What do wrapping cables, a fake proposal, and Saw III have in common? They all played a part in making our relationship happen. In honor of Valentine’s Day, February, and love, we journey back to where it all started. What do you do when you don’t know where a relationship might lead?

Diving right in: what do you do in a marriage where one person wants to talk and process out loud and the other person, well, doesn’t? Also, yes, Sherlock is over.

We’re back! Talking about Mike’s panic attack, Kirsten’s brownie mix, and two situations in which Mike found himself without pants when they were dating.

Does your spouse need a break? Do YOU need a break? In today's podcast, we talk about what time looked like for us before and after kids, and what we've intentionally made time for to keep ourselves and each other from feeling like we're losing it. 😂 We also cover that time we had a kid, how Kirsten got sucked back into a classic cult fiction series, and why this podcast could end up being a once a year thing. howtoreallife.me

Is your spouse your friend? In this episode of How To Real Life, we talk about the importance of friendship in a marriage: why it might seem obvious until you really break it down, and ideas on how to stay friends once you’re married. howtoreallife.me

Mike & Kir share the heart behind their brand new podcast, how it got started and where they going with. #HowToRealLife Check out the 31 Creative Ways book by Jeff and Alyssa Bethke. howtoreallife.me