Imperfectly Poly
Imperfectly Poly
Imperfect Podcasts
This is the Imperfectly Poly Podcast where I'm talking about being a polyamorous man going through life and trying to navigate the ups, downs and circles that come my way. This will just be my thoughts and perspectives on different aspects of life and this is not intended as a guide for how you should do poly or life in general. Instead this documents my thoughts and experiences in an attempt to normalize a lifestyle choice that is more common each day.
Happiness looks good on me
This week is a life update just bringing everyone back up to speed with what's been going on around here. Things have been good overall. Also, apparently I glow like a pregnant woman when I'm happy.
May 7, 2024
19 min
The Poly Perfection Trap
This week I talk about one of my personal sayings "progress, not perfection." I relate this concept to perfectionism in polyamory and relationships in general. Then I talk about how changing the focus away from perfection towards progress can help mental health significantly.
Apr 18, 2024
16 min
Compersion Myths and Tips
This week I talk about all things Compersion. I start with describing compersion and give examples of how compersion is not just for polyamorous relationships. Then I talk about some myths related to compersion and finally a few tips to help someone achieve compersion.
Apr 11, 2024
22 min
KTP and NRE w/ Chloe
In this episode, I have my lovely girlfriend Chloe on the show and we are talking about our first month together, how we support each other and how we have been navigating Kitchen Table Poly (KTP) dynamics along with managing our New Relationship Energy (NRE).
Apr 7, 2024
19 min
From Breadcrumbs to Follow Through
In this episode I'm talking about how dreams can still come true even when you think they died. I also talk about some experiences with breadcrumbing and explain what that term means. I talk about how my life is on an upswing and my dreams are finally coming true.
Mar 29, 2024
19 min
Coming out as poly w/ Danielle
Today I have my wife, Danielle, on as a special guest for us to talk about coming out. This is mostly us just telling our stories about coming out to family, friends and coworkers and sharing how they accepted or rejected us along the way.
Mar 16, 2024
35 min
Life Update: First Date
This is a little life update including my first week at IOP and a first date that I went on! Listen in for more details.
Mar 11, 2024
25 min
Needs and Offerings
A relationship is more that just what you get from a relationship but as importantly it also includes what you are able to offer the other person. In this episode, I talk about a little exercise to figure out your needs and offerings within a relationship and I encourage you to do this periodically, as these thing can change over time.
Mar 10, 2024
25 min
The Invisible Support System
You may not see it everyday, but the support systems are there. Reach out, be vulnerable and allow people to support you.In this Episode, I'm talking about a hard day I recently had and how people supported me through it.
Feb 29, 2024
28 min
My thoughts on Emotional Safety
As I have began thinking about finding another partner, I am reminded of the importance of emotional safety. This is just me chatting about my thoughts on Emotional Safety and why its important to me.
Feb 22, 2024
34 min
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