You can live your whole life pecking at the ground and still be an eagle. That's the uncomfortable question at the center of this one. We unpack an old parable about an eagle raised in a chicken coop, and then trace how the exact same thing happens to us, quietly, through conditioning and culture and the roles we learn to play before we're old enough to question them. We get into the real difference between identity and personality, identity being the core of who you actually are, perso...