Yes!!!! It's AUDREY, formely known as Ghana's Finest herself on this podcast with me. I also have my twin sister, Kenny with me and I'm so gassed for this week's episode. We talked about what it's like dating in our 20s vs dating in our 30s. Are grown men really more mature? Do you get flown out on an all expense paid trip to Dubai? Date nights in Italy? Or are men in their 30s really just as sloppy as men in their 20s? Do they flake on dates just like this small university boys? Audrey gives us the tea on all the shenanigans she got up to during her "bird days" as she calls it.   ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast Email - [email protected]  FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast Thanks for listening  :)  Kenny's Podcast & Socials https://linkkle.com/TossItOutPod  The Receipts Podcast Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3GMZiZnqL4Hib6DD5PGhdj?si=FpAc3wmYRCSKP3-fIfBuyA  Book Pre-order - https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1472282574/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1603190251&sr=8-2&tag=smarturl-gb-21  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

I had sooo much fun recording this! This podcast is a reaction to a couple of Dating & Relationship advice I found on YouTube. It includes advice on Communicating your standards, Giving 100% in a relationship, and the concept of Independent vs Co-dependence. I rated each statement on a scale of 1-10 and gave my own little input about whether or not I agree with these dating experts. ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast Thanks for listening  :) Disclaimer: Some of the audios used in this podcast are not mine. No copyright infringement intended! Copyright Owners: - Matthew Hussey - Stephan Speaks - Audrey, Milena & TollyT of The Receipts Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

On this episode, my two guests and I debated whether or not it is racist to say I DON'T DATE *INSERT RACE*, or if only specific groups of people can get away with always sticking to their race *coughs Asians* :)  We also discussed how white men perceive different types of black women and if there is a preference for specific looks or traits. Lastly, we touched on the "pretty for a black girl" phrase and how degrading that is.  ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)  Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod     OR    Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast     FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast      Thanks for listening  :) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

This podcast isn't just about how to get over a breakup, it's about how to prepare and get yourself ready for a more suitable match for you!  Who exactly qualifies as an ex? How soon should you move on after a relationship has ended? Is the heartbreaker always the one to move on the quickest? Should you try and wean yourself off of your ex or should you straight up go cold turkey?  Professional Relationship Coach - Alison Wellington from the U.S talks about the struggles we all go through during a breakup, as well as how to actually move on and never look back.  ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :)  Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod    OR    Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast     Email - [email protected] FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast      Alison Wellington's Socials: Instagram - @alignwithalison Twitter - @alignwithalison Facebook - @alignwithalison Youtube - @alignwithalison Thanks for listening! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

3 beautiful black girls having a candid and honest discussion about what it's like to date as black women in the UK. We talked about dating outside our races and the misconceptions of interracial relationships especially when a black woman is involved. Whether or not black men have it easier in the dating world. Flirting with boys or waiting for them to make the first move. Being raised in an African household only to take care of our future black husbands... It's all in there somewhere. I hope you ENJOYYYY it :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod   OR   Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast    FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast     Thanks for listening and don't forget to share :) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

NO ONE WORKS EXTRA HARD TO KEEP SOMETHING THEY CAN EASILY REPLACE!!!! When you have something that doesn't seem of great value to you, you treat it differently to something that feels like a prize or a luxury to have. The same mentality can be applied to DATING OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. If you date down, you run the risk of not ever being content, whilst also making your partner feel inadequate. If you date up, you find yourself constantly trying to be worthy of your partner and trying extra hard to level up and please them. So should you always date EQUALLLL?  Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod   OR   Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast    FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast     Thanks for listening and don't forget to share :) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

Good things come to those who wait.. but this definitely doesn't apply to men cuz if you wait too long, there just wouldn't be anyone left :)  It is seen as the norm for men to do the chasing and asking out. But is this dating culture outdated? Do guys like it when girls ask them out, or does it make them uncomfortable? What are the pros and cons of girls MAKING THE FIRST MOVE? ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod  OR  Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast   FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast    Thanks for listening :)   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

Another girllll chat 😁 (Part 2 is coming soon for the boys don't worry)  On this episode, my guest and I had an in-depth discussion about what it's like DATING IN OUR 20s compared to dating in our teens. We talked about the pressure placed on women especially, to be married at 30, whereas a man is free to be a Bachelor for Life! 😅 Is the fairy-tale narrative of love fake? I don't know.. You tell me 🙂  We also touched on the concept of living your best life single, as opposed to being married and having kids. Lastly we described how our taste in men has changed over the years. ENJOYYY!!! And don't forget to share with your friends and family😊 Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast  FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast   Thanks for listening :) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

"How to bag the second date with the man or the girl of your dreams"... I know that just sounded like a TedTalk haha. But nahh, It's just banter y'all 🥰 On this episode, I talked about 8 things you could do that'd definitely get you past the first date hurdles and into the arms of your hot stud 😜 I hope you enjoy listening to this as much as I did recording it. If you love my podcast, don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast  Thanks for listening :)  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message

The Ultimate Girl Chat!!! This episode pretty much sums up the conversations us girls have when we get together. So think of this an an Exclusive content for the non-female listeners haha :) My guests and I discussed the Iconic Catchphrase "WE WERE ON A BREAKKKKKKK" from the sitcom "FRIENDS", and went ahead to clarify the difference between a "Break" and a "Breakup". In light of the Jada Smith situationship, we can no longer talk about Open Relationships without mentioning "Entanglements" LOL! ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share with your friends :) Have a say by using the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast to Support or Oppose the debate that Ross "cheated" on Rachel!!!  FIND ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast  Thanks for listening :)  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst/message