If it takes two to tango -- doesn't someone have to ask the other to dance first? In the world of romance, there's always a person who speaks up first or shows signs of interest so that the object of his or her desire is given the opportunity to reciprocate that interest. The question here is -- should men, or more masculine personalities, take on this responsibility? Or, are women, or more feminine personas, just as effective in shooting their shots without being labeled too aggressive?