I'm Not Gonna Lie
I'm Not Gonna Lie
Ashlei Cupid
"I'm Not Gonna Lie: A Podcast Diary" is your go-to podcast for real talk and honest reflections. Hosted by Ashlei Cupid, each episode delves into a mix of current events, entertainment news, health and wellness tips, travel stories, lifestyle advice, and spiritual musings. With a blend of personal anecdotes and insightful guest interviews, this podcast brings a unique and relatable perspective to every discussion. Tune in to stay informed, inspired, and entertained. Subscribe now to join the conversation and never miss an episode!
This Glow Up is Personal
This episode is for the version of you that’s tired, evolving, and quietly doing the work, because you know something greater is on the other side.We’re talking about what it really means to experience an internal glow-up. Not for show, not for validation — but to finally feel aligned with your energy, your values, and the life you’re working hard to create. I’ll share the rituals, reflections, and small daily shifts that have helped me feel more grounded, even when life felt uncertain or messy.This is your reminder that growth isn’t always loud — sometimes it looks like journaling at sunrise, protecting your peace, or finally honoring your boundaries.✨ Summer Tarot Readings Are Now Open:✨    •    5-card mini reading – $22 (quick clarity)    •    10-minute card pull – $33    •    15-card full session – $44💌 Email me to book: [email protected]✨ Shop my handmade herbal & spiritual products: spiritual bath blends, body oils, teas, and more at Century & Co.✨💫 Follow me on Instagram: @momentswithashlei 🌿 Shop the apothecary: @centuryand.co 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify — it helps more people find the show and join our healing community. 💛
Jun 12, 2025
16 min
Romanticize the Mess: Thriving When Life Feels Unclear
Sometimes life doesn’t offer us a straight path or clear answers — but that doesn’t mean we can’t still show up with beauty, intention, and trust.In this heart-to-heart episode, I’m sharing how I’ve been navigating the unknown with softness, joy, and rituals that ground me: daily tarot pulls, quiet journaling sessions, and savoring the little things like walks, music, and sacred self-care. If you’re in a season where clarity feels far away, this one’s for you.You’ll hear personal stories, practical advice, and a reminder that you don’t have to have it all figured out to bloom, thrive, or move forward. Life is still happening for you — even in the mess.🕯️ Let’s romanticize the process, not just the outcome. Let’s heal through intention, not perfection.✨ Tarot Reading Summer Specials (Limited Time Only)Need quick clarity or spiritual guidance? My Summer Tarot Specials are now OPEN!🔮 5-Card Mini Clarity Spread – $22 (perfect for quick insight)🔮 10-Minute Session – $33 (get grounded + connected fast)🔮 15-Card Full Reading – $44 (a full, intuitive deep-dive)To book, email me at [email protected]’s tap in and align with what’s meant for you this season. 💌✨ Let’s connect:✨Follow me on Instagram @momentswithashleiCheck out my online apothecary: www.centuryandco.comFollow my shop on Instagram @centuryandco.shoppeIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend and tag me on social media. I’d love to hear what resonated with you! 💛
Jun 4, 2025
15 min
Answering My Soul’s Calling — How the Earth Elements Guide Us
’m sharing what came up during one of my recent journaling and tarot sessions — a soft but powerful nudge from the universe to lean deeper into my soul’s calling. We’re talking about how tuning into your path isn’t always loud or linear, but it’s always connected to something greater.I also explore how the natural elements — earth, air, fire, and water — serve as mirrors and messengers on our healing journey. Whether it’s grounding through the earth, flowing with water, finding clarity in the air, or reigniting passion through fire, these energies are always speaking to us.This episode is a reminder that your alignment is sacred, your journey is valid, and nature holds powerful wisdom if we’re open to it.Tune in for a soft, soulful chat on:    •    Journaling insights and tarot reflections    •    Feeling into your divine plan    •    How each element can guide you back to clarity and intuition    •    Ways to reconnect with yourself using nature’s rhythmLet this episode meet you where you are. And if it resonates, share it with someone who might need a little reminder of their magic too.✨ Let’s connect:✨Follow me on Instagram @momentswithashleiCheck out my online apothecary: www.centuryandco.comFollow my shop on Instagram @centuryandco.shoppeIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend and tag me on social media. I’d love to hear what resonated with you! 💛🔮Feeling called to get a reading? Whether it’s clarity, confirmation, or just curiosity — trust that nudge.💌Email: [email protected]
Apr 30, 2025
14 min
Saying ‘No’ Without Explaining Myself: A Lesson in Boundaries
Why do we feel the need to explain every “no”?In this solo episode, I’m getting real about the emotional labor of constantly overexplaining ourselves—especially when it comes to protecting our energy.Whether it’s friendships, family, work, or dating—saying “no” shouldn’t come with guilt, fear, or a five-paragraph essay. I’m sharing how I learned to stop justifying my boundaries, trust my inner “no,” and choose peace over people-pleasing.This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to be accessible to everyone. You’re allowed to choose you—with no apology, no guilt, and no long story.✨ Let’s connect:Follow me on Instagram @momentswithashleiCheck out my online apothecary: www.centuryandco.comFollow my shop on Instagram @centuryandco.shoppeIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend and tag me on social media. I’d love to hear what resonated with you! 💛🔮Feeling called to get a reading? Whether it’s clarity, confirmation, or just curiosity — trust that nudge.💌Email: [email protected]💫Readings are $50 all April — email me to book.
