Do we choose the Hot Mess lifestyle or did the Hot Mess lifestyle choose us? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

She's had a rebrand baby so welcome to Hot Mess Diaries. Releasing twice a week, once for chats & topics and once for your Dear Diary Hot Mess entries. I look forward to being in your ears. Resources for your mental health: Lifeline: https://lifeline.org.au Beyond Blue: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

OK guys, I know I haven't really been around much for a girl who literally released a podcast so here's so insight into the year that's been.  Manifesting good vibes for 2023 - 2022 couldn't have done me dirtier.  If you want to send through your questions (don't have to be heartbreak related) DM me! Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok, BeReal and find her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

Spilling the tea here but we can't have a Hot Girl Heartbreak without getting to the roots so here you go! Was it my first love?  Am I a narcissist? Guess you'll have to listen to find out... If you want to send through your questions (don't have to be heartbreak related) DM me! Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok, BeReal and find her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

You guys sent in your sticky situations and let me tell you, these are like honey stuck in your pantry!  We also talk about a random guy I met on the train and Oliva Molly Rogers marriage breakdown after 8 months!  If you want to send through your questions (don't have to be heartbreak related) DM me! Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok, BeReal and fine her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

This week we bring you HGHB's first ever guest, my niece - Sharlotte.  Strap yourself in, make Sharlotte's mishaps feel better about your life, and play a fun game of He's a 10 But... the TikTok trend that got everyone talking.  If you want to send through your questions (don't have to be heartbreak related) DM me! Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok, BeReal and fine her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes Follow Sharlotte on Insta - @v33nu5 and TikTok - @bitchygiinger --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

OK but the one thing we know about relationships is that you can always have another. This episode is all about the steps I took to better myself and be the best version of myself for my new relationship! We don't want to be the toxic ex that they talk about in the future so her are some steps how.  If you want to send through your questions (don't have to be heartbreak related) DM me!  Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok, BeReal and fine her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

She hibernated over the winter and avoided embarrassing herself with terrible audio, but she's back!  You lil' nosey nelly's sent through some questions you wanted answered surround my break up so here you go.  Please share this podcast, download, send me pictures of where you're listening and I'll be back in your ears next week!  Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok and find her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message

In the wise words of Queen Grande, "break up with your boyfriend" (unless your in a healthy relationship that promotes growth, comfort and positivity but that wasn't me and this is my podcast so...).  A lil' intro to your host, Tash, and how she navigated her recent break up.  Follow @tashoakes on Insta, TikTok and find her on YouTube - Natasha Oakes.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/natasha-oakes/message