There is no honour in making promises you can't or don't intend to keep. You'll have to carry them knowing you were not interested or just didn't want to take part in it. A quick and easier way to get yourself out of these plans is not to say yes and then find an excuse or theoretically kill a cat but to rather say no. Yep, it is that simple. Be firm and straightforward; you'll be respected more, you'll have to answer once and you'll feel better about yourself. Let your words be of worth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/honesthintsbyjentlefhiqs/support