Apr 23, 2025
17 min
🌿 Making space for the "Me" That's Emerging 🌿
This week, I'm getting real about navigating a quiet shift in my life: my 3-year-old son started school for the first time, and I'm learning what it means to hold space for myself in a new rhythm.This isn’t an episode about change—it’s about the emotional structure we need when life gets quiet. I'm sharing gentle wellness tips, grounding rituals, and honest reflections on identity, softness, and honoring the in-between seasons.Whether you’re a mom, a creator, a healer, or just someone figuring out what’s next—this episode is here to remind you:You don’t have to reinvent yourself. You have to re-meet yourself.✨ Let’s connect✨Follow me on Instagram @momentswithashleiCheck out my online apothecary: www.centuryandco.comFollow my shop on Instagram @centuryandco.shoppe🔮 Feeling called to get a reading? Whether it’s clarity, confirmation, or just curiosity — trust that nudge.💌 Email: [email protected]💫 Readings are $50 all April — DM me to book.If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend and tag me on social media. I’d love to hear what resonated with you! Thank you for listening 🎧
Apr 16, 2025
14 min
Would You Survive a Zombie Apocalypse? 🧟‍♀️
Okay, be honest—if the world actually turned into The Walking Dead, would you make it past Day 1? Would you be leading the group, surviving solo, or… would you be the reason we all get caught? 👀In this episode, we’re diving deep into survival instincts, mindset shifts, and what a zombie apocalypse can actually teach us about navigating real-life chaos. Because whether you’re running from walkers or running from your own fears, how you show up in tough moments says everything about you.So, let’s break it down—who would you be in the apocalypse? The fearless leader? The lone wolf? The strategist? Or the one making sure we all stay sane? And more importantly—how does that show up in your real life?🌿 Shop Century & Co.: www.centuryandco.com🌿 Book a Tarot Reading: [email protected] 🌿 Follow me on IG: @momentswithashlei🌿 Follow Century & Co. on IG: @centuryandco.shoppe
Apr 2, 2025
18 min
✨ Softness is a vibe… and we’re claiming it. ✨
Life’s been loud lately, hasn’t it? Between the chaos of the world and the pressure to always be “on,” I’ve been leaning into something softer — something sweeter. In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to embrace your soft era. Spoiler: it’s more than bubble baths and morning routines (though I love those too).We’re talking about slowing down, finding joy in the little things, and letting yourself just be. Whether that looks like sipping tea in silence, dancing in your living room, or finally giving yourself permission to rest… this is your reminder that softness is a birthright, not a luxury.Oh, and if you’re feeling called to deepen your self-care, check out my apothecary Century & Co. for herbal baths and healing teas — trust me, your soul will thank you. Plus, I’m offering 5-card tarot readings for $50 all April if you’re craving some clarity and guidance.🌿 Shop Century & Co.: www.centuryandco.com🌿 Book a Tarot Reading: [email protected]🌿 Follow me on IG: @momentswithashlei🌿 Follow Century & Co. on IG: @centuryandco.shoppeLet’s get soft, loves. You deserve it.
Mar 26, 2025
22 min
The Love We Have, The Love We Lose, The Love We Deserve
Love — it’s beautiful, messy, and one of the greatest teachers we’ll ever have. In this episode, I dive into the love we experience, the love we let go of, and most importantly, the love we deserve. After reading The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz, I found myself reflecting on what love really means — in relationships, in marriage, and in the relationship we have with ourselves. Whether you’re navigating new love, healing from heartbreak, or learning to soften into self-love, this episode is a gentle reminder that you are worthy of a love that feels like peace. Tune in for some heart-to-heart moments, personal stories, and a few tips to help you attract the love you deserve.Let’s keep the conversation going!✨ Connect with me on Instagram: @momentswithashlei🌿 Check out my apothecary: https://www.centuryandco.com/📖 Grab your copy of The Mastery of Love on Amazon: The Mastery of Love
Mar 19, 2025
28 min
healing,growing, and still momming
Motherhood is a beautiful, transformative journey—but it’s not the only part of who we are. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the healing that comes with motherhood, the importance of honoring our full identities, and how to give ourselves permission to grow beyond the role of “mom.” 🌿💛I’m sharing personal insights, practical tips, and affirmations to help you embrace the evolving version of yourself—without guilt. Because you deserve to thrive, not just survive.🎧 Tune in now and let’s talk about it!💫 Let’s Connect!✨ Shop my herbal skincare & wellness products at Century & Co.com ✨ Follow me on Instagram for more lifestyle & healing content: @momentswithashlei and @centuryandco.shoppe✨ March Special! Interested in booking a tarot reading? I’m offering a special deal this month! Email me at [email protected] to book.Tag me if you’re listening—I’d love to hear your thoughts! 💬💖
Feb 26, 2025
19 min
its never too late to reparent yourself
Sometimes, the healing journey requires us to become the parent we always needed. In this episode of I’m Not Gonna Lie with Ashlei Cupid, we’re diving deep into reparenting ourselves—what it means, why it’s important, and how we can start showing up for ourselves in the ways we may have missed growing up. Whether it’s learning to set boundaries, practicing self-compassion, or creating the emotional safety we never had, this conversation is all about reclaiming our power and nurturing the version of ourselves that deserves love, patience, and care.I’m sharing personal experiences, insights, and tips to help you start your reparenting journey today. Because healing isn’t about blame—it’s about growth, self-awareness, and stepping into the person we were always meant to be. Let’s continue the conversation:Follow me on Instagram @momentswithashleiCheck out my online apothecary Century & Co. for herbal blends, self-care essentials, and wellness products. Follow us on Instagram @centuryandco.shoppeTune in, take what resonates, and let’s keep healing together. 💛
Feb 19, 2025
14 min
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