Husband Material
Husband Material
Drew Boa
Why Men Need Men (with Tom Zuniga)
31 minutes Posted Feb 16, 2026 at 3:00 pm.
Welcome & Today’s Focus
Meet Tom Zuniga & YOB
Why Brotherhood Is Essential
Tom’s Early Loneliness
Coming Out To Family
Finding Community Online
Founding Your Other Brothers
Singleness In The Church
Where Do I Fit On Sundays
Chosen Family & Belonging
Friendship Love On Par With Romance
Lifting Friendship Without Dismissing Marriage
Beyond Porn: Deeper Healing
Attraction, Gyms, And Safety
What Builds Real Community
The Abundance Of Friendship
How To Connect With YOB
Closing Blessing
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Men need men. In this episode, Tom Zuniga champions the value of brotherhood and "chosen family"—especially in a culture where romantic marriage seems like the only place where intimacy is possible. Tom shares his story of growing up feeling lonely and different, experiencing same-sex attraction, and discovering the beauty of following Jesus in community with other men. Tom Zuniga is the Director of Your Other Brothers, a community where Christian men are navigating matters of faith, sexualit...