​She's forgotten about you.​ That's because you waited too long to call / text. This ​is the worst advice I hear men ​spew. "Wait ​3 days before you call her. Otherwise, you look needy." DON'T. DO. THAT. ​Following this advice will hurt you.

Who pays for the first date, you or her? The answer is you but let's explore why this helps you in the long run with several advantageous stereotypes.

Taking her to expensive restaurants and movies is a terrible idea. You're not optimizing for a good first date. Let's talk about making a good one happen.