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Drew Boa
Try Softer, Not Harder (with Aundi Kolber)
40 minutes Posted May 18, 2026 at 3:00 pm.
Welcome And Try Softer Preview
Meet Andi Kolber And Her Why
Surviving Through White Knuckling
Porn As A Strategy For Pain
Window Of Tolerance And Relapse Risk
Grounding And Self-Compassion Practice
Finding Safety And Places To Exhale
God With Us In The Mess
Links And Closing Blessing
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Instead of trying harder, what would it look like to try softer? Author and counselor Aundi Kolber guides us into compassionate attention so that we can reconnect with our bodies, heal from trauma, and outgrow porn. You'll also hear how God relates to us in the middle of our mess with in-process miracles along the way. Aundi Kolber is a licensed professional counselor (MA, LPC) and bestselling author of the critically acclaimed "Try Softer" as well as "Strong like Water." She has receiv...