachment and The Art of Letting Go
Worthiness, Attachment & the Art of Letting Go In this episode of In-Bodied, we’re talking about something most of us avoid—but desperately need to face: worthiness. So many women say they want to detach, let go, or stop being anxiously attached… but the truth is, detachment doesn’t happen through willpower. It happens through radical honesty. If we can’t admit how unworthy we feel beneath the surface how much we seek validation, reassurance, or proof that we matter we stay stuck repeatin...
Jan 22
24 min
Ep17 Acceptance Changing and Moving Forward
Acceptance, Aging & Moving Forward In today’s episode, I’m sharing a real, honest conversation about acceptance and aging and what it actually means to move forward instead of trying to go back. At some point in midlife, we realize the truth: We can’t go back to the body we had, the face we had, or the version of ourselves that existed in a different season of life. And while that realization can feel heavy at first, it can also be incredibly freeing. This episode is a reminder that acc...
Jan 8
24 min
Ep16 Anxious Attachment and Codependency
In this powerful episode, Tracy breaks down what anxious attachment really is, why so many midlife women struggle with it, and how it turns into codependency, over-functioning, people-pleasing, emotional spirals, and relationship confusion. You’ll learn WHY your nervous system keeps looping old patterns, why perimenopause intensifies attachment wounds, and how this season of life is actually the invitation to become the most powerful, self-led version of yourself. This is your permission slip...
Dec 4, 2025
33 min
Ep15 Boundaries, Queen Energy, Manifesting Without Waiting
Boundaries, Queen Energy & Manifesting Without Waiting Today’s episode was totally impromptu I felt called to sit down and share a few personal stories about how to set boundaries like a queen and what it actually looks like to hold them without guilt, shrinking, or over-explaining. We also dive into manifestation in real time not the slow, passive, “wait and hope” kind. But the version where you decide exactly what you want, shift your energy, and call it in FAST. In this episode, we g...
Nov 19, 2025
29 min
Ep14 The Missing Piece- Learning to Receive
In this episode, Tracy dives deep into one of the hardest but most transformational shifts for midlife women learning how to receive. For decades, we’ve been programmed to perform, push, and prove our worth as mothers, partners, professionals, and caretakers. But perimenopause changes everything. Your body, your energy, and your emotions all start asking for something different: ease, softness, and authenticity. Tracy shares the truth about what’s keeping women stuck in over-functioni...
Nov 12, 2025
26 min
Ep13 The Space Between Who You Were and Who You are Becoming
In this episode, Tracy dives into the grief that comes with outgrowing who you used to be. This is for every woman standing in the liminal space that in-between of endings and beginnings learning to trust the unknown. You’re not broken, you’re becoming. ✨ Pre-order the Reclaim Her Journal and find free support for anxiety, hormones, and midlife healing at http://www.thefitmomproject.com
Nov 3, 2025
29 min
Ep12 Queen Energy Glow Up Codes - 12 Steps to Reclaim Your Feminine Power
In this powerful episode, Tracy shares the Queen Energy Glow-Up Codes — a 12-step framework to help women rise back into their worth, softness, and strength. This isn’t about perfection or hustle; it’s about remembering who you are at your core. You’ll learn how to release control, reconnect to your feminine flow, and lead your life from peace, presence, and deep self-worth. What You’ll Hear: • Why soft power is your greatest strength. • &n...
Oct 30, 2025
26 min
Ep11 The Wounded Little Girl the Body Never Forgets
In this episode, Tracy goes deep into the emotional and energetic layers of midlife healing the part no one warned you about. This isn’t just hormones. It’s the body remembering what your mind has long tried to forget. We talk about the “wounded little girl” inside every woman the one who learned to stay small, to earn love, to be the good girl — and how she begins to rise during perimenopause. The emotions, the tears, the rage… it’s not weakness. It’s wisdom surfacing through the...
Oct 25, 2025
39 min
Ep10 The Moment you Start Choosing Yourself
This episode is about the moment everything shifts the moment you decide your peace, your energy, and your worth are no longer negotiable. We’ll explore what it means to reclaim your wholeness, to stop saying “yes” when your soul is screaming “no,” and to finally recognize that self-abandonment is not love it’s survival mode. When you choose yourself, you break the generational pattern of people-pleasing, exhaustion, and quiet resentment. You remember that boundaries aren’t walls—they’re in...
Oct 21, 2025
29 min
Ep9 Stop Shrinking to Fit Small Spaces
In this episode, Tracy gets raw and real about one of the most common midlife patternsshrinking. Shrinking your voice. Shrinking your needs. Shrinking your light to make everyone else comfortable. This conversation is for every woman who’s ever been told she’s “too much,” who’s spent her life trying to fit into boxes that were never built for her. It’s time to unlearn the good girl conditioning, release the guilt, and expand into your full power. Tracy walks you through how to reconnect with ...
Oct 16, 2025
21 min
